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{{Nutshell|Consider your own |
{{Nutshell|Consider your own behavior before bringing attention to the behavior of others.}} |
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[[File:Petardsketch2.jpg|thumb|300px|right|[[Petard]]s were early gunpowder bombs. A careless engineer might find himself "[[hoist with his own petard]]".]] |
[[File:Petardsketch2.jpg|thumb|300px|right|[[Petard]]s were early gunpowder bombs. A careless engineer might find himself "[[hoist with his own petard]]".]] |
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On Wikipedia, it is possible, indeed common, to find people '''shooting themselves in the foot''' or being hit by a |
On Wikipedia, it is possible, indeed common, to find people '''shooting themselves in the foot''' or '''being hit by a boomerang''' after complaining about someone else. |
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==Background== |
==Background== |
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Wikipedia is free for anyone to edit. Of course, if you've spent any time on the Internet, you'll know this means that people will disagree and argue about stuff. We like everyone to get along and [[WP:CONSBUILD|reach a consensus]], but sometimes life just doesn't run that smoothly, and people start [[WP:EW|edit warring]], [[WP:No personal attacks|tearing each other's heads off]], [[WP:NLT|threatening to call their lawyer]], or any number of escalating problems. If people can't work it out amongst themselves, sooner or later, somebody's going to complain. |
Wikipedia is free for anyone to edit. Of course, if you've spent any time on the Internet, you'll know this means that people will disagree and argue about stuff. We like everyone to get along and [[WP:CONSBUILD|reach a consensus]], but sometimes life just doesn't run that smoothly, and people start [[WP:EW|edit warring]], [[WP:No personal attacks|tearing each other's heads off]], [[WP:NLT|threatening to call their lawyer]], or any number of escalating problems. If people can't work it out amongst themselves, sooner or later, somebody's going to complain. |
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Various noticeboards, especially the [[WP:ANI|incident noticeboard]], often receive reports posted by editors who are truly at fault themselves for the problem they're reporting. In other cases, a person might complain about another editor's |
Various noticeboards, especially the [[WP:ANI|incident noticeboard]], often receive reports posted by editors who are truly at fault themselves for the problem they're reporting. In other cases, a person might complain about another editor's behavior in an incident, yet during the events of that incident they've committed far worse infractions themselves. In both cases, such editors will usually find sanctions brought against themselves rather than the people they've sought to report. |
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This is called "shooting yourself in the foot". The behavior of a returning [[boomerang]] is similar: if thrown incautiously, it can come back to injure the thrower. |
This is called "shooting yourself in the foot". The behavior of a returning [[boomerang]] is similar: if thrown incautiously, it can come back to injure the thrower. |
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==There is no "immunity" for reporters== |
==There is no "immunity" for reporters== |
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{{shortcut|WP:BUNGEE|WP:BOOMERANG}} |
{{shortcut|WP:BUNGEE|WP:BOOMERANG}} |
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{{quote box|source= |align=center|salign=|width=34em|1=Let him who is without sin among you be the first to throw a stone at her. {{right|{{mdash}}{{bibleverse|John|8:7}}}} {{break}} Seriously. You better be without sin. }} |
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A common statement on noticeboards is "this isn't about me |
A common statement on noticeboards is "this isn't about me, it's about them", as if discussion is restricted to the original complaint, so that discussing the behavior of the original reporter would be "changing the subject". But that isn't the case: any party to a discussion or dispute might find their behavior under scrutiny. A reporter whose behavior is or becomes out of line may find themselves bludgeoned with their own boomerang. |
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{{shortcut|WP:VEXBYSTERANG}} |
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A special kind of boomerang, known |
A special kind of boomerang, known as a ''vexbysterang'' ("vexatious bystander boomerang"), homes in on people who, though not initially involved in a situation, make pests of themselves in the course of the discussion.<ref>{{cite web| date = 2021-10-19|url = https://en.wikipedia.org/?diff=1050699687 | title = Origin of ''vexbysterang''| work = Wikipedia| author = JG66|author-link=User:JG66}}</ref> |
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==How to avoid shooting yourself in the foot== |
==How to avoid shooting yourself in the foot== |
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[[File:Glasshouse-philip-johnson.jpg|thumb|upright=1.5|Good WiFi here perhaps, but a bad place from which to file an ANI report]] |
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⚫ | If you are involved in a dispute with someone, try to discuss matters with the other person via their [[WP:talk|talk page]]. If they won't cooperate, seek [[WP:DR|dispute resolution]]. Try to avoid reporting someone for [[WP:ADMIN|administrator]] intervention when you are angry; wait until you are [[WP:CALM|calm]] and then think about whether the report is appropriate. If you do report someone, be sure you are at the correct noticeboard and read the rules of the board before making your report. Be up front concerning any of your |
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⚫ | If you are involved in a dispute with someone, try to discuss matters with the other person via their [[WP:talk|talk page]]. If they won't cooperate, seek [[WP:DR|dispute resolution]]. Try to avoid reporting someone for [[WP:ADMIN|administrator]] intervention when you are angry; wait until you are [[WP:CALM|calm]] and then think about whether the report is appropriate. If you do report someone, be sure you are at the correct noticeboard and read the rules of the board before making your report. Be up front concerning any of your behavior that might have contributed to the problem. Finally, consider the possibility that [[unclean hands|you are not entirely blameless yourself]]. |
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==Responders: Investigate fully== |
==Responders: Investigate fully== |
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When you encounter a reporter who wasn't blameless in the incident, or who posts a report in the heat of the moment, it's easy to jump to the conclusion that the reporter is the sole problem without looking at the context. Don't ignore Bob's bad behavior while rushing to be the first to tell Alice that her angry response to Bob's provocation is going to boomerang on her. |
When you encounter a reporter who wasn't blameless in the incident, or who posts a report in the heat of the moment, it's easy to jump to the conclusion that the reporter is the sole problem without looking at the context. Don't ignore Bob's bad behavior while rushing to be the first to tell Alice that her angry response to Bob's provocation is going to boomerang on her. |
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==References== |
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==See also== |
==See also== |
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*[[Hoist with his own petard]] |
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*[[The Mote and the Beam]] |
*[[The Mote and the Beam]] |
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*[[Wikipedia:Two wrongs don't make a right]] |
*[[Wikipedia:Two wrongs don't make a right]] |
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*[[Wikipedia:Shoot yourself in the foot]], a counterpoint to this essay |
*[[Wikipedia:Shoot yourself in the foot]], a counterpoint to this essay |
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{{Civility}} |
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![]() | This page in a nutshell: Consider your own behavior before bringing attention to the behavior of others. |
![](http://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/thumb/5/50/Petardsketch2.jpg/300px-Petardsketch2.jpg)
On Wikipedia, it is possible, indeed common, to find people shooting themselves in the foot or being hit by a boomerang after complaining about someone else.
Background
[edit]![](http://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/thumb/9/95/Show_des_Batchieaux_Jersey_Boat_Show_2013_54.jpg/200px-Show_des_Batchieaux_Jersey_Boat_Show_2013_54.jpg)
Wikipedia is free for anyone to edit. Of course, if you've spent any time on the Internet, you'll know this means that people will disagree and argue about stuff. We like everyone to get along and reach a consensus, but sometimes life just doesn't run that smoothly, and people start edit warring, tearing each other's heads off, threatening to call their lawyer, or any number of escalating problems. If people can't work it out amongst themselves, sooner or later, somebody's going to complain.
Various noticeboards, especially the incident noticeboard, often receive reports posted by editors who are truly at fault themselves for the problem they're reporting. In other cases, a person might complain about another editor's behavior in an incident, yet during the events of that incident they've committed far worse infractions themselves. In both cases, such editors will usually find sanctions brought against themselves rather than the people they've sought to report.
This is called "shooting yourself in the foot". The behavior of a returning boomerang is similar: if thrown incautiously, it can come back to injure the thrower.
There is no "immunity" for reporters
[edit]Let him who is without sin among you be the first to throw a stone at her.
Seriously. You better be without sin.
A common statement on noticeboards is "this isn't about me, it's about them", as if discussion is restricted to the original complaint, so that discussing the behavior of the original reporter would be "changing the subject". But that isn't the case: any party to a discussion or dispute might find their behavior under scrutiny. A reporter whose behavior is or becomes out of line may find themselves bludgeoned with their own boomerang.
There's also no "immunity" for commenters
[edit]A special kind of boomerang, known as a vexbysterang ("vexatious bystander boomerang"), homes in on people who, though not initially involved in a situation, make pests of themselves in the course of the discussion.[1]
How to avoid shooting yourself in the foot
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A fool's mouth is his ruin, and his lips are a snare to himself.
If you are involved in a dispute with someone, try to discuss matters with the other person via their talk page. If they won't cooperate, seek dispute resolution. Try to avoid reporting someone for administrator intervention when you are angry; wait until you are calm and then think about whether the report is appropriate. If you do report someone, be sure you are at the correct noticeboard and read the rules of the board before making your report. Be up front concerning any of your behavior that might have contributed to the problem. Finally, consider the possibility that you are not entirely blameless yourself.
Responders: Investigate fully
[edit]When you encounter a reporter who wasn't blameless in the incident, or who posts a report in the heat of the moment, it's easy to jump to the conclusion that the reporter is the sole problem without looking at the context. Don't ignore Bob's bad behavior while rushing to be the first to tell Alice that her angry response to Bob's provocation is going to boomerang on her.
References
[edit]- ^ JG66 (October 19, 2021). "Origin of vexbysterang". Wikipedia.
{{cite web}}
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See also
[edit]- Hoist with his own petard
- The Mote and the Beam
- Unclean hands
- Wikipedia:Advice for hotheads
- Wikipedia:ANI advice
- Wikipedia:Don't call the kettle black
- Wikipedia:Don't spite your face
- Wikipedia:Don't throw your toys out of the pram
- Wikipedia:Give 'em enough rope
- Wikipedia:Two wrongs don't make a right
- Wikipedia:Shoot yourself in the foot, a counterpoint to this essay
External links
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