The transport properties of high-temperature silicate melts control magma flow and are crucial for a wide variety of industrial processes involving minerals. However, anomalous melt properties have been observed that cannot be explained by the traditional polymerization degree theory, which was derived based on quenched melts. Ab initio molecular dynamics (AIMD) simulations were conducted to investigate the flow mechanism of CaO-Al2O3-SiO2 melts under high temperature atmospheric conditions. By analyzing the dynamic structure of melted silicates and employing molecular orbital theory, we gained a fundamental understanding of the flow mechanism from a chemistry perspective. Transient tri-coordinated oxygen (TO) bonded with one Si and two Al atoms (SiOAl2) was found to be a pivotal intermediate in melt flow and atomic diffusion processes. Frequent chemical transition between TO in SiOAl2 and bridging oxygen (BO) dominated the fluidity of melted silicates. The presence of such transitions is facilitated by the unstable nature of [SiAlO2] 4-membered rings, which are susceptible to instability due to the intense repulsion between the O 2p lone pairs and the excessively bent O-Al-O angle. Additionally, the density of SiOAl2 type TO motif could serve as an indicator to determine the relationship between structure and fluidity. Our results challenge the traditional polymerization degree theory and suggest the need to reassess high-temperature liquid properties that govern processes in the Earth and industry by monitoring transient motifs.