My Place (song): Difference between revisions

Content deleted Content added
m Disambiguate Kim Johnson to Kim Johnson (musician) using popups
Updated
Tags: Mobile edit Mobile web edit
(40 intermediate revisions by 19 users not shown)
Line 1:
{{shortShort description|2004 single by Nelly}}
{{About|the Nelly song|other usessongs|My Place (disambiguation)}}
{{Refimprove|date=April 2014}}
{{Infobox song
| name = My Place
Line 9 ⟶ 8:
| artist = [[Nelly]] featuring [[Jaheim]]
| album = [[Suit (album)|Suit]]
| BA-side = "[[Flap Your Wings (song)|Flap Your Wings]]"
| released = July 17,{{start date|2004|7|19}}
| format recorded = [[CD single]]
| studio = {{ubl|Derrty (Los Angeles)|Platinum Sound Recording (New York City)}}
| recorded = 2003
| genre = <!-- Do not add unsourced genres -->{{hlist|[[Hip hop music|Hip hop]]|[[Contemporary R&B|R&B]]<ref name="Juon">{{cite web|first=Steve|last=Juon|url=http://www.rapreviews.com/archive/2004_09F_sweatsuit.html|title=Nelly's "Sweat" + 'Suit'|website=RapReviews.com|date=September 14, 2004|access-date=June 1, 2023}}</ref>}}
| studio =
| length = {{unbulleted list|5:36 (album version)|4:33 (radio edit)}}
| venue =
| genrelabel = {{hlist|[[ContemporaryUniversal R&BRecords|R&BUniversal]]|[[HipDerrty hop musicEntertainment|hip hopDerrty]]|Fo' Reel}}
| writer = {{hlist|Nelly|Dorian Moore|[[Randy Edelman]]|[[El DeBarge]]|[[Randy DeBarge|William DeBarge]]|[[Bunny DeBarge|Etterlene DeBarge]]|[[Gamble and Huff|Kenneth Gamble]]|[[Gamble and Huff|Leon Huff]]}}
| length = 5:36 {{small|(album version)}}<br/>4:33 {{small|(radio edit)}}
| label = [[Universal Records]]
| writer = {{hlist|Cornell Haynes, Jr.|Eldra DeBarge|Etterlene Jordan|Kenneth Gamble|Leon A. Huff|Randy Edelman|William DeBarge|[[Jaheim]]|D. Moore}}
| producer = Doe Mo' Beats
| chronology = [[Nelly]]
Line 25 ⟶ 22:
| next_title = [[Tilt Ya Head Back]]
| next_year = 2004
| misc = {{Extra chronology
| artist = [[Jaheim]]
| type = single
| prev_title = Diamond in da Ruff
| prev_year = 2003
| title = My Place
| year = 2004
| next_title = [[Everytime I Think About Her]]
| next_year = 2005
}}
}}
 
"'''My Place'''" is the a song by American rapper [[Nelly]] featuring [[Contemporary R&B|R&B]] singer [[Jaheim]]. It is the lead single from hisNelly's fourth studio album, ''[[Suit (album)|Suit]]'' (2004). ItThe featuressong [[Jaheim]].is about ItNelly was released asinviting a doublegirl A-sideover withto "[[Flaphis Yourhouse, Wingsand (song)|Flapthe Yourfemale Wings]]"backing invocals theare Unitedprovided Kingdom,by Ireland,Kim and New ZealandJohnson. The songtrack issamples aboutthree invitingsongs: a girl over to Nelly[[Labelle]]'s house."[[Isn't It reacheda numberShame]]", 4 on both the US[[DeBarge]]'s "[[BillboardI HotLike 100It (DeBarge song)|''Billboard''I HotLike 100It]]", and [[HotTeddy R&B/Hip-Hop SongsPendergrass]]'s charts,"Come andGo numberwith oneMe",<ref inname="uspcd"/> so the Unitedrespective Kingdom,songwriters Australia, andare Newgiven Zealandcredits.
 
"My Place" was released on July 19, 2004, to American radio. In the United Kingdom, Ireland, Australia, and New Zealand, the song was issued as a [[double A-side]] with "[[Flap Your Wings (song)|Flap Your Wings]]". Upon the single's release, it reached number four on the US [[Billboard Hot 100|''Billboard'' Hot 100]] and topped the charts in the United Kingdom, Australia, and New Zealand.
The main chorus samples [[Teddy Pendergrass]]' "Come Go with Me", and halfway through the song, it has a brief sample of [[DeBarge]]'s song "[[I Like It (DeBarge song)|I Like It]]" while the overall song features a sample of [[Labelle]]'s 1977 hit, "Isn't It a Shame". The female vocals are provided by Kim Johnson.
 
==Music video==
The [[music video was directed by [[Benny Boom|Benny Boom]]. startsThe atmusic video continues the last scene of the video for "[[Flap Your Wings (song)|Flap Your Wings]]",. [[Nelly]]'s girlfriend (Tyeshia Robinson) and her friends catch Nelly up the hill with a girl and his girlfriend asks who she is. Nelly tries to explain but his girlfriend is too reluctant to listen and throws her chain at him. Nelly picks it up and takes it with him. Nelly tries to get reachin oftouch with his girlfriend by sending presents and texttexts but she declines his text and ignores his gift. Nelly tries to make things up with his girlfriend but she refuses and pushes him and goes back into her fashion boutique shop and throws his gift in the camera. Nelly continues rapping until the next scene is when his ex-girlfriend is with her mates at a restaurant, and making theirimagining imaginationsscenarios. She imagines of her and her ex-boyfriend having sex. Nelly and his girlfriend are inon a black screen thinking about each other and realisingrealizing how they have feelings for each other and how much they love each other and. Nelly throws a photo frame containing a picture of him and his girlfriend inside it and his girlfriend appears to be crying. At a summer club, Nelly tracks down his girlfriend and they talk and Nelly apologizes and puts the necklace she threw at him before back on her neck and they finally make up and embrace.
 
==Track listings==
{{col-begin}}
{{col-2}}
'''US 12-inch single'''<ref>{{cite AV media notes|title=Flap Your Wings / My Place|others=Nelly|year=2004|type=US 12-inch single vinyl disc|publisher=Universal Records, Derrty Entertainment, Fo' Reel Entertainment|id=B0003154-11}}</ref>
:A1. "Flap Your Wings" (dirty album version) – 4:04
:A2. "Flap Your Wings" (dirty with straight vox) – 4:04
:A3. "Flap Your Wings" (instrumental) – 4:04
:B1. "My Place" (dirty album version) – 4:32
:B2. "My Place" (instrumental) – 5:40
 
'''UK CD single'''<ref>{{cite AV media notes|title=My Place / Flap Your Wings|others=Nelly|year=2004|type=UK CD single liner notes|publisher=Universal Records, Derrty Entertainment, Fo' Reel Entertainment|id=MCSTD 40379, 986 382-3}}</ref>
# "My Place" (radio edit) – 4:32
# "[[Flap Your Wings (song)|Flap Your Wings]]" (radio edit) – 4:04
# "[[Hot in Herre]]" (remix) – 3:45
# "My Place" (video) – 4:28
# "Flap Your Wings" (video) – 3:56
 
'''UK 12-inch single'''<ref>{{cite AV media notes|title=My Place / Flap Your Wings|others=Nelly|year=2004|type=UK 12-inch single sleeve|publisher=Universal Records, Derrty Entertainment, Fo' Reel Entertainment|id=MCST40379, 986 382-4}}</ref>
:A1. "My Place" (album version) – 5:40
:A2. "My Place" (instrumental) – 5:40
:B1. "Flap Your Wings" (album version) – 4:04
:B2. "Flap Your Wings" – 4:04
{{col-2}}
'''European CD single'''<ref name="aus"/><ref>{{cite AV media notes|title=My Place|others=Nelly|year=2004|type=European CD single liner notes|publisher=Universal Records, Derrty Entertainment, Fo' Reel Entertainment|id=0602498634547}}</ref>
# "My Place" (radio edit) – 4:32
# "Flap Your Wings" – 4:04
 
'''European maxi-CD single'''<ref name="aus"/><ref>{{cite AV media notes|title=My Place|others=Nelly|year=2004|type=European maxi-CD single liner notes|publisher=Universal Records, Derrty Entertainment, Fo' Reel Entertainment|id=0602498634530}}</ref>
# "My Place" (radio edit) – 4:33
# "My Place" (album) – 5:38
# "Flap Your Wings" – 4:05
# "My Place" (video) – 4:54
 
'''Australian CD single'''<ref>{{cite AV media notes|title=My Place / Flap Your Wings|others=Nelly|year=2004|type=Australian CD single liner notes|publisher=Universal Records, Derrty Entertainment, Fo' Reel Entertainment|id=9863905}}</ref>
# "My Place" (radio edit) – 4:32
# "My Place" (album version) – 5:40
# "Flap Your Wings" – 4:04
# "Don't Stop" – 3:57
{{col-end}}
 
==Credits and personnel==
Credits are lifted from the US promo CD liner notes.<ref name="uspcd">{{cite AV media notes|title=My Place|others=[[Nelly]]|year=2004|type=US promo CD liner notes|publisher=[[Universal Records]], [[Derrty Entertainment]], Fo' Reel Entertainment|id=UNIR 21279-2}}</ref>
 
'''Studios'''
==Track listing==
* Recorded at Derrty Studio (Los Angeles) and Platinum Sound Recording (New York City)
'''CD single'''
* Mixed at Platinum Sound Recording (New York City)
#"My Place" (Radio Edit) <small>(featuring [[Jaheim]])</small> – 4:33
* Mastered at [[The Hit Factory]] Mastering (New York City)
#"My Place" (Album Version) <small>(featuring [[Jaheim]])</small> – 5:36
#"[[Flap Your Wings (song)|Flap Your Wings]]" – 4:03
#"My Place" (Video)
 
=='''Personnel=='''
{{div col}}
*Produced by Doe Mo' Beats
* Nelly – writing, vocals
*Recorded by Carl Nappa at Derrty Studio, [[Los Angeles|LA]] and Serge "Sergical" Tsai at Platinum Sound Recording
* Dorian Moore – writing
*Mixed by Rich Travali (assisted by Kris Karpells) at Platinum Sound Recording
* [[Randy Edelman]] – writing
*[[Backing vocalist|Background Vocals]]: [[Kim Johnson (musician)|Kim Johnson]]
* [[El DeBarge]] – writing
* [[Randy DeBarge|William DeBarge]] – writing
* [[Bunny DeBarge|Etterlene DeBarge]] – writing
* [[Gamble and Huff|Kenneth Gamble]] – writing
* [[Gamble and Huff|Leon Huff]] – writing
* [[Jaheim]] – vocals
* Kim Johnson – background vocals
* Doe Mo' Beats – production
* Carl Nappa – recording (Derrty)
* Serge Tsai – recording (Platinum Sound)
* Rich Travali – mixing
* Chip Karpells – mixing assistance
* Herb Powers Jr. – mastering
{{div col end}}
 
==Charts and certifications==
{{col-begin}}
{{col-2}}
Line 56 ⟶ 118:
!Peak<br/>position
|-
{{singlechartsingle chart|Australia|1|artist=Nelly feat. Jaheim|song=My Place|rowheader=true|accessdateaccess-date=December 5, 2019|refname="aus"}}
|-
{{single chart|Australiaurban|1|url=https://webarchive.nla.gov.au/awa/20041019140000/http://pandora.nla.gov.au/pan/23790/20041020-0000/issue757.pdf|urltitle=Issue 757|rowheader=true|access-date=October 1, 2020}}{{cbignore|bot=medic}}
{{singlechart|Austria|20|artist=Nelly feat. Jaheim|song=My Place|rowheader=true|accessdate=December 5, 2019}}
|-
{{singlechartsingle chart|FlandersAustria|1720|artist=Nelly feat. Jaheim|song=My Place|rowheader=true|accessdateaccess-date=December 5, 2019}}
|-
{{singlechartsingle chart|WalloniaFlanders|2717|artist=Nelly feat. Jaheim|song=My Place|rowheader=true|accessdateaccess-date=December 5, 2019}}
|-
{{singlechartsingle chart|DenmarkWallonia|827|artist=Nelly feat. Jaheim|song=My Place|rowheader=true|accessdateaccess-date=December 5, 2019}}
|-
!scope="row"|Canada CHR/Pop Top 30 (''[[Radio & Records]]'')<ref>{{cite magazine|url=https://worldradiohistory.com/Archive-RandR/2000s/2004/RR-2004-09-03.pdf|title=R&R Canada CHR/Pop Top 30|magazine=[[Radio & Records]]|issue=1571|page=25|date=September 3, 2004|access-date=October 15, 2020}}</ref>
{{singlechart|France|28|artist=Nelly feat. Jaheim|song=My Place|rowheader=true|accessdate=December 5, 2019}}
|4
|-
!scope="row"|Croatia ([[Croatian Radiotelevision|HRT]])<ref>{{cite web|url=http://www.hrt.hr/hr/top20/maineng.html|archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20041010081031/http://www.hrt.hr:80/hr/top20/maineng.html|url-status=dead|archive-date=October 10, 2004|title=Top Lista Hrvatskog Radija|publisher=[[Croatian Radiotelevision]]|access-date=14 April 2023}}</ref>
{{singlechart|Germany2|8|artist=Nelly feat. Jaheim|song=My Place|songid=6260|rowheader=true|accessdate=December 5, 2019}}
|2
|-
{{singlechartsingle chart|Ireland2Denmark|28|artist=Nelly feat. Jaheim|song=My Place / Flap Your Wings|rowheader=true|access-date=December 5, 2019}}
|-
!scope="row"|Europe ([[European Hot 100 Singles|Eurochart Hot 100]])<ref>{{cite magazine|url=https://worldradiohistory.com/Archive-Billboard/00s/2004/BB-2004-09-18.pdf|title=Hits of the World – Eurocharts|magazine=[[Billboard (magazine)|Billboard]]|volume=116|issue=38|page=53|date=September 18, 2004|access-date=March 31, 2020}}</ref>
{{singlechart|Italy|5|artist=Nelly feat. Jaheim|song=My Place|rowheader=true|accessdate=December 5, 2019}}
|5
|-
{{singlechartsingle chart|Dutch40France|228|yearartist=2004Nelly feat. Jaheim|weeksong=37My Place|rowheader=true|accessdateaccess-date=December 5, 2019}}
|-
{{singlechartsingle chart|Dutch100Germany|38|artist=Nelly feat. Jaheim|song=My Place|songid=6260|rowheader=true|accessdateaccess-date=December 5, 2019|refname="ger"}}
|-
!scope="row"|Greece ([[IFPI Greece|IFPI]])<ref>{{cite web|url=http://www.ifpi.gr/chart03.htm|title=Top 50 Singles Εβδομάδα 03–9/10|publisher=[[IFPI Greece|IFPI]]|language=el|url-status=dead|archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20041010020340/http://www.ifpi.gr/chart03.htm|archive-date=October 10, 2004|access-date=July 1, 2020}}</ref>
{{singlechart|New Zealand|1|artist=Nelly feat. Jaheim|song=My Place|rowheader=true|accessdate=December 5, 2019}}
|26
|-
{{singlechartsingle chart|NorwayIreland2|11|artist=Nelly feat. Jaheim2|song=My Place / Flap Your Wings|rowheader=true|accessdate=December 5, 2019}}
|-
{{singlechartsingle chart|ScotlandItaly|45|dateartist=20040911Nelly feat. Jaheim|song=My Place|rowheader=true|access-date=December 5, 2019}}
|-
{{singlechartsingle chart|SwedenDutch40|182|artistyear=Nelly feat. Jaheim2004|songweek=My Place37|rowheader=true|accessdateaccess-date=December 5, 2019}}
|-
{{singlechartsingle chart|SwitzerlandDutch100|53|artist=Nelly feat. Jaheim|song=My Place|rowheader=true|accessdateaccess-date=December 5, 2019}}
|-
{{singlechartsingle chart|UKchartstatsNew Zealand|1|artist=Nelly feat. Jaheim|song=My Place|rowheader=true|access-date=December 5, 2019}}
|-
{{singlechartsingle chart|UKrandbNorway|111|dateartist=20040911Nelly feat. Jaheim|song=My Place|rowheader=true|access-date=December 5, 2019}}
|-
!scope="row"|Romania ([[Romanian Top 100]])<ref>{{cite web|url=http://www.rt100.ro/editie-top-100_x10138.html|title=Arhiva romanian top 100 – Editia 39, saptamina 27.09 – 2.10, 2004|publisher=[[Romanian Top 100]]|language=ro|url-status=dead|archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20050118233747/http://www.rt100.ro/editie-top-100_x10138.html|archive-date=January 18, 2005|access-date=May 18, 2020}} ''See'' LW ''column''.</ref>
{{singlechart|Billboardhot100|4|artist=Nelly|rowheader=true}}
|51
|-
{{singlechartsingle chart|BillboardrandbhiphopScotland|4|artistdate=Nelly20040911|rowheader=true}}
|-
{{singlechartsingle chart|BillboardrapsongsSweden|218|artist=Nelly feat. Jaheim|song=My Place|rowheader=true|accessdateaccess-date=December 5, 2019}}
|-
{{singlechartsingle chart|BillboardpopsongsSwitzerland|95|artist=Nelly feat. Jaheim|song=My Place|rowheader=true|accessdateaccess-date=December 5, 2019}}
|-
{{singlechartsingle chart|BillboardrhythmicUKsinglesbyname|31|artist=Nelly|artistid=9229|rowheader=true|accessdateaccess-date=DecemberMay 518, 20192020}}
|-
{{single chart|UKrandb|1|date=20040911|rowheader=true}}
|-
{{single chart|Billboardhot100|4|artist=Nelly|rowheader=true}}
|-
{{single chart|Billboardrandbhiphop|4|artist=Nelly|rowheader=true}}
|-
{{single chart|Billboardrapsongs|2|artist=Nelly|rowheader=true|access-date=December 5, 2019}}
|-
{{single chart|Billboardpopsongs|9|artist=Nelly|rowheader=true|access-date=December 5, 2019}}
|-
{{single chart|Billboardrhythmic|3|artist=Nelly|rowheader=true|access-date=December 5, 2019}}
|}
{{col-2}}
Line 109 ⟶ 188:
!Position
|-
!scope="row"|Australia (ARIA)<ref>{{cite web|url=httphttps://www.aria.com.au/pagescharts/2004/aria-charts-end-of-year-charts-top-100-singles-2004.htmchart|title=ARIA Charts – End Of Year Charts – Top 100 Singles for 2004|publisher=[[Australian Recording Industry Association|ARIA]]|access-date=DecemberSeptember 517, 20192020}}</ref>
|40
|-
!scope="row"|AustraliaAustralian Urban (ARIA)<ref>{{cite web|url=http://www.aria.com.au/pages/aria-charts-end-of-year-charts-urban-singles-2004.htm|title=ARIA Charts – End Ofof Year Charts – Urban Singles 2004|publisher=[[Australian Recording Industry Association|ARIA]]|url-status=dead|archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20200415011513/http://www.aria.com.au/pages/aria-charts-end-of-year-charts-urban-singles-2004.htm|archive-date=April 15, 2020|access-date=DecemberSeptember 517, 20192020}}</ref>
|17
|-
!scope="row"|Germany Brazil (Official[[Crowley GermanBroadcast ChartsAnalysis|Crowley]])<ref>{{cite web|url=https://wwwmaistocadas.offiziellechartsmus.debr/charts/single-jahr/for-date-2004/|title=Brazilian Top 100 Singles–JahreschartsYear-End 2004|date=April 3, 2018|publisher=[[GfKCrowley Broadcast EntertainmentAnalysis]]|language=German|access-dateaccessdate=DecemberJanuary 530, 20192022}}</ref>
|45
|-
!scope="row"|Germany (Official German Charts)<ref>{{cite web|url=https://www.offiziellecharts.de/charts/single-jahr/for-date-2004|title=Top 100 Singles–Jahrescharts 2004|publisher=[[GfK Entertainment charts|GfK Entertainment]]|language=de|access-date=December 5, 2019}}</ref>
|71
|-
!scope="row"|Netherlands (SingleDutch Top 10040)<ref>{{cite web|url=https://dutchchartswww.top40.nl/bijzondere-lijsten/top-100-jaaroverzichten.asp?year=/2004&cat=s|title=JaaroverzichtenTop 100–Jaaroverzicht Singlevan 2004|publisher=[[Dutch Charts|MegaChartsTop 40]]|language=Dutch|access-date=DecemberJanuary 517, 20192020}}</ref>
|52
|-
!scope="row"|Netherlands (Single Top 100)<ref>{{cite web|url=https://dutchcharts.nl/jaaroverzichten.asp?year=2004&cat=s|title=Jaaroverzichten – Single 2004|publisher=[[Dutch Charts|MegaCharts]]|language=nl|access-date=December 5, 2019}}</ref>
|82
|-
!scope="row"|New Zealand (Recorded Music NZ)<ref>{{cite web|url=https://nztop40.co.nz/chart/index_chart?chart=2004|title=End Ofof Year Charts 2004|publisher=[[Recorded Music NZ]]|access-date=December 5, 2019}}</ref>
|10
|-
!scope="row"|Switzerland (Schweizer Hitparade)<ref>{{cite web|url=http://www.swisscharts.com/charts/jahreshitparade/2004|title=Swiss Year-End Charts 2004|language=Germande|access-date=December 5, 2019}}</ref>
|39
|-
!scope="row"|UK Singles (Official Charts CompanyOCC)<ref>{{cite web|url=http://www.ukchartsplus.co.uk/ChartsPlusYE2004.pdf|title=The Official UK Singles Chart 2004|work=[[UKChartsPlus]]|access-date=December 5, 2019}}</ref>
|26
|-
!scope="row"|UK Urban (''[[Music Week]]'')<ref>{{cite magazine|url=https://worldradiohistory.com/UK/Music-Week/2005/Music-Week-2005-01-22.pdf|title=2004 Urban Top 30|magazine=[[Music Week]]|page=24|date=January 22, 2005|access-date=August 5, 2023}}</ref><br />{{small|''"Flap Your Wings" / "My Place"''}}
|15
|-
!scope="row"|US ''Billboard'' Hot 100<ref>{{cite web|url=http://billboardtop100of.com/2004-2/|title=Billboard Top 100 – 2004|website=Billboardtop100of.com|access-date=December 5, 2019}}</ref>
|30
|-
!scope="row"|US Hot R&B/Hip-Hop Singles & Tracks (''Billboard'')<ref>{{cite magazine|url=http://www.billboard.com/charts/year-end/2004/hot-r-and-and-b-hip-hop-songs|title=Hot R&B/Hip-Hop Songs: 2004|magazine=Billboard|url-access=subscription|access-date=February 17, 2020}}</ref>
|30
|-
!scope="row"|US Hot Rap Tracks (''Billboard'')<ref>{{cite magazine|title=Year in Music & Touring: Hot Rap Tracks|magazine=Billboard|volume=116|issue=52|page=YE-60|date=December 25, 2004}}</ref>
|16
|-
!scope="row"|US Mainstream Top 40 (''Billboard'')<ref>{{cite magazine|title=2004 The Year in Charts: Most-Played Mainstream Top 40 Songs|magazine=[[Billboard Radio Monitor]]|volume=12|issue=51|page=22|date=December 17, 2004}}</ref>
|59
|-
!scope="row"|US Rhythmic Top 40 (''Billboard'')<ref>{{cite magazine|title=2004 The Year in Charts: Most-Played Rhythmic Top 40 Songs|magazine=Billboard Radio Monitor|volume=12|issue=51|page=29|date=December 17, 2004}}</ref>
|21
|}
{{col-end}}
 
===Certifications===
{{Certification Table Top}}
{{Certification Table Entry|region=Australia|type=single|award=Platinum|relyear=2004|certyear=2004|accessdateaccess-date=December 5, 2019}}
{{Certification Table Entry|region=New Zealand|type=single|artist=Nelly|title=My Place / Flap Your Wings|type=single|award=Gold|relyear=2004|certyear=2004|id=1294|recent=website|accessdateaccess-date=December 5, 2019}}
{{Certification Table Entry|region=United Kingdom|titletype=My Placesingle|artist=Nelly|title=My ftPlace/Flap Jaheim|type=singleYour Wings|award=Silver|relyear=2004|certyear=2013|accessdateid=July10318-574-1|access-date=May 2218, 20132020}}
{{Certification Table Entry|region=United States|titletype=My Placesingle|artist=Nelly and Jaheim|typetitle=singleMy Place|award=Gold|relyear=2004|certyear=2005|accessdateaccess-date=December 5, 2019}}
{{Certification Table Bottom}}
 
{{col-end}}
==Release history==
{|class="wikitable plainrowheaders"
!scope="col"|Region
!scope="col"|Date
!scope="col"|Format(s)
!scope="col"|Label(s)
!scope="col"|{{abbr|Ref.|Reference}}
|-
!scope="row"|United States
|July 19, 2004
|{{hlist|[[Contemporary hit radio|Contemporary hit]]|[[rhythmic contemporary]]|[[urban radio]]}}
|rowspan="3"|{{hlist|[[Universal Records|Universal]]|[[Derrty Entertainment|Derrty]]|Fo' Reel}}
|<ref>{{cite magazine|url=https://worldradiohistory.com/Archive-RandR/2000s/2004/RR-2004-07-16.pdf|title=Going for Adds|magazine=[[Radio & Records]]|issue=1564|page=25|date=July 16, 2004|access-date=May 20, 2021}}</ref>
|-
!scope="row"|Europe
|August 23, 2004
|{{hlist|CD|[[Maxi single|maxi-CD]]}}
|<ref name="ger"/>
|-
!scope="row"|United Kingdom
|August 30, 2004
|CD
|<ref>{{cite magazine|title=New Releases: Singles|magazine=[[Music Week]]|page=39|date=August 28, 2004}}</ref>
|}
 
==References==
{{Reflist|30em}}
 
{{Nelly}}
{{Jaheim}}
{{Authority control}}
 
[[Category:2004 singles]]
[[Category:2004 songs]]
[[Category:Contemporary R&B ballads]]
[[Category:Music videos directed by Benny Boom]]
[[Category:Nelly songs]]
[[Category:UK Singles Chart number-one singles]]
[[Category:UK R&B Singles Chart number-one singles]]
[[Category:Number-one singles in Australia]]
[[Category:ContemporaryNumber-one R&Bsingles balladsin New Zealand]]
[[Category:Songs written by El DeBarge]]
[[Category:Songs written by Kenny Gamble]]
[[Category:Songs written by Leon Huff]]
[[Category:Songs written by Nelly]]
[[Category:Songs written by Randy Edelman]]
[[Category:UK Singles Chart number-one singles]]
[[Category:Universal Records singles]]
[[Category:Songs written by Kenny Gamble]]
[[Category:Songs written by Leon Huff]]
[[Category:2004 songs]]
[[Category:Songs about sexuality]]
[[Category:Songs written by El DeBarge]]
[[Category:Number-one singles in New Zealand]]