It is natural to be concerned about your kid’s future as a parent. Moreover, this adds to the concern more when your child plans to study overseas. It is why you need to be prepared well in advance so you can assist your child in their journey. So, to begin with, create a to-do list to ensure you do not skip any crucial step. It might be a stressful process, but with proper planning and keeping calm, you can fulfill your child’s dream.
Here are the pointers to keep in mind while helping them out:
1. Stay Open to DiscussionsStaying open to discussions will be effective in two ways. First, you will explore what your child wants; second, you can evaluate their preferences to ease the overseas education process. To do this, you need to be an active listener more, than forcing them to follow the path you want them to take. So, it must be a discussion where they talk, and you listen.
2. Research Together to Stay on TrackGoing through a detailed research process is a must when your child is planning to study abroad. This will help you gather all the needed information and various updates during the entire procedure. It includes visa, accommodation, university deadlines and more. Thus, researching well will ensure you never miss anything due to a lack of knowledge.
3. Check Their Educational PreparationsKnowing what are the academic requirements and meeting them is a major thing that will help your child reach their study destination smoothly. It includes language skills and academic expertise that a country or course demands. So ensure your child stands still on the specifications to secure admission overseas.
4. Let Them Be Self-DependentMaking them independent will help them in the long run, so you need to focus on it. To do this, let them make their own decisions and encourage them to solve their issues. However, you need to be there during the entire process, but do not force your decisions on them.
5. Support Them EmotionallyThere is no doubt that you will be helping them in the financial matters, but what usually parents lack is being emotionally available for their kid. This is crucial as they might struggle and feel alone in a foreign land.
6. Plan Finances EffectivelyFinances are one of the most vital and tricky things to manage. This is why parents need to know all the expenses involved in studying abroad. Besides, look for scholarships and grants available that will help you manage finances for your kid. Moreover, prepare your child for saving and managing a budget before they travel overseas.
7. Ensure Their Health & SafetyHealth and safety is something that bothers parents most and it increases more when your kid is moving abroad. Thus, to reduce your stress, you need to educate them beforehand on how to keep themselves safe when alone in a foreign land. Besides, parents need to check the safety measures of the area where their kid will be staying.
8. Set Realistic GoalsThis is something most parents ignore or avoid. But it is as crucial as anything else. Without doing this, you might be adding unwanted pressure on your child making them stressed. Thus, you need to set goals or targets that are realistic and easily achievable by your younger one.
Sending your kid to study in a foreign land all alone is indeed an overwhelming task, but with proper planning you can reduce your stress.
(Authored by Mamta Shekhawat, Founder, gradding.com)