Subcomponent self-assembly of two isomeric bis(3-aminophenyl)pyrenes, 2-formylpyridine and the metal ions Fe(II), Co(II), and Zn(II) led to the formation of two previously unidentified structure types: a C2-symmetric M(II)4L6 assembly with meridionally coordinated metal centers, and a C3-symmetric self-included M(II)4L6 assembly with facially coordinated metal centers. In both structures the meta linkages within the ligands facilitate π-stacking between the pyrene panels of the ligands. A C2h-symmetric M(II)2L2 box was also obtained, which was observed to selectively bind electron-deficient aromatic guests between two parallel pyrene subunits. Similar donor-acceptor interactions drove the selective self-assembly of a singular M(II)4L4L'2 architecture incorporating both a pyrene-containing diamine and an electron-deficient NDI-based diamine. This heteroleptic architecture was shown to be thermodynamically favored over the corresponding homoleptic M(II)4L6 and M(II)4L'6 complexes, which were nonetheless stable in each others' absence. By contrast, an isomeric pyrene-based diamine was observed to undergo narcissistic self-sorting in the presence of the NDI-based diamine.