Acyclic diamino carbenes (ADCs) are interesting alternatives to their more widely studied N-heterocyclic carbene counterparts, particularly due to their greater synthetic accessibility and properties such as increased sigma donation and structural flexibility. ADC gold complexes are typically obtained through the reaction of equimolar amounts of primary/secondary amines on gold-coordinated isocyanide ligands. As such, the reaction of diamine nucleophiles to isocyanide gold complexes was expected to lead to bis-ADC gold compounds with potential applications in catalysis or as novel precursors for gold nanomaterials. However, the reaction of primary diamines with two equivalents of isocyanide gold chlorides resulted in only one of the amine groups reacting with the isocyanide carbon. The resulting ADC gold complexes bearing free amines dimerized via coordination of the amine to the partner gold atom, resulting in cyclic, dimeric gold complexes. In contrast, when secondary diamines were used, both amines reacted with an isocyanide carbon, leading to the expected bis-ADC gold complexes. Density functional theory calculations were performed to elucidate the differences in the reactivities between primary and secondary diamines. It was found that the primary amines were associated with higher reaction barriers than the secondary amines and hence slower reaction rates, with the formation of the second carbenes in the bis-ADC compounds being inhibitingly slow. It was also found that diamines have a unique reactivity due to the second amine serving as an internal proton shuttle.