Using ab initio approaches for extended Hubbard interactions coupled to phonons, we reveal that the intersite Coulomb interaction plays important roles in determining various distinctive phases of the paradigmatic charge-ordered materials of Ba_{1-x}K_{x}AO_{3} (A=Bi and Sb). We demonstrated that all their salient doping dependent experiment features such as breathing instabilities, anomalous phonon dispersions, and transition between charge-density wave and superconducting states can be accounted for very well if self-consistently obtained nearest neighbor Hubbard interactions are included, thus establishing a minimal criterion for reliable descriptions of spontaneous charge orders in solids.