Surgical treatment of spinal deformities in infancy and early childhood (before age 6) is often very useful if the lesion is localized and curable by one unique surgery, such as hemivertebra resection and fusion. On the contrary, if the lesion, whether idiopathic or paralytic, is extended to a large part of the spine, early surgical treatment in infancy gives very disappointing results and often worsens the status of the child, especially respiratory function if the lesion is mainly thoracic. The goal of this paper is to explain in detail indications and management of non-surgical treatment of such lesions. These are variable according to localization, etiology, and associated anomalies, and are mainly based on proper casting (often repeated), bracing (often intermittent between casting) and proper respiratory equipment. From time to time, a surgical treatment is locally indicated, but most of the time results are disappointing and the best is to repeat non-surgical treatment until proper definitive arthrodesis can be performed. This approach is not very rewarding for the child and family, but is clearly better than sudden extensive surgery in early childhood with very severe and disastrous results in adulthood. It is our hope that the recommendations and thoughts presented in this paper will help readers to manage young children using the most efficient, non-aggressive, but long-lasting therapy.