We study the spreading of single-site excitations in one-dimensional disordered Klein-Gordon chains with tunable nonlinearity |u(l)|(σ)u(l) for different values of σ. We perform extensive numerical simulations where wave packets are evolved (a) without and (b) with dephasing in normal-mode space. Subdiffusive spreading is observed with the second moment of wave packets growing as t(α). The dependence of the numerically computed exponent α on σ is in very good agreement with our theoretical predictions both for the evolution of the wave packet with and without dephasing (for σ≥2 in the latter case). We discuss evidence of the existence of a regime of strong chaos and observe destruction of Anderson localization in the packet tails for small values of σ.