Expressing Sexuality in Silent and Weep: Experience of Chinese People With Intellectual Disabilities and Parents

J Appl Res Intellect Disabil. 2025 Jan;38(1):e70008. doi: 10.1111/jar.70008.

Abstract

Background: Sexual well-being significantly impacts the overall quality of life for individuals with and without intellectual disabilities. Notably, parents play a pivotal role in influencing their children's sexual development, and their attitudes towards this topic are shaped by Chinese sociocultural values.

Methods: This study employed Interpretative phenomenological analysis to explore the experiences and attitudes of five individuals with intellectual disabilities and seven parents/caregivers regarding the sexual needs of their adult offspring with intellectual disabilities.

Results: The findings revealed participants' experiences and concerns, often navigating the challenges posed by traditional Chinese cultural restrictions through responses characterised as 'Silent' (avoidance of discussion) and 'Weep' (deep-seated psycho-emotional burden).

Conclusions: This research emphasises the importance of a pluralistic society and advocates for promoting sexual autonomy among individuals with intellectual disabilities. The findings have implications for future practises and highlight the need for a more inclusive and compassionate approach to their sexual well-being.

Keywords: Chinese meritocracy; filial piety; intellectual disabilities; parents; sexuality.

MeSH terms

  • Adult
  • China / ethnology
  • East Asian People
  • Female
  • Humans
  • Intellectual Disability* / ethnology
  • Male
  • Middle Aged
  • Parents* / psychology
  • Qualitative Research
  • Sexuality* / psychology
  • Young Adult

Supplementary concepts

  • Chinese people