We introduce a widefield CARS microscope implementation that uses a spatial light modulator to obtain extremely precise control over the pump/probe-beam incidence geometry, which provides the possibility to enhance the image contrast at specific target resonances by fine-tuning the incidence angles. We show how this technique can be used to optimize the image contrast between objects of different size and to practically eliminate the undesired signal from the solvent that embeds small target specimens. Changing the numerical aperture of the illumination from 1.27 to 1.24 improved the ratio of the signals of 500 nm polystyrene beads and the agarose solvent by about 20 dB.