Cynthia Barnes

Ever thought of mixing chocolate with chili? That’s what you’re doing here. If your expertise is tech, why not team up with a psychologist? These unexpected combos can lead to groundbreaking topics that speak to a wider audience, making your talk the one they can’t stop talking about.

Dig into the feedback from talks—yours or someone else's. What are people asking? What left them puzzled? This is like having a cheat sheet for what your next talk should cover. You're not just giving a speech; you're answering the call of the curious and the confused.

Mind Map Your Life: Create a mind map of your life experiences, hobbies, challenges, and successes. Start with broad categories and drill down to specific events or interests. Look for patterns or unique experiences that stand out. This visual brainstorming can uncover hidden gems that are both personal and relatable.

Got a story inside you bursting to get out? Let's find it! Start with your why - what lights you up? Your passions and trials are your treasure. Think about your tribe - what do they need to hear from you? Scribble down those life-altering moments, work wins, and even the little daily wonders. Now, here's the magic: link those gems to your why. The stories that shine? Those are your gold. Weave them into a message that’s all you. This isn't just talking; it's touching hearts, sparking minds. Remember, your voice can change the world. So go on, stand tall, and share your journey. I'm here, rooting for you every step of the way! You've totally got this!

Your first power move is about diving deep to discover your unique skills, perspectives, and values. Ask yourself: * What sets me apart? Think about your experiences, skills, and the unique lens through which you view your industry. * What problems am I passionate about solving? Identify the challenges in your field that you're eager and equipped to address. * How do I showcase my personality and message? Reflect on how you present yourself both online (like social media, blogs, or webinars) and offline (networking events, workshops). When you define your niche, you're not just another face in the crowd; you'll be a thought leader with a brand that resonates, attracts attention, and positions you as the go-to authority in your field.

Remember, your time and expertise are valuable. While there are many good reasons to speak for free or at a discount, it's important to make sure these engagements are part of a balanced schedule that respects your worth and supports your career goals.