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Chartered Accountant • ACCA • 45k+ • EY • Content Creator - Groww • Public Speaker • Stage Artist • Anchor

You could stab me in the chest and I'd still apologize for getting blood on your clothes. I've been very apologetic all my life. “Sorry, I don't know the word for this." "Sorry, can you help with this?" Sorry this, sorry that—blah, blah. I might even set the Guinness World Record for saying 'sorry' the most times in a minute. While being polite and considerate is essential, I realized that over-apologizing undermined my confidence and diminished my presence in both personal and professional settings. Here are 3 steps I used to stop being overly apologetic: 1. Reframe My Language: Instead of the words "I'm sorry" when it is not necessary , I rather say "Can you clarify? I appreciate your knowledge," or "Thank you, ready and where shall we start?" in order to shift the statement from apology to appreciation. 2. Practice Affirmation: I remind myself of my worth—that my ideas and presence matter, and I don't need to apologize for taking up space. 3. Set boundaries: I inform and communicate assertively about what I need. It is okay to say no or even ask for what I need without feeling any kind of guilt attached to it. Remember, you deserve to be heard. You deserve to be respected. You don't have to apologize for asserting your rights. If you've been plagued by over-apologizing, what are the strategies that have helped you? #charteredaccountant #professionals

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Varun Chhaperwal

CA Finalist | | Certified option trader from Upsurge club |

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Agreed Pruthvi Mehta 🐦 I always try to set boundaries and say no to people but don't know why it stays only in my mind, 😕 I hope you'll share something how to start taking the first steps for this 🙌🙌🐦

Krishna Yadav

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Great perspective, Pruthvi I believe that practicing affirmation truly helps to remind self worth 😊

Sandesh Dholakia

World Bank Group | LinkedIn Top Voice | Ex- Clinton Foundation | Ex- Nomura Investment Strategy

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This is super helpful, Pruthvi.

Diksha Mittal

Knowledge@BCG | Hansraj'21 | Published Writer | Mentor & Speaker | I Help You Understand Economics, Finance & Personal Growth | Connect For Your Next Case Study Insight!

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Move from a submissive quadrant to a respective affirmative quadrant. Things will change automatically, one of the teaching that has sticked by me from my coach! Thanks for sharing this Pruthvi Mehta 🐦?

Ishan Gargav

CA Final (2nd Group cleared)

1w

Great insights Pruthvi Mehta 🐦 Generally we have this issue with us but the pointers you mentioned gonna be really helpful

Madhav Pangarkar

Helping Small & Mid Cap Companies, Business Owners & Coaches save taxes and plan finances | Leading Financial Consultant & Tax Advisor | 5+ years exp | Customized Financial Strategies for a 90-Day Transformation

1w

These are amazing insights Pruthvi! Practicing affirmations and setting effective boundaries will surely help..

SANTU SAHA

Co-Founder at Stocks Explore | Stock Market Trader | Passionate About Financial Analysis and Strategy | RA NISM Certified

1w

Great insights, Pruthvi Mehta 🐦! I've been working on this too. Reframing my language has made a big difference. Thanks for sharing!

Sahil Choudhary, CA

Top 1% Study Abroad & GMAT Advisor | 500+ sessions

1w

Very well highlighted! It's difficult to overcome such behaviour patterns!

Sachin Agrawal

CA | AIR 18 | ACCA | Linkedin 45K+

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Whatta a perspective! Pruthvi

Krishangi M.

Recruitpreneur || Technical Recruitment Specialist || HRBP || Unleashing Human Potential with 50K+ LinkedIn Followers

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Setting boundaries and valuing self-worth have truly made a difference for me too."

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