Withholding Information to Protect a Loved One

Pediatrics. 2016 Jun;137(6):e20160665. doi: 10.1542/peds.2016-0665. Epub 2016 May 12.

Abstract

Parents respond to the death of a child in very different ways. Some parents may be violent or angry, some sad and tearful, some quiet and withdrawn, and some frankly delusional. We present a case in which a father's reaction to his daughter's death is a desire to protect his wife from the stressful information. The wife is in the second trimester of a high-risk pregnancy and so is particularly fragile. We asked pediatricians and bioethicists to discuss the ways in which they might respond to the father's understandable but troubling request.

MeSH terms

  • Child
  • Death*
  • Family Relations / psychology
  • Fathers
  • Female
  • Humans
  • Leukemia, Myeloid, Acute
  • Male
  • Mothers
  • Patient Care Team
  • Pregnancy
  • Spouses / psychology*
  • Truth Disclosure / ethics*