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SMOOTH SEDUCTION

MASTERY

SMOOTH
Published by the DHV Books Publishing
No. 25 Vinia Residences, EDSA, Quezon City DHV Books
Publishing
Second Book Edition Smooth Seduction Part 2
Step by Step Guide on How to Get a Girlfriend Online

Attract Her

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Copyright DHV Books Publishing, 2010 All rights reserved
Second Published in the Philippines as Smooth Seduction
Mastery by DHV Books Publishing

Publisher’s note:
This book is a guide on how to attract women. Characters and
names are handles of real-life pick-up artists.
Printed by XY Printing, China
Designed by: Eris Sy, DHV Publishing, Filinvest, Alabang,
Muntinlupa
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I love you beyond what I can express. I’m so proud of you. I’m glad I met you -KM
My life has changed.
The power to change your life lies
in the simplest of steps.
TABLE OF CONTENTS

Acknowledgements ii
Foreword v
Introduction vii

Chapter 1 : Everything About Her 1


Leaving My Family 27
Experience Report by Alpha 38
Always Have A Plan B by Jack Phil 42

Chapter 2 : Know Thyself 49


Experience Report from 1on1 Student 72
How to Escalate in a Rave Party 78

Chapter 3 : Online Game 85


Reframe Text 138
Open To Close 142
Davao Invasion by Defman 144
Experience Report by Ron 148
She Knows You’re a PUA by Jack Phil 151

Chapter 4 : Philosophy 158


Text Meet Up 177
Setting Day 2 192
It’s A New Life by John O 206
3 Minutes Kiss by Joseph T 208
Tank Bootcamp 210
Fitness Coach Shopping Day by King 212

Chapter 5 : Messaging 229


Sample Solid 1 237
Sample Solid 2 243
She Found Out by XjA 262
Instructor Level by King 267

Chapter 6 : Gambits and Techniques 272


How To Create Drama 281
Sample Negs 284
TABLE OF CONTENTS

Cold Read 291


Wet Girl Hydro by XjA 294
Get It In Second Date by King 300

Chapter 7 : Comfort 308


Online Solid Convo 3 319
Success Story by Sepdio 326
Mardi Gras Escapade 329

Chapter 8 : Conversation 336


Text - Open - Meet 349
The Ramen Lay by Choade 352
Facebook is the New Tinder by Jack 359

Chapter 9 : Escalation 364


Handling Busy Schedule 378
Bootcamp Experience by Vince 386
The Balcony by Sky 388
Don’t Burn Bridges to your Target 394

Chapter 10 : Texting 398


Sexting 401
Day 1 - LR 405
Text - Meet - LR 415
LR by Jrm 427

Chapter 11 : Meet Up 440


Flipping The Switch 470
Online Text Meet 476
A Stripper Game by JRM 481

Chapter 12 : Structure Of The Game 493


Body Language 506
Comfort 518
Seduction 526
Experience Report by Ken 528
A Promoter At The Palace by Ms. Eris Sy 532
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ACKNOWLEDGEMENTS
First and foremost, I’d love to thank God!

Thanks to everyone at the Smooth Lounge


(https://www.fb.com/groups/smoothlounge)
for participating and keeping the community alive, and
also to the guys at Smooth VIP Bootcamp Group Chat,
as well as the staff at SmoothCoach.com and Smooth
Dating-Coach for your hard work and professionalism.
From the bottom of my heart… Thank you.

Special thanks to our brother Philip “Jack” Caldito, who


has been a tremendous Executive Coach of Smooth
Coaching.

Vince Arizala, one of our great mentors and everyone’s


best friend, for supporting the company. “Never fight with
this guy.”

Ron Sinco, the multi-talented coach of Smooth coaching.


Rap skills, sick man.

Mocil Nunez, the best graphic designer in the world.


You’re always there every time.

Kaiser Estrada and StreamlinedCampaigned.com, the


best Marketing Agency ever.
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Special mention as well, Marco Mallari, my ultimate best


friend, mentor, and my secret keeper.

Thanks also to my former instructors King (Master of


Disaster), Jex (Master of Comfort Phase), Prince “MJ”
Aguilar (Master of Amoging), Paolo Siapno (Master of
Everything), Paolo “Dice” Ong (Master of MaryJane),
Little Vince (Master of IT), and Michael Vega (The
Ultimate Master Forever Single dude). Hahaha.

Our eternal gratitude to our friend and our doctor, Andre


Cifra. Thank you for always being there.

Special mention to Boys Night Out guys, DJ Toni Toni,


Slick Rick and Sam YG. The only Radio station who
accepted us for interview and understand the art of
dating is all about and give legit advice about relationship
out there.

Special thanks to the staff, Ivan Alimbuyugin, Jayce Ann


Ramento, Jeffrey Gonzalvo, and Kyley Chelsey (HR),
and a special mention to Ms. Kirs, you know how much I
thank you.

To my closest friends, Konix, Ritchie Abragan, Robie De


Guia, Jez Alindayu, John Alvar.
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To my MOMSSS, Sister, and family members. To my


daughter, Tylae Rhyzel… I made another one for you.
May you Rest In Peace. I love you.

To other guys who believed in me, and all the aspiring


“lovable losers” out there, who gave me passion and
motivation for a DECADE of continuously learning and
teaching more. To more than ten thousand women I’ve
met who helped me master the art of dating. Finally, to
the only person who won my heart, you know who you
are.

Thank you…
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FOREWORD
Marco Mallari (Sir Yuri)

Crying, feeling hopeless, confused, and in pain.

You know that feeling?

Waking up in the morning feeling lost and not knowing


what to do, going to work and going through your day just
not feeling a sense of purpose or direction.

We all had this experience, especially if you are the type


of person who is looking for the one. That person who will
make you into the complete version of you and somehow
create a happy ending story.

This was me back then when I still didn’t have a clue as


to what the real psychology, or should I say the proper
mindset and know how, behind this thing called love.

Until I met this guy, Smooth, and he not only turned my


dating life around but equipped me with the right
perspective, and fresh new way of looking into the world.

And during the entire time with him, I was properly


introduced to the dynamics of attraction and the ways of
improving myself to the extent that my dating life has
turned from a painful day-to-day agony into an exciting,
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fun and mind-expanding experience. It’s like having a


front seat of my evolution into a better me.

Experience after experience not only toughen me, but


also taught my heart into such ways that looking back I
can say that the journey with this man is worth it. He
saved me from myself, from my old self by the way.

I can confidently say that right now that the pain and the
feeling of hopelessness are all in the past and if I was not
taken under his wing, maybe I’m still in that old paradigm
that I was once.

And when he told me about this new book, I can’t wait to


read it because I know that this will help a lot of people
the way he has helped me in transforming myself into the
version that I can say I am proud to be.

So, get ready because this book is the day your life will
change.
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AFRI-MAICAN ECSTACY
BY SMOOTH

Thank God it’s Tuesday!

You might be wondering where this enthusiasm is


coming from.

There are only seven days in a week, and most people


treat Fridays as the best day. Not for me. Tuesdays are
the best nights, especially if you want to go clubbing.

Manila Taboo. One of the highest valued bars in the


Philippines. Opens every night but the best night to go
here is on Tuesdays. I decided to go out, wearing
blazers, dark colored shirt, pants and sneakers. I rock
this outfit with my matching black nails. I can’t hide the
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fact of an interesting evening I just spent last night, so


there is still a kiss mark on my neck.

Manila Taboo is only a 5 minute to 10 minute drive from


my place. So I leave my place quite late. I only live at City
Land Pasong Tamo, so yeah, it is near Manila Taboo.
Time for me to go.

Its 9 pm when I decided to leave my condo and go to the


club. I leave at that time because this club gets crowded
by 10 pm and it would be best for me to be one of the first
guys to be inside the club. It creates an image, and it
actually is a social proof.

Inside the cab, I did breathing exercises and memorized


some lines. I practiced what routines I will be talking
about. As I arrived at the club, I saw the bouncers. Most
of the time, whenever I enter a club, I have to talk to them.
“Hey, Dude. Is it crowded already?” I asked the bouncer.
“No, Sir. Only a few people are inside.” He replied. vIt’s
great to gain the trust of bouncers. Talk to them about
bodybuilding. Talk to them about working out. It is easy
to gain their trust this way.

It took me 5 minutes to talk to them. It took longer than


thought because there are still no people around the
club. It’s still too early. It is best to talk to these bouncers
when there are not many people around.
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You are creating a good relationship with them. In time,


they would come in handy. Especially when you are in
trouble or every time someone messes with you, they
can kick their ass.

Most of the time I give tips to bouncers through


handshake or tapping their backs. After tipping them I
went across the road and went inside a convenience
store. I memorized my lines and routine there. I also
bought water not to seem like I was just staying there to
do something else.

When I came back after 30 minutes, it’s already pretty


crowded. A line of party goers are already lined up,
waiting to get inside the club.

“Evening, Sir. There are a lot of people inside the club


already.” The bouncer greeted me as I get back.

“Good, good. I’ll be inside.” I said as I tapped the back of


the bouncer and walked inside the club.

I can feel the stares of those people in line. This is what


I have been saying before. Social proofing. Now they see
me walk inside while they are in-line, it creates an image
of me being in an upper class than them.

Whenever I got inside the club, I went straight to the


bathroom. I washed my
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face to look fresh. I took a piece of tissue and opened the


faucet. I let a part of the tissue run down with water and
crumpled it. I put a small piece on both my ears to serve
as ear plugs.

Bars and clubs here are very loud. That’s not new. You
need to take care of your ears though, which is why I did
what I just did. This is my way of taking care of my ears.
As I went out of the bathroom, I scanned the crowd.
There are a couple of Filipinos and Brazilians. I started
looking for a woman to approach and when someone
caught my eye, I approached them.

“American or Brazilian?” this is my first line every time I


talk to foreigners.

“Ah! No, Russian.” She said, accent dripping in her tone


as she reaches her hand for a hand shake.

I am quite taken aback for she looks like she is a model.


Most of the time, here at Taboo, Brazilians are the model
ones. So this is uncharted territory for me.

I not only talk to women, I also talk to a couple of guys,


talking about my routine. I DHV myself. DHV, meaning
Demonstration of Higher Value. Another way of creating
social proof.
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First two hours, I am only here at this club to practice my


routines. I don’t focus on one girl. During those hours I
go through tables and do some magic to impress people.
I don’t just roam around because of girls, I roam to create
social proofing. To create more friends, more women to
know me and more connections.

Around 12:00 midnight, I am talking with a Brazilian


model. I did my routine, as usual.

“Hey, who lies more? Men or Women?” I asked her to


lean a bit for her to hear me through this loud music.

“Men, of course.” She answered as she laughed heartily.


“Oh, I like your hair. Is that real?” I asked next, as I
touched her hair.

We were flirting when a guy suddenly came. A man in his


50s. Curly hair, dark skin tone and a not so flat stomach.
He gives off a millionaire sugar daddy vibe.

“Hey, are you a pick up artist?” the man asked as he


whispered to me. I was surprised to see an old man know
about such a thing. I was caught off guard, but when I got
back on track, I asked back.

“Huh? Are you a pick up artist too?” I asked back.


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“No, I don’t do that professionally. But I read about it and


I heard you doing your routines. Which is why I asked if
you are a pick up artist.” He answers back.

Wow, now someone who knows my stuff. I made a new


friend. Someone who has the same interest as me. He
may be old but he is a great addition to my connections.

We talked about life and game. I found out he owns a


Brazilian Modelling Agency. Second thing I found out is
that he is a governor in a province here in Luzon,
Philippines. This old man is kind of interested in hanging
out with me.

I can tell by his body language and his facial expressions.


This man just can’t run out of surprises. He then started
DHV-ing me.

“Hey, you don’t know this person?” he asked a Brazilian


model as he introduces me.

“No, I don’t.” the model answered.

He then whispered something to the model which I


heard.

“He is one of the most famous drug lords in Manila.” the


Governor whispered.
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The model’s eyes started lighting up. It was like she was
amazed and excited at the same time.

The governor then whispered to me.

“You handle this now, I’ll be right back.” He said as he


tapped my back, signaling for me to take control. Make
initiative.

“Thanks, Gov. Thank you so much.” I replied back.

“So, I heard you were a drug lord.” The model asked,


turning to me as she drank her tequila.

I don’t know what to answer. I don’t want to go to jail for


pretending to be a drug lord just to get laid.

“Hmm. I don’t know. I don’t want to say anything.” I


answered to make it look like I’m trying to hold back.

“I like you.” She said back. She then let her hands move
to my arms. Sliding it up and down.

“Do you have ecstasy?” she asked seductively.

For the second time, I don’t know what to answer. I don’t


want to tell her no, because she might leave but I also
don’t want to say yes for I might get raided here.
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That’s when an idea hit me. I have to isolate this girl.

“I don’t have it now, but I’m going to pick it up. My place


is just 5 minutes away from here” I told the model.

“What do you have anyway?” she asked back, wanting


to get drugs.

“It’s an African Ecstasy and it came from Jamaica.


Technically, it’s an Afrimaican Ecstasy.” I answered,
sounding to lame but I have to stick to my act.

“Cool. Can we get it right now?” she answered back.


I can hear the sound of winning in a slot game or even in
Bingo! I just hit the jackpot! It is now isolation time. Time
to get her alone with me.

I grabbed her hand and we went outside. Good thing


there are cabs parked out the club.

“Let’s take a cab, I don’t want to lose the parking spot.” I


said as a tactic. I don’t really have my car at the moment,
I just DHV-ed her. Man, the power of DHV.

We got inside the cab and I can already tell she is flirting
with me. She started touching my ear, neck and the back
of my head. Man, I hope this is good.
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But then I got to thinking, what would I give this model? I


don’t have drugs at my place.

When we got inside the condo, guards were looking at


me in awe. It’s no surprise to them but still, they are
amazed every time I bring a woman in my place. They
already know me here.

We went to the elevator and then we arrived at my condo.


It’s dark but I can see her expression. It’s like she’s
starting not to believe that I’m a drug lord for my condo is
just studio type. It’s quite small for a drug lord.

“This is not my unit. It’s just my secret unit for the drugs.”
I told her convincingly.

“Oh, okay. Can you give me some?” she asked as she


looked at my couch.

Hold on, I don’t want to show you everything.” I turned off


the lights. She was now sitting at the couch and the only
light was the dimmed one at the bathroom.

I started looking at my bag. Damn, I even searched for


the drugs at my refrigerator. As I look back at her, I can
see her disappointment. It’s like she’s losing patience.

It’s been 2 minutes since I told her I was looking for it.
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I looked at the side of the refrigerator and thankfully, I


found an orange tablet.

Boom! This is going to be the Afri-maican Ecstasy I was


talking about.

“Found it.” I shouted as I pick the tablet up. I split it in half


for it to seem real.

“Are you ready for this?” I asked her enthusiastically.

“Okay.” She said as she walked beside me.

I tried bringing the tablet to her but then she shouted.


“No! Don’t touch it!” she said as she picked the tablet up.
She put it on her tongue as she took it. I drank mine with
water for it to easily go down. I am not quite sure what
we took but what the hell.

Suddenly, after 30 seconds her face contorted.

“It tastes bitter.” She stated.

“It’s new. It hasn’t been released yet.” I answered back.

3 minutes passed, and we started making out. We were


too occupied with making out. We forgot how we took our
clothes. We were now skin to skin. She was grinding on
top of me.
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She suddenly stopped which stopped me too from


touching her. Is she going to figure out it's not real
ecstasy?

“Your tablet is really strong. Where did you get it?” she
said for a moment but still continued kissing me after.

We came from a club so we were quite sweaty. Damn,


she is hot but I am debating whether or not to eat her out.
Finally winning a debate between eating her or just
touching her, I decided to finger her.

Her screams got louder as I felt her release in my finger.


That’s my cue to get inside her. I started pounding on her
harshly until both of them finally got a release. We’re now
both out of breath as I lay on her back.

“This afri-maican ecstasy is really really strong.” She said


breathily. We just finished having sex. It took us 20
minutes to have sex and it is only now that I started
thinking what I gave her.

“Hey, we have to go back. The governor might be looking


for us.” I said.

“Alright.” She said as she got up and went to the


bathroom. As she got inside, I spent the time looking for
which tablet I gave her.
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I later found out its biogesic. I was laughing my ass out


as I looked at the cover.

It’s amazing to have biogesic at my flat. My laughs were


drowned by the sound of the shower and I am thankful
for that. She might question me later about what I found
funny while she was in the shower.

When we got back at Manila Taboo, she started telling


other models that she got laid with a drug lord. The
governor on the other hand was laughing as he watches
the model because he knew I wasn’t a drug lord and that
it was biogesic that I gave her instead of the “Afri-maican
Ecstasy”.
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Smooth Seduction Mastery | 1

CHAPTER 1
EVERYTHING ABOUT HER?

“A girl says her worth,


A woman acts her worth”
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Why is it important to understand women, or specifically,


a woman that you’re attracted to? Most of the time,
accepting what you see on the outside is not enough, and
you must work hard to really know them better.

I’m here to help you get started!

WOMEN

Men tend to think that they already know enough about


women, or sometimes, we feel like they’re just impossible
to understand! But if you think about it, men and women
aren’t that different. We’re equals! But is this enough to
properly relate to women? How much do we really know
about them, specifically in their sexual perspectives,
strategies, and beliefs?

In order to explain this further, it is first necessary to


understand the basic definition of a woman or a female.
The female, in almost all species, is the who produces
non-mobile ovum, or the egg. Yes, women produce
eggs.

In the human species, it is not new that men produce


sperm cells and women produce eggs cells.
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Now, why does this matter? Why are the differences


between men and women important and what are these
differences?

Let’s look at the sexual aspect of life. When you look at


life, or more specifically the continuation of it –
reproduction, it becomes necessary to understand that
everyone needs a reproductive strategy to ensure that
their genes are passed on to the next generation.

It is important to understand that the man’s role in sex is


different than those of the woman’s, which means that a
man’s agenda may not also be the same.

Going back, men share physical aspects with women.


We all have hands and feet, we both have hearts and
brains, but our sexual goals may not be the same. In
reproduction, our strategies and agendas are
fundamentally different. But if you think about it, if we had
the same strategies and agenda, both men and women
wouldn’t have survived this far.

Let’s dwell deeper, specifically, on the different strategies


of men and women.
Men produce sperm, and they produce millions and
millions of it every day. It sounds like a lot, but in
ejaculation, men will release millions of these cells as
well. At any time of the month, we are producing these
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sperm cells. And this is one of our key differences with


women.

While men produce sperm continuously, it’s a different


cycle for women. Women get to produce only one egg in
an average cycle of 28 days — and that egg can only be
fertilized in an even narrower window.

If you think about it, the number of children a woman can


have sounded very limited. She could have maybe ten to
twenty years after turning into an adult.

Men on the other hand can theoretically impregnate


every single woman on the planet given enough time. As
said previously, men produce millions of sperm daily.
Men have enough sperm for that.

Now, a man’s strategy comes into light. If a woman


seems very viable and a great candidate to carry a child,
then a man’s goal could be to impregnate her.

Now, back to women. A woman’s strategy is by necessity


much more selective. Selective how? As their
reproductive cycles are much more limited in comparison
to men’s, they must select a partner carefully, in genes,
and in some cases, in resources. Pregnancy is a nine-
month commitment, and raising children can take more
than two decades.
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If you look at this from the perspective of our ancestors


from hundreds or thousands of years ago where humans
are still inhabiting jungles and caves, then it is a very
different scenario. The woman, as well as the child in her
womb, could have a very low chance of survival if she is
on her own.

Without her partner or help from her community, survival


as a pregnant woman would be truly hard. Women have
to make the right sexual choices for themselves in terms
of how and when they would want to pass on their genes
to the next generation. Also, their physical and emotional
state as they carry a child in their womb is a matter of life
and death.

Pregnancy is one of the most important responsibilities


in a woman’s life. It requires time, analysis, and planning.
Thus, their strategy can be very much different from men
because men can afford to be generous about producing
their sperm.

In prehistoric times, men may have the ability to


impregnate anyone and just runoff. Maybe some still do
it today, but women now have more choices. And that is
a good thing.

The fundamental difference is there. The difference in


men’s and women’s sexual strategies and agendas is
undeniable.
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Now, let’s look at how men and women look at sex.

Women look at sex very differently than men and you can
see it in what women prioritize in finding a partner. If you
are treating a woman like they are just a male friend or a
colleague, you are using an ineffective way to
understand them, if you are interested in being their
partner.

With that mentality, you won’t be able to understand and


relate to them. Especially on aspects such as dating,
mating, and sex.

This is why if you want to understand women more, start


from the basics and see how you can relate to them. Find
out the differences of men and women in terms of
strategies and agendas, not only sexually, but also
emotionally and physically.

HER APPROVAL

We have a few points that we have to take note of and


here are the following:

1. A woman wants to get the best possible genes


but she also wants her child to be taken care of
and there are various strategies in order to
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achieve this and one of which is cheating, which


will have a huge possibility to occur.

2. Social approval is everything for women. It’s like


life and death because if a woman wants to have
her genes survive for the next generation, she will
be in need of the tribe and their support.
However, if she is at odds with the tribe it defeats
the purpose and the survival of her offspring for
the next generation will be compromised. She
doesn’t want to ruin her image for the future and
the success of her genetics.

In the modern case, this is not what’s happening. Women


still consider social approval, not in terms of offspring but
in order to get their way.

The thing that makes men go crazy about women is that


women are obsessed with social approval. More
obsessed than men actually. The thing is some men do
not value social approval in any way and it’s like the
women are making up for it.

Just like how genetic success is a matter of life and death


to women, so is social approval.
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HER PERSPECTIVE

We have established that men and women are sexually


different from each other. From the physical aspect to
sexual strategies and agenda. Now, let’s have to look at
what constitutes success in terms of sex. From the
female perspective and in terms of evolutions, the real
measure for success is how many grandchildren you
have.

It is possible to have children. But they can all die out


eventually if you do not take care of them, and that
defeats the purpose. That does not really help you but if
you have children and your children have more offspring
then there is a really good chance that you can be
genetically successful.
That’s the metric on how genetically successful a person
can be. It is based on how many grandchildren you have.

If you look at a woman’s perspective there are different


ways on how to have the most grandchildren and there
are actually a few different ways to go about it.

Understand that a woman is limited in how many children


she can have. For males, having the most grandchildren
is as trivial as finding as many partners as you can and
hoping for the best. That’s the male strategy.
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In order to be genetically successful, it is not enough to


just have children. You will have to take good care of
them so they have a high likelihood of producing
grandchildren for you.

For women, they only have one strategy and that is to


produce children and take care of them. Like what we
established last time, it would be inadvisable for women
to be indiscriminate with a partner because it is they who
will be taking care of the pregnancy for 9 months.

You will have to take care of your kids as a woman does.


It is necessary to have children that are as healthy as
possible.

Now, these thoughts and ideas are in conflict because


men came into the picture.

There are men who are attracted to women and men who
aren’t.

ATTRACTIVE MEN

For Attractive men, they have a lot of options. Attractive


men can actually impregnate and be sexual with a lot of
women and they have very little to no incentive to stick
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around with just one woman because that just keeps


them from impregnating more other women.

LESS ATTRACTIVE MEN

Less attractive men, on the other hand, are those guys


who are a little less attractive to women and do not have
that level of abundance. They are more likely to stick
around and take care of the offspring because they want
to protect their genetic investment and they have no
interest at all to pursue other women. Well, they actually
have no other opportunities or even need to invest
elsewhere.

Now, a woman has an interesting choice. Generally, the


reason why a man is attracted to a woman is that he has
indicators of good genetics, but that attractive guy also
has a lot of options and which has a high chance of being
unfaithful, and would be less likely to take care of the
kids.

Looking for good genes and finding a man that will stay
and take care of kids can sound conflicting.

On the one hand, women would want to have good


genes but on the other hand, they want someone to take
care of the kids. These two ideas are fighting it out.
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The woman would have to look for a strategy that would


work well on both ideas. There are a few strategies that
they could take and there is a dilemma for that.

WHO CAN COMPROMISE?


Women want a guy that can do both. Someone who will
stay around and take care of the kids. Women would
rather be with a guy that isn't very attractive as they know
he has a lower chance to cheat. On the other hand,
women also want a man who isn't a total loser, with good
genetics, and they can count on to protect them in times
of danger.

They find that middle ground and that is one strategy they
can work for. It may not sound like an optimal strategy for
women, but it is workable.

The optimal strategy here is to be impregnated by an


attractive man with good genetics and be taken care of
by the less attractive one. She would have the best of
both worlds. She does not necessarily have to have the
child of the same man and raise the child with that man.

There’s this biological drive for women to put guys in


different categories and treat them differently. Which is
why the female dilemma is that women are biologically
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designed to cheat. Their bodies have biological drives to


cheat.

Does this mean that all women cheat? Don’t worry this
does not mean that all would cheat and all women are
cheaters. Women tend to cheat when it becomes
desirable to her.

While women have the tendencies to cheat when it


becomes very beneficial and desirable to her, men on the
other hand have two aspects.

First is the attractive man who sleeps around with a lot of


women, but is less likely to take care of his children. He
is called a LOVER.

The other one is someone in which the less attractive


man would be more likely to take care of the kids and
stick around. He is called the PROVIDER.

These are strategies and aspects that are based on


times before and how biologically and sexually men and
women are designed.

There are a lot of things to analyze and remember here


in order to fully understand women. Take note of these
things for these will be of great value as our discussions
continue.
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DOES SHE LIKE YOU?


Indicators of Interest (IOI) is very much important in
different aspects of life. When you see a girl a meter
away in a noisy place like clubs or streets and you make
a signal to meet at a place with her where you both could
go and talk face to face, that is actually showing interest.

Now, in biology, there is a thing called a signaling theory.


Within evolutionary biology, signaling theory is a body of
theoretical work examining communication between
individuals, both within species and across species.

Going back to women and romance itself, in all games of


love, all of psychology, IOIs are very important.

IOI is an idea from evolution and basically, it’s the idea


that when animals are selecting mates, they are looking
at specific criteria. It is like looking at a few indicative
markers that kind of give them what they want to be
seeing or even the full picture.

The usual example given for IOIs is the peacock’s


feathers. I learned this from my mentor, Mystery - known
to be the best dating coach, and he called this the
“Peacock Theory”.
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Peacock’s have brightly colored tail feathers and to be


honest, those don’t help them to survive. Those brightly
colored feathers attract attention and actually attract
predators which makes you question, why do they have
it when it doesn’t help with survival at all?

It’s because these feathers help at mating. A peahen is


attracted to it. Now, why is it attracted to a peacock’s tail
feather? Well, it’s because peahens that were attracted
to peacocks before did a better job genetically. But why
is this still possible?

In order for the peacock’s tail feathers to be that beautiful,


it needs proper nourishment. It needs to be well-fed and
be doing well in life because genetically it would not be
able to create those colors. So, the peacock is showing
that it is not just surviving but it is thriving.

Now, why do we call it an IOI? Because it is something


that the peacock can’t fake. Being alive and surviving
through predators can’t be faked because if it is dead, it
wouldn’t exist.

There are similar kinds of things with men and women.


You can talk your way through a girl all day long and she
still can't believe in what you are saying but when she
sees one IOI she can instantly like you. Now, this is one
of the reasons why women often idolize celebrities.
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When speaking to a woman or trying to win her over, try


your best to just be yourself. Don’t show that you have
an agenda because she will see right through it. You
need to seem genuine because women are looking out
for that teeny tiniest indicator for things to click. If you get
the IOIs right, the rest doesn’t matter.

Now, what you need to work on is how to exude IOIs and


how to show it positively and not negatively.

DOESN’T SHE LIKE YOU?

This is the second way of trying to give off an interest.


Few times, something that is negative can be perceived
as IOD – Indicators of Disinterest. If it’s positive, it is
perceived as IOI. You might think, well that’s not fair
because that wasn’t the case and it unintentionally
became an IOI. Well, it does seem kind of fucked up but
it is true.

When you try to present yourself in a positive light, it


seems like it is manufactured. It appears scripted and it
comes off as fake IOI. When you make mistakes
regularly, they are going to assume that you are just like
that and you have no agenda. Then again, no agenda
means IOD.
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What’s the point of making mistakes?

Well, imagine this- You did 10 amazing things to try to


impress a girl but then, you made 1 unintentional
mistake. It might seem off in your perspective but this one
mistake can be perceived as an IOI. Technically, this can
make up for all the amazing things you did. That gives off
an IOD.

It is better to actually make mistakes once for every few


amazing things you do.

Here’s another scenario in order for you to understand


this more.

You went out on a date with a woman and consistently,


you have been telling the truth and trying to impress her,
then all of a sudden, when you took her home you fucked
up and made a mistake. Now, this obliterates everything
you did well previously because she will now doubt you.

The best case here is that when the date started, you
didn’t try to be perfect. You made mistakes a few times
then did amazing things and then made another few
mistakes again. Now, she is going to perceive you as a
real and honest person because you are showing a few
flaws.
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Never try to attain a perfect image when impressing a


girl, it would be really hard for you to keep that consistent.

THE 80/20 PRINCIPLE


This principle is technically just about doing not as much
effort but getting the same results. I got this principle from
“The Pareto Principle” - by doing more or by doing less.
And you can do this principle on meeting women.

Most of the time people tend to think that doing


something or doing too much is making up for the things
and is worth the reward but imagine this, doing as little
as possible but still getting the thing you want.

80/20 principle is pretty much the same as the 95/5


principle wherein you do 5% of the work but still get the
same reward if ever you do the 95%.

This 80/20 principle is a trick that works when you want


to try and make your way with a woman.

LABELS AND DESCRIPTIONS


ON HER NUMBER
Packaging is something essential as it is used for the
identification of the product. It enhances the appearance
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of the label for promoting the product. This is the major


importance of labeling when it is in contrast to products.

Now, I’m not saying you should objectify women but what
I’m advising you is to label women’s numbers and
probably add some descriptions as well.

Labeling also helps to provide the information about the


woman which will greatly help you identify which is which.
This function fulfills the informative purpose of using a
tag.

So now, what’s the Importance of labeling women’s


numbers? Personally, I use labeling women’s numbers
to bring identification. This kind of labeling helps me a lot
to differentiate the woman from the rest in my contacts.

Women’s numbers need to be branded to help with


identification and play a key role in who to text when I
want to do this and who to call when I want to do that.
Labelling women’s numbers needs to be precise in order
to help you in identifying who you are talking to at the
moment.

There are two ways of labelling and adding description to


a woman’s number:

1. High Value and;


2. Low Value
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With high value women, your label should be more


specific and more detailed. For example you should
include if she’s hot, if she’s cute, what are the key points
about her, what she likes, what she does to keep herself
busy etc.

What is this going to do is help you make the most out of


your connection with this high value woman. You would
now have a higher chance of getting her since you are
able to identify such kinds of things.

Now for the label of low value women, on the other hand,
you don’t need to put that label that much. In fact, if she
is of low value, you wouldn’t need to even save her
number. However, low value women are preferable
connections for they could have higher value women that
you can know, therefore expanding your connections and
your chances of getting a high value woman.

CHANGE HER MOOD NOT HER


MIND

In your life, you feel a wide variety of emotions. All of


them, to some degree, influence your decision-making.
Unfortunately, men don’t usually depend on emotion
when deciding but guess who does? Women.
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If you want to persuade someone of something, you


usually don't convince them logically. Most people do not
make decisions logically. What they do is they make
decisions emotionally and then they justify them logically.

Now here are some emotions and how they affect a


woman’s decision making. These could help you open
certain things up at a certain time where the woman is
feeling a certain emotion in order to get a favorable
result.

1. SADNESS

Women make decisions more slowly when they’re


sad. It is a scientific fact that sadness fogs your
brain and makes even the most routine decisions
more difficult. When women feel sad, they make
decisions based on short-term gains. When they’re
sad, they seek happiness as quickly as possible,
regardless of the long-term implications.

2. ANXIOUS

Women are more selfish and less ethical when


anxiety kicks in. When they’re afraid, they adopt a
survival mindset. They take less time to reflect on
the consequences of their actions.
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3. AWE

Women are more giving when in awe. People who


experience awe are more giving of their time and
more willing to help others. They feel more satisfied
with their achievements and status. In fact, they feel
more accomplished and fulfilled.

4. ANGER

Women are able to identify a better argument when


mad so it’s best not to fight with her during these
times. Despite outdated claims that anger makes
you less analytical, angry subjects are better able
to distinguish between weak and strong arguments
in essays.

Now, why are these so much important? Women are


emotionally driven and it is only right to persuade them in
an emotional manner as well.

Appealing to emotion creates a connection with women,


which makes them more open to your calls to action.

Creating that connection helps them, understand your


perspective, accept your perspective and perform the
action you suggest. Which will then give you great
results.
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WHAT DOES SHE MEAN?

I want to make a very important point and that is listen to


the woman that you are trying to get along with.

I don't mean listen to what she's literally telling because


every guy can do that. What I mean is listen to the
subtext. Listen to what she's saying through the lens of
all the things that you have learned in this course.

What are her genetics saying? What is her sexual drive


and desire?

Let’s try to put it in a scenario:


Have you listened to Justin Bieber’s song “What Do You
Mean?”.

This topic is exactly just about that. It’s about women


saying things but actually trying to let you know another
meaning.

To further explain this, here is a scenario:

Imagine you’re in a club and you have been talking to this


amazingly beautiful woman. Your conversation is
running smoothly and you have been spending quite
some time talking to her but then she started saying that
she won’t be kissing you.
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Take note that this is out of context and that it’s weird.
Now, what you have to do is carefully assess the
situation and see to it if she really meant what she said.

Look at her body language, is she far from you or is she


near? Her body language would dictate if she really
meant what she said.

If she’s leaning away or she’s not even that close to you


then maybe she really meant that she doesn’t want to
kiss you.

If she’s leaning into you and you’re actually quite face to


face that means she’s trying to say something else. It’s
like she is wanting you to make the move to kiss her and
you’re not doing anything.

Again, always take note of the surroundings, the


ambiance and the woman’s body language in order to
properly deduce a calculated meaning to what she really
said.

In order to further understand why women behave this


way, I will be giving you reasons why they sometimes say
something but mean something else.

1. SUPERIORITY COMPLEX: In a bid to feel


superior and self-assured, they do something
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entirely different just so that they can stitch a


temporary mat over their exposed selves.

2. SOCIAL ACCEPTANCE: Some girls just want to


fit in, even if technically they don’t share the same
thoughts.

3. LAZINESS: If that something involved changing


themselves, it could be attributed to simply being
lazy and not wanting to make an effort.

4. IN DENIAL: She doesn’t want to admit or do


something because she feels like she isn’t
supposed to be doing that but that she wants to.

5. INSECURE: Insecurity is a recurring theme for


women so it is really no wonder that they are
sometimes insecure when they say things but
mean another thing. They are either afraid of
rejections or just scared to make a move on a
guy.

It is our job to re-read the signs that women are giving us


because if we don’t and we just take things literally then
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we would never get a chance to discover the true


meaning behind some things that women say.

WHEN TALKING TO HER

Of course, integrity is a personal quality of fairness that


we all aspire to — unless you're dishonest. Having
integrity means doing the right thing in a reliable way. It's
a personality trait that we admire, since it means a
person has the ability to judge what is right and wrong
and act accordingly that is reliable.

The final point I want to make in this section of the


program might sound uncharacteristically kind of
nonsense or not really based in science. Stick with me,
here's the point I want to make:

Having integrity is actually going to help your


game. This not only may surprise some people
but also a lot of people would directly contradict
it.

A lot of people would say being a little more competitive,


or a little bit more willing to, plays to your advantage in a
game. That is a very useful trait and that actually is kind
of true - in the short run.
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However, there are a lot of very bad long-term


consequences of it.

It's a practical thing and having integrity is going to help


your game. I'm going to show you why.
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LEAVING MY FAMILY

It's the evening of November and here I am, sitting with


my arms crossed, looking at my opened closet. I am
browsing through my clothes and thinking of what to
bring. Should I bring more than one luggage or should I
just bring a few bags? I will definitely bring my guitar, but
what about my clothes? Should I bring just a few of my
clothes? Maybe I should bring everything?

After a couple of minutes of debating what and what not


to bring, I heard a knock. I was wondering who that was
but the person who knocked answered for me.

“Hey, Son. It’s Mom. Why don’t you go downstairs? It’s


time to eat.”
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I took the invitation to dinner as a reason to get my mind


out of this luggage problem. I rose from my seat and went
downstairs, straight to the kitchen. From afar, I can
already smell the food. As I entered the kitchen, there
was turkey, fruits, dessert, a little bit of cake served.
Looks appetizing - but not to me. I don’t really feel like
eating tonight.

I sat down, facing my sister at the dinner table, as her


boyfriend and my mom were sitting beside me. We
started saying our thanksgiving greetings like everything
was fine. It is the year 2003. I’m not really someone who
turns down parties or celebrations so I went on with the
thanksgiving dinner. We chatted about things but I can’t
help thinking this is going to be the last thanksgiving I will
be spending with my family. It’s kind of sad for me
because in about two days, I’m about to leave them
forever.

I didn’t grow up with my mom. I haven’t even spent a


whole year with them. I spent most of my life with my
grandma back in the Philippines. To be honest, I can’t
handle them.

American culture is very different from what I was familiar


with in the Philippines. Every time I go out here, I feel
uneasy. When I would go out in the Philippines, I could
always go wherever I want. There aren’t any restrictions.
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But here whenever I go would go out, I need to ask


permission.

My mom always wanted me to be a doctor. The topic of


becoming a doctor has come up more times than asking
me how my day was. I have different plans than to
become a doctor and I still don't know how to tell her yet.

My mind keeps wandering off of this dinner and brings


me back to my memories of the year I have spent with
my family. Upon looking at their faces, it struck me. My
mind is flooded with thoughts of leaving them. The
cultural difference is making me uneasy, which is why the
thought of leaving hasn’t left my mind since I got here. It
took me 2 months to realize if I would be leaving or just
stay here in the States with them.

How funny is it that instead of becoming close with


someone in the family, you become close with a
stranger? I met someone who I became closer with than
my family. We’re unrelated but I call him Tito Atoy. Of
course, there are times I open up to him about leaving -
he knew my plans. The only advice he gave me is that if
I wasn’t going to leave, I have to at least travel and
experience the world. I am mesmerized by what he said
so I kept that in mind.

Two days after Thanksgiving, I finally decided to leave. I


decided to go to this woman who I met at yahoo
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messenger. Her name is Veryl and she bought me a one-


way ticket to Vancouver, Canada. We have been talking
for quite a while and she was aware that I wasn’t happy
with my family. This is such a great escape plan for me.

My flight was at 2 am that day, but by 11 pm my luggage


was all packed. It is common Filipino culture to be
prepared 3-4 hours before flight.

Before leaving the house, I made a fake body with pillows


and left it under the sheets of my bed so it would look like
I was still there sleeping. I brought tons of jackets
because it is winter in Canada so I have to be prepared.

I went out of my room and called a cab. I told the driver


to go to 389 Virginia Avenue - just two blocks away from
our house. I don’t want the taxi to wake up the people in
the house. Me leaving will be suspicious. The taxi will be
here 30-40 minutes.

I checked the things I’ll be bringing. I brought my guitar,


one luggage and a few clothes. Taking one last check at
my luggage, I went out at the back of the house.

While waiting, a taxi came a little too early than expected.


I noticed that it stopped at my house, when I clearly told
the cab to stop a few blocks away from my address.
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Looking at the cab in front of our house, I was surprised


when a woman went out. It was my Mom. Another taxi
came, now a few blocks away, and I knew that was my
cab. Mom was still near her cab so I waited for her to get
inside the house. I’m afraid she will catch me and call
911. I don’t want to be deported back to the Philippines.

As soon as she came inside the house I went running to


my cab. “Airport please.” I said to the driver.

Catching my breath, a sense of relief washed through


me. This is it! I finally left the house and I’m on my way
to the airport.

Lost at the relief I felt, another feeling is rising up in me.


Fear since I didn't bring that much money. I pull out my
wallet to check how much I got. I was worried my money
won’t be enough. Counting the bills and the coins, I only
have 50 dollars and 60 cents. Let’s just hope that the ride
would not cost more than 50 dollars.

Arriving nearer and nearer at the airport, the fare meter


strikes up signaling a rise in the cab fee. The only thing I
could look at while in transportation is the meter itself. I’m
hoping it will not get past 50 dollars.

44 dollars… 45 dollars… 46 dollars…. 47 dollars… 48


dollars.
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Then the cab stopped and I finally looked around to take


in my surroundings. I’m finally at the airport. The cab
driver told me the fare is just 48 dollars. Thank God.

I safely got in the plane. It was a half-day flight from New


Jersey to Vancouver so I took the time to rest.

Hours later, here I am at Vancouver airport and about to


meet Veryl. She is half Mexican and half Filipina. I don’t
know if it is obvious by looking at me, but I am very
nervous. I struggled to type and inform her about my
whereabouts.

“Hey, I’m already here at the airport. I just arrived.”

I waited for her response as I tapped my phone in my


hand. Looking at my surroundings. I’m too nervous, I
need to go to the restroom! Looking at the restroom’s
mirror, I became worried. Looking at myself, I’m chubby
and I don’t know how to dress properly. I’m not good with
girls. Is she going to like me? I mean we only talked
through my phone but that’s about it.

My phone then vibrated, which took me out of my


thoughts.

“Hey! I’m here. Where are you?”


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Getting a grip of myself, I prepared to meet her. I brushed


my hair, brushed my teeth and then I went out. Looking
around, I saw a stunning woman which stopped me from
my tracks. She looks like a Jennifer Lopez twin! She’s
curvaceous, she has a nice rack, she has a beautiful
face, she has brown hair, she was wearing boots! Oh,
God.

Insecurity got the best of me again. Is she going to like


me? Damn, if she decided not to let me sleep at their
house this is bad for me.

As I walked around the airport, looking for her, I was


stopped by the Immigration. I was asked what I would do
here. I told them I was here to meet my cousin and my
Aunt. They allowed me to stay for one month because I
have no return ticket. As I went closer to her, I kept
admiring her beauty.

She keeps getting more and more beautiful as I get


closer to her. I saw her smile but there’s a hint of disgust
in her face. It’s like she doesn’t want me there. Wanting
to make the situation better, I told her that I just have to
stay here in Canada for 2-3 days.

On our way to their house, we talked personally. I can’t


help but admire her beauty. I don’t know what to do. What
will I do when we’re inside the room? Should I kiss her
first? I clearly don’t know what to do.
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Their house is big! Cars line up at the front of their house.


She’s not only beautiful, but she’s also wealthy. How did
I get a chance to talk to her? I feel lucky just being beside
her.

I kept making jokes to make her laugh but she wasn’t


laughing. I can feel the tension in the air and I feel like I
need to lighten up the mood because she is still
disappointed when she looks at me. I can see it in her
eyes. She led me to my room and I took the opportunity
to take a shower. After showering, I called Kuya Atoy. I
felt the need to tell someone my whereabouts and no
other person was reliable to know my location. The call
at first was merely about stories of me arriving and my
admiration towards the girl. Then, I started asking for
advice.

“Kuya, Atoy. I have a problem.”

“Sure, what is it?”

“I don’t know if she likes me. She looks disappointed


every time I look at her.”

There was a short pause till his reply.

“Do you watch porn?”

“Yes.” I answered, taken aback.

“Okay, just try and do what they’re doing. Do what you


see in porn to please her. She will like you.”
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The conversation ended after a few girl advice Kuya Atoy


gave me.
An hour later, we are now lying down in bed. The lights
were off but we know we are beside each other. I can feel
her warmth beside me. It was nice talking to her
personally, instead of just through the messenger. It was
great talking to her about things. Real things.
We stopped talking for a while until I felt her lips on mine.
She started kissing me. I am not experienced in terms of
sex and girls but I did my best to make her feel wanted. I
followed Kuya Atoy’s advice.

As she kissed me, I ran my hands through her back,


slowly lifting the back of her shirt. I started drawing circles
at the back of her waist. She moaned and that’s when I
felt like I was doing fine.

Grabbing her by the waist, I was able to put her on top of


me. We were still making out, till I felt her lips leave mine.
She left a trail of kisses on my jaw, down to my neck then
to my chest.

I sit up, removing her top after she removes mine. That’s
when I felt her lick my nipples. DAMN. It felt nice and it
sent butterflies to my stomach. Her kisses went down till
she reached my pants. I heard the unzipping of my jeans
and that’s when she cupped me. It feels really good so I
grab her face and kiss her again.
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She pulled away, then reached for my jeans and started


pulling out my shaft, freeing it from my jeans. She started
rubbing the tip and that’s when I looked up and groaned.
This feels too good.
She’s too impatient though, instead of just rubbing, I felt
her mouth on me. She started sucking it and that’s when
I realized she was giving me a blow job. I only saw and
read about this! I never thought this would feel this way.
It tickles too, damn.

I tried helping her by pulling her hair into a ponytail as


she sucked me. I can’t see her in the dark but I can feel
her wet mouth sucking on me. Feeling that I was too
turned on and my shaft was up, I, too, got impatient.

I cupped her face, kissing her lips hungrily this time. I


switched our positions, she’s now on her back and I’m on
top. That’s when I started entering her slowly. In and out
of her, she moaned and moaned. I am impatient but I’m
trying to get reactions from her.

“Faster, baby.” she moaned but I didn’t give her the


satisfaction.

“Wait.” I stated, just slowly going in and of her. Teasing


her. “You are experienced in this, aren’t you?” she stated
breathily.
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I took that as a compliment, so I pounded into her hard


till she was screaming my name. I followed Kuya Atoy’s
advice. We did different positions till we no longer know
how long we have been doing that. I remember the titanic
sex scene too, which made things more interesting.

I don’t know what happened, maybe it was the sex,


maybe it was the talk, but my plan to stay at Canada for
2-3 days turned to a week, then a couple of weeks, then
a month, then a couple of months. In total, I stayed there
for 3 months. My stay took longer than I expected
because she fell in love with me. Who am I to turn down
a beautiful woman in love? There’s one person I should
be thanking for making this happen, though. It’s Kuya
Atoy.
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“BANG FOR YOUR BUCK” BY


A.L.P.H.A.
EXPERIENCE REPORT

BACKGROUND: So there I was, a mildly successful,


spoiled corporate rat, living in an ever shrinking world. I
recently just got over my annulment and got tired of
hanging out with Jack Daniels, Johnny Walker, and the
ever-reliable San Miguel. I couldn’t wait to start living like
a possessed bachelor.

I needed to get women back in my life. The only problem


– I didn’t know how and didn’t know how to start. I tried
starting the best and only way I knew how. I drank and
got liquid confidence, confidence to say what I wanted to
say and do what I wanted to do. I got lucky once in a
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while (fortunately and as per Smooth, I’m a natural


“Alpha Male”), but I needed consistency. Having this
eureka moment, I did what I always do with work – I
studied. I figured that in order to get consistency, I
needed to know the process and understand the science
behind female attraction. That’s when I really found the
PUA Academy.

JOURNEY BEGINS: It took about a month for me to


decide to undergo the bootcamp. When I finally did, I only
had 4 days left in my schedule before I had to leave for
Europe.

Pleasantly surprised, PUA Academy made time for me.


Smooth set up our first meeting in a mall in Quezon City.
When I first saw him, I wondered to myself, “who the hell
is this guy claiming to understand women?” He was a
small dude with overly waxed hair and spoke with a
Filipino American accent.

I began to rationalize my initial judgement and told myself


to listen and just hoped to learn a thing or two. He started
his lecture, and within minutes, I was sold.

I was wrong for judging him, this guy knew his stuff. He
not only understood women, he’s the real deal – a dating
& relationship coach.
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After the lecture, we walked around and began my first


day game experience. I was nervous and he kept
pushing me to approach women - women in bookstores,
in elevators, women everywhere, but my balls backed
out.

I asked him to give me an example so I could follow his


lead. BOOM – a cute girl on her cellphone, number
closed! I thought to myself, “are you kidding me?!! She
was on the fucking phone and he still got her number?” I
was impressed. I wanted to be a student.

That night we decided to go to a club game. Slowly, I


began to relax. Internalizing everything Smooth taught
me while carrying the needed “fuck-it” mentality he taught
me; I began to understand the process. I approached
women, sometimes with hesitation, but generally
accepted the learning experience.

The result – zero rejections, a couple of numbers, and a


longing to improve my game.

Thanks to PUA Academy, I am now a certified bachelor


and learning the art of dating. I won’t stop learning. I now
feel more confident with women (they are not mean and
bitchy, they are really beautiful and nice) and know that I
can get what I want.
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Aside from women, I’ve now applied the concepts in my


work and have seen great results. I seem to get what I
want across easier and get people to respond to me
naturally. Glad to be part of the brotherhood.

Best “bang for the buck” investment I’ve made in years.


With it, now, I bang for free. A student for life.”

- Alpha, Manila City


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ALWAYS HAVE A PLAN B.


READ THIS AND YOU’LL
KNOW WHY
BY JACK PHIL

I’ve been with Smooth almost every day so I always see


his game. And yes, it keeps me motivated. One time, he
had a set that he brought to our office. WOW! This girl is
an HB 9 and high-value girl. I told myself that if Smooth
can have a girl like that even if he is so busy with our
company, why in the hell I can’t have that?

So what I did is I game online. Since I know how to build


an instant attraction in an online game (thanks to the
cure), I know what to do now. So probably, I messaged
4-6 new HB and 3 old sets. For almost 1 hour of chatting,
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3 of my sets (2 new and 1 old) have agreed to meet me


so now it’s time for me to choose who I want to meet.

But this one girl that I really like is from Cavite. It’s too far.
It will be easy for me if I have a car but at that time, I didn’t
have one. Too bad, right? But since this girl already
agreed to meet me, I’m thinking that this girl might have
a second guess if I will not push through. So I made up
my mind to do this. I knew that there are the possibilities
that this girl might not show up but I’m willing to take a
risk.

MY MINDSET
Since this is my first time doing this, I won’t take the risk
without plan B. So what I did is I met my old set first (this
is my set where I lay in a fire exit) and I’m planning to go
with her in a motel room but I don’t have enough money
plus I’m going to Cavite also. But I really want to lay her
again so this is what I did, I told her that since we started
in a fire exit, why not we try in a public comfort room and
she agreed. I told her that she will go first and I will just
follow her. Since her buying temperature is already up, I
did not waste time and we did it right away. And the rest
is history.

Now, I have nothing to lose. I am already laying a girl. If


the HB set from Cavite showed up, that’s perfect but if
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she doesn’t, that’s fine also. I already have 1 lay. I’m not
that needy. So, now my mindset is I don’t give a fuck.

PLANNING STAGE
It's hard to go to war without a plan. For sure, you will not
learn, and most importantly you will not win. I already
have a plan in my mind. If she shows up, I will create an
attraction right away through my DHV story. I will meet
her in a convenience store and I will do that there. I plan
to bounce her to a restaurant where we can eat and drink
beer. And from there, I will isolate her. I don’t know how
but I’m very confident with my game, I just need to meet
her.

THE MEET UP
I traveled for almost 2 hours. I fell asleep inside the bus.
I’m worried that she might not show up. But if not, at least
I slept already and will go back to Manila right away. So,
I texted her that I’m near already in our meeting place
even though I know that it’s still far. I just want to know if
she will respond. She responded. After 30 minutes, I
texted her that I’m already in our meeting place. I told her
that she needs to go there now.

I let her wait for 10 minutes because unconsciously, she


was investing time at that moment. WOW! This girl is HB
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8(morena), boobs 9, body 8 but a low-value girl. We had


a 10 minute conversation and I started creating
attraction. While we were talking, I asked her what’s the
best restaurant in that area because I’m so hungry
already and I want to eat now. So we bounced
immediately.

THE COMFORT PHASE


While we are ordering food, I’m trying to do kino but she’s
not that comfortable. So what I’ve learned from
SUPERCAMP is if a girl is not that comfortable yet, I need
to go back to attraction so I go back there and do some
of my routines that are in Smooth Seduction, like 5 lies
game, thumb war, and question game. I did all of that
because for now, I always game solid. I don’t skip steps.
I saw that she is smiling already. That's enough IOI for
me. So I started telling her that I have a meeting
tomorrow here in Cavite so that I need to stay in a hotel
or motel room and I started asking her if she knows
some. But I changed the topic right away, I just said that
so that if I tried to pull her she will not have a reason that
I’m trying to have sex with her.

We continued our conversation for 30 minutes. I’m


finding commonalities to build a connection. We started
drinking for 1 bottle only and I told her that I have an early
meeting tomorrow that’s why I need to find a room
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already. I asked for her support. We did go to a motel


room for 8 hours.

ISOLATION
Maybe, some of you are asking, why I continue to pull
her even though she is not throwing a lot of IOI. I cannot
even touch her hand. Why?

Here’s why.

1. Yes, she is not giving me a lot of IOI. But


she’s giving me enough IOI, like staying with
me. Time is part of the investment that you
need to get. She is giving me a lot of time.

2. She is not telling me that she wants to go


home already so it means she is comfortable
with me. Maybe she is just a girl who doesn't
give so much IOI because she doesn’t want
someone to judge her or maybe she is that
good that she is gaming me also.

3. Like I told you earlier, I’m very confident that


I can lay her, I just need to isolate. So again I
take that risk.

Once, we go inside the room, I take a look at


what she is going to do. She sat in a chair and
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not in the bed so again, it shows she is not yet


ready. So again I tell her a lot of stories of mine.
You and I against the world, future projection.
I’m doing it so that she will know that this is not
just one night stand. After 30 minutes, I made
progress, she is kissing me and I’m licking her
neck. But she doesn’t want to go to bed, maybe
because she knows what will happen next. It's
already 2am. Come on. I’m about to give up.

THE ESCALATION
Since I’m kissing her already, I’m doing the 5-10-15 so
that I can escalate her. I decided to take a shower. After
that, I saw that she turned off some of the lights. Well,
that shows she wanted to do it when the lights are off. So
what I did is I freeze out, I just watched tv and I’m not
trying to escalate her. I told her that I’ll be sleeping in 15
minutes so she needs to lay in our bed already and she
did comply. This is it. Once she’s in bed already, I’m not
doing anything. I just held her hand and started kissing it.
And when she’s moaning already when I’m licking her
neck, that's the time I turn off the lights. AND THE REST
IS HISTORY.

PS: This girl is always texting me that she learned a lot


from me and she is glad to meet me. And I’m telling her
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to stop smoking, it will not do any good to her body. I’m


helping her now to raise her value and standard.

1. I know for a first-timer that there’s a lot of jargon there.


If you have questions, message me or attend our free
tour.

2. Always have a plan B. Imagine if I don’t have a plan B,


I will be so eager to lay her and I will look so needy by
that, it’s LOW value.

3. I’m so thankful that I know the complete how-to's on


making the girl comfortable to me. If I just skipped a step
I might fuck up. Thanks to SUPERCAMP.
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CHAPTER 2
KNOW THYSELF

“The first thing you have to know is yourself.


A man who knows himself can step outside
himself and watch his own reactions like an
observer.”
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REAL OR FAKE

You might be wondering why there are not many IOI and
IOD lessons when in fact it is important. IOIs are crucial,
but for now, it’s time we dwell on another topic.

One of the mostly used paradoxes in pick up is “Just be


yourself or fake it”. One of my life coaches, RSD Tyler,
keeps saying that “The self is always coming through”
which means just be yourself or be your best self.

Meanwhile, faking it means adapting the absolute best


possible behaviors, even when it’s unnatural or
incongruent with you, and you will grow into them and
fully adopt these behaviors.

That is a major paradox since both of these are viable


ways of learning the game.

Just by being yourself is also known as the “Natural Style


Game”.

Majority of what’s taught in the industry are towards men


who are new to the game. Most of the time just focusing
on the new guy who doesn’t know what to do, who’s
confused, lost, and doesn’t get any results.
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When a man who’s new to the game is already using the


“fake it till you make it” style of game, it won’t go that well.
What will happen are the following:

1. The period of time that they will be faking


would be awhile. They could be faking it for a
long time to actually get results, which is a
hard road to go.

2. Faking it is going to make them less


congruent and as we have discussed before,
congruence is parallel to honest signals. The
more congruent you seem to be, the more you
seem to show an honest signal. We have
discussed the hidden truth and we all know
that it is a bad thing when playing games.

What should be taught to men who are new to the game


is not to make the grave mistake of making a dishonest
signal. Always know that congruence is equal to IOI.
Don’t give off a vibe of having an agenda or being fake
because it will ruin your game.

For a man who is a newbie, it is essential to teach them


that in order to get a girl is to be true to yourself,
congruent, the best you can be, and be on your current
skill set because that’s what will get him results the
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fastest. By not self-monitoring, the newbie will come off


better for most girls and he would be getting results.

Note that using the natural style game isn’t always good.
The problem is when you are being yourself, it seems like
you don’t open yourself to growth. You don’t open
yourself up on going to the next level because that level
requires you to monitor yourself, monitor your partner,
monitor your progress, and be a little analytical.

An advanced level of the game requires a certain skill


set. The problem with guys getting comfortable with just
being themselves is that it becomes harder to get results.
You don’t get that great of a result, but it’s like a big
number’s game.

Another problem with using the Natural Style is that you


now have a mentality that there’s no reason you aren’t
enough. That’s actually great advice for someone fairly
new to the game but when you change that, you would
have to change the aspect that got you results in order to
go to the next level. You will need to get that piece that
got you results and unwind it. Now you will start self-
monitoring and, to be honest, it will hurt your results but
don’t worry because it is essential for self-growth when
in-game.

The paradox is that if you have learned on the basis that


“there is nothing to improve” or “I don’t need to monitor
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everything”, then you will have to get slightly worse in


order to get better. That is why almost nobody in pick-up
gets too advanced.

The solution is this: Just try to be yourself. That’s going


to get you results in the short term. Try that most of the
time - just be yourself. However, it is absolutely critical to
figure out the behaviors you want to emulate and to adapt
and go out and act as if.

We have discussed both men and women labeling each


other and how most men and women are actually just
between these categories. It is time to apply it to this style
of game. Get a little bit both in order to make progress.

Be yourself but also remember to achieve the behavior


you would want to manifest.

EMOTIONS ARE NOT GOD

Why does focusing on your emotions don’t work?

To start, when you overthink with your emotions, you


tend to lose focus on what’s happening in your
surroundings. You tend to focus only on one thing and
that is how you’ve been feeling.
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The more time you dwell on thinking about your


emotions, the lesser you will notice that you are losing
time on things that you should be doing.

For example, you are trying to impress a woman and


then you feel like you messed up. Now in the midst of
talking and engaging with her you started to think about
your emotions. You started thinking about how bad your
move might have been and then slowly you got into your
head and you lost the woman you are engaging with.
Now you wonder, how did that happen?

While you were too busy thinking about how bad you
might have done, the woman you just engaged with is not
just staring at a man with a blank face. You seem like
you’re thinking too deeply. That’s bad for your game.

Another thing is when you are too busy connecting with


yourself, you start losing connection in real time. This
means the more you think about your emotions, the more
chances you will lose the woman you are engaging with.

There’s another thing called “in the state” wherein men


are too focused on their emotions that they start to think
they have to get in a good state in order to talk to women.

Again, you are too focused on yourself and your


emotions about how you are going to impress this
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woman or going to do well or not that you are losing your


presence in real time.

Avoid trying to get too much in your head. This will ruin
your game.

I know it is hard to try and not get into your head too much
but there is actually a way how to.

The first one is through actions but before we get into


that, let’s make a scenario.

Imagine this, scientifically speaking, our body does two


types of actions. The involuntary and voluntary action.
Let’s define it.

Voluntary actions are those actions on which you have


control. These actions can be controlled by you willfully.
For example: snapping of fingers, walking, punching, and
engaging in sexual activities.

Another example of this is when you try and kiss a girl,


you voluntarily did that. One of the simplest examples is
just rolling your fist in a position to punch or even just
tapping your lap. Those are voluntary actions.

An involuntary action is one which occurs without your


conscious choice. If it occurs specifically in response to
a stimulus, it will be known as a reflex. Involuntary actions
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are opposite of voluntary actions that occur because of


choice.

Now an example of this is our beating heart. It beats


involuntarily and we can’t really command it to do what
we want for it to do. Another involuntary action is our
breathing. We can stop it for a while but still, our body
needs it in order to function so no matter how much you
stop you will still be breathing.

Let’s connect it with the topic of why your emotions don’t


work. Notice that you can never stop an involuntary
action or even command it to do what you want, but by
doing an action you can then let it do something different
from what it is supposed to do.

Another scenario is the heart, no matter how much we


command it to do what we want, it won’t do it but notice
that when we do an action, it starts beating faster and
when we do yoga or we relax it beats slower.

This is an example of how to stop yourself from


overthinking or dwelling too much or even spending too
much time on your emotions. Do an action. Do
something, act on it so you will keep yourself from getting
into your head.
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SOCIAL ACCOUNT

Social capital or the social bank account, as a lot of


people like to call it, is literally everything in text.

I'm going to briefly go through what exactly it is, how it


works, how you build social capital, why you need to build
it and how you can use it.

Learn this lesson well, it's super critical.

So, what is social capital?

The idea is that you essentially have a social bank


account with every human being on the planet even if
you've never met them. Here’s a scenario to further
explain this.

A random stranger, badly dressed, comes up on the


street asking for money. Most people will be
uncomfortable in that situation and they have a very
negative response, so they wouldn’t want to give that
person money.

If a good friend you've known for years came up to ask


you all of a sudden for money, then you may be more
willing. In most cases, you will lend him money as long
as it’s a reasonable amount.
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What's the difference between the two scenarios?

The difference is that with your friend you've known for


years, you have this extended positive history and you
have a long history where you did good things for him
and vice versa. You’ve known each other and you have
commonalities. Quite possibly, when you've done things
for him in the past, he responded by paying you back or
he responded by doing something for you so you feel like
in the future there’s going to have a lot of implied
positivity there as well.

With a stranger, how would you feel? You’d think that this
guy has done nothing for me, I don't know him and the
first thing that he is doing is asking something from me.

When people ask for things from you then that makes
you uncomfortable. It’s kind of the same thing when you
meet a girl.

If you meet a girl you're constantly saying, “Hey do this


for me”, “Hey send me a naked picture” or “Hey let's get
together for a date on this day, at this time”.

When you’re asking and begging like that, the woman is


going to think that all you want from her is to try to get in
her pants. She will think that you’re not bringing any
value to the relationship.
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The girl is going to be very silent very quickly.

On the other hand, when you’re interacting with a girl and


you’re chill, sharing interesting stories, trying to tell jokes,
making her feel positive emotions, very occasionally
moving things forward, you would only start asking for
something only when you have established a
relationship, she's going to be very positive on that and
she's going to continue and grow that relationship with
you.

This is the idea: Whenever you are asking for something


from somebody, you are making a withdrawal on your
social capital. You have to be very careful because if you
try and withdraw more social capital than you have then
you will bring that bank account into a negative.

As established, social capital is a very important thing in


which you can only make a withdrawal once you have
established enough with the relationship. Try not to
demand things, be needy and force your partner when
you haven’t done really that much.

THE YES LADDER

Saying “YES” means making the most of every


opportunity and encounter. It means taking chances to
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stretch your comfort zone, to overcome your insecurities,


to beat fear, to get through failure, criticism, rejection,
and embarrassment with a positive spirit.

I want to introduce you to a concept called the “Yes


Ladder”.

This something is used in sales and is used in therapy


hypnosis.

The idea is instead of trying to get somebody to say yes


to a big thing, what you’re going to do is slowly try to get
them to say yes to a bunch of little things. Let her say yes
to the big question.

What’s happening is that since she kept saying yes to


small things, it leaves them to that big thing and by the
time they're actually making the big decision they already
have said yes many times and agreed to many little
things that it will be actually weird for them to say no to
the big question you’re going to ask.

Saying yes gets easier with time and practice. The more
you let her say it, the more she learns, the wider her
comfort level expands and the more she counts on you.

When you get her to say yes in dating you, then you will
need to maintain this yes ladder.
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What you need to do is to help her say yes to the


following:

● Say YES to opportunities to attempt something new


that you hadn’t tried before.

● Say YES to possibilities for new adventures,


challenges, and experiences.

● Say YES to things that somewhat scare you or that


you don’t quite understand.

● Say YES to things that break your monotonous


rituals, habits, and routines.

● Say YES to things that help you learn something


new about yourself, about others and about life.

● Say YES to building friendships and connections


with strangers.

● Say YES to experiencing changes that feel


uncomfortable and yet somewhat exciting at the
same time.

● Say YES to unexpected invites that create interest


and pull you out of your comfort zone.

● Say YES to random encounters and coincidences


that you don’t quite understand but would like to
make the most of.
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Making her say yes once might not make a significant


difference for tomorrow but it might very well send your
relationship in a brand-new direction that will bring about
tremendous benefits in the future once you get her to say
yes on small things until the big question comes up.

SOCIAL CAPITAL

Social capital has been discussed as something very


much of importance at text games so by now you should
be able to value it.

We talked before about how “yes” affects social capital


and that it builds and builds and builds.

What I want to very briefly talk about now is the word “no”
and how it affects the social capital.

When you hear the word “no” then that is probably the
biggest thing you can have that destroys your social
capital.

You want to avoid hearing the word “no”.

When thinking about what the word “no” means, the first
thing that comes to your mind is non-compliance.
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Oftentimes, “no” is a blatant rejection which then greatly


affects and ruins your game.

It means that the conversation or the interaction has


ceased moving forward and is now moving backwards.

For girls, they notice the trend in the interaction more


than they notice the interaction itself.

For example, when the interaction is really good and it


starts getting a little bad, women view that as something
negative and they feel bad about that interaction. As they
lose interest in that interaction, they more likely will say
no to almost everything you ask them.

How do you keep the conversation going and exciting?

It is common for conversations with new people to have


bumps at the beginning. Get them over those bumps
successfully, and you could find yourself building a
beautiful relationship.

Here are the best 5 ways I know to do this:

I. Find what to say in your favorite topics

We all have things we are passionate about:


activities, hobbies, projects, goals, ideas or jobs.
Take some time to make a short but relevant list
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with the things you are most passionate about,


and would make easy conversational topics for
you.

II. Ask open ended questions

One way to keep a conversation going is to get


the other person talking. And the best way to do
this is by addressing her open-ended questions.
These are questions which require more than
simple “yes” or “no” answers, and offer the
possibility of much richer answers.

III. Blurt

Blurting is a conversational technique which


means saying whatever you’re thinking about in
that moment, instead of censoring yourself. Give
it a try and you’ll discover that people are not that
harsh and they can enjoy a lot of things in a
conversation.

IV. Let the other person end the silence

Most people are uncomfortable with silence in a


conversation. When one occurs, they
immediately try to fill it by finding something to
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say. You can use this to keep a conversation


going.

V. Practice, Practice, Practice

I know many people who had huge problems


with keeping conversations going and now, they
can do this even with the most shy or
uncooperative person. How did they manage to
get to this point? They’ve practiced. They
consciously pushed themselves out of their
comfort zones, to meet new people, to socialize
and to apply techniques like the other 4
mentioned above. Do the same. You’ll see the
same kind of results with your conversational
skills.

CONVEY VALUE

The definition of convey is to transport or communicate


something. This is something related to what we will be
discussing in this video.

What life or lifestyle are you conveying to the girl?


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Ideally, when you've been talking to the girl personally


and you got her phone number and you conveyed certain
things about yourself, you conveyed a certain lifestyle,
that you have certain hobbies or passions or things in
common then that’s very useful.

Even beyond that, if you can convey a life that she wants
to be a part of, she's going to text you back.

If you conveyed a life she doesn't want to be a part of


then she's not going to text you back.

For example, if you were to send a value offering picture


of yourself or some kind of cool, fun, interesting picture
where you’re in an elegant restaurant, well-dressed then
she's probably more likely to text back than if it was a
picture of you in McDonald's.

If your first text is a funny text, that’s good in general but


if your first text is funny but also positive in a way that it
conveys you're happy about your life, then she's going to
be more willing to respond to that than you complaining
about a bunch of things.

If it's funny but it's complaining about something, the fact


that you're complaining might overwhelm the funny idea
as it might make her think it’s funny.
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What I’m saying here is that instead of just blatantly and


blandly texting her “Hi” or “Hey”, why not come up with
something that is unique but will also convey that you are
someone of high value.

Remember this: Women always want men that are of


higher level than them. So if you decide to text first and
convey, even with just that single text, that you are
someone who is important, someone who is enjoying his
life and someone who is of high value then she would
want to be a part of that something that you’re conveying
then she would most likely be texting you back.

BEHAVIORS

Let’s look at some common leveling behaviors.

Leveling shows how worthy you are as a man to sleep


with a certain woman. Now, these steps are going to help
you get your way with women but remember to use it
accordingly. Here are the following “loser” behaviors:

1. The Dancing Monkey

He is always the center of attention. A lot of guys


that would get into this game are very much shy and
at some point, they just put themselves out and want
to catch people’s attention. When they encounter a
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situation with social pressure, they don’t actually


stop and don’t back off because they can handle the
situation. It is actually a very attractive quality.

Being willing to be the center of attention and being


able to handle social pressure is a good thing.
However, a lot of guys overdo this. They learn a
lesson that is useful and they treat this as a gimmick.
They keep hitting that button and they become a guy
that can never shut up, can never chill out, can never
let anyone have the spotlight, and can never let go
of being the center of attention. In short, they
become annoying. This starts to create a hole in
their game and these are as follows:

A. A hole wherein there is no comfort in their


game and they can’t really be taken
seriously.

B. A hole wherein they start to look gimmicky


or frustrates people around them because
they are clearly not willing to relinquish
being the center of attention. It looks like
they are trying hard, they look needy and all
of a sudden, the leveling behavior doesn’t
work anymore.

Dancing Monkey is a behavior that has a lot of


positive characteristics and works to a point but
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when overdoing, it would only risk your chances of


leveling.

2. Impatience/ Escalation/ Over Escalation

A lot of guys get into the game and have a lot of


success with women but don’t know how to get
physical with a woman. Slowly, but surely, they will
start to learn that they actually can. What happens
is that they get comfortable with escalating in what
they are doing and they realize that when they ask
for things to go better, they will then start overdoing
it. Just like the dancing monkey, a leveling behavior
works at a certain point but when it is overdone, it
becomes risky.

In the impatience/ escalation/ over escalation


leveling behavior, men start escalating things. Then
this goes on and on.

To fully understand this leveling here are some


scenarios:

They are out in the club or they are out on a date


with a woman or they are making out with a girl.
Now, this consistently happens until all they do is
make out and make out. Now, it has come to a point
that they are making out so much, that it has
destroyed the sexual tension between them.
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(Kissing too much oftentimes kills off the sexual


tension because there is nothing more to look
forward to.

First, there was no sexual tension but then they


decided to create it by escalating things (making
out). Then they start overdoing it. By overdoing it
(continuously making out) consistently, it killed the
sexual tension between them. The overdoing of the
escalation is killing it.

What he should be doing when he found out that he


could make out with that girl is to actually not do it.
Now, why? Why would you do that if you already
have the chance to finally make out with a woman?
Teasing is what it is.

What happens here is that you both know you could


make it but you’re not doing it so she knows you are
holding back and that increases the sexual tension
rather than decreasing the sexual tension.

The worst thing with escalation here is that some


men escalate impatiently. A lot of guys when they
get too immediate or impatient they get to this part
wherein they try to sleep with every other girl in 5
minutes. It’s like he’s in a baseball game and keeps
swinging and swinging and hitting home runs every
pitch.
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What you need to do is learn what is effective in


some context and what is not effective. Learn to
differentiate.

The goal in-game is going to be learning things that


are effective not just in one context but they can
grow this and let this be effective in the other
context.
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FROM 1-ON-1 STUDENT (2016)

Hey guys! XjA here and I'm a 1-on-1 boot camp student
of Smooth. To be completely honest, it's really great and
exciting to hang out and game with the PUA Academy
instructors and of course with Smooth himself. I learned
a lot about pickup and also in different aspects of life.

MY STORY

It was a magical Wednesday evening when I was just


swiping on Tinder then suddenly I got a match from an
attractive short haired blonde girl. I first checked her
photos and read her description as well so that I will know
her value and I'll know how to calibrate my approach.
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I sent her my favorite opener right away which I got from


"The Cure", then she replied with a huge indicator of
interest! After she sent her first reply, I know that it's time
to apply what Smooth taught me during our 1-on-1 boot
camp session and what I’ve learned in my previous
experiences.

Well, I was just enjoying and being playful during our chat
conversation. I joke around, do DHV stories, make her
qualify, and even tell her to reject me because I am a
boring type of person (This is a good line if you know your
girl is somehow attracted to you.) After she gave me
indicators of interests, I immediately went for the number
close so that I can build more attraction and comfort, and
schedule our date.

THE DATE

After building attraction and comfort through call and text,


we both agreed to meet up and have a casual
conversation. I was the one who decided what day, what
time, and where to meet. I lead every decision during our
convo, in order for me to convey that I am a leader and
for me to check her compliance level.
The day was Sunday and we met up in a coffee shop, I
chose that venue so that I could bring her easily to my
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place. We agreed to meet around 7pm, she was there


before 7 and I arrived around 7:30pm so that she will
invest more. I called her and told her to come out
because I know a better place to chill. I smiled and gave
her a quick and light hug when we met. I also told her
that I'm craving for a specific food in a Korean store and
I want to go there, again she complied.

While we're walking down the street, I started building


attraction again since this is our first time to meet in
person. I ran my DHV stories, negged her playfully,
disqualified myself, and made her qualify.

When we arrived at the Korean store, I actually talked to


every person there like the guard, cashier lady, and even
the store owner so that I can convey to her
subconsciously that I am a friendly and socially calibrated
type of guy. I bought fried seaweeds so that we can eat
while we chill and spend more time together.

While we are both sitting, I told her different jokes so that


I can make her laugh, spike her emotions, and make her
more comfortable with me. Build more rapport, do future
projection, role playing, and more storytelling.

I also checked her compliance level by doing light kino,


like high five, I touch her hair, I do palm read, do
compliance tests if she touches my arms.
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By the way, while I was building comfort, I am already


seeding the pull later like how much I really admire Emma
Watson and how I really like the Beauty and the Beast
movie especially the gown of Beauty... lol. And after 30
minutes of fun & playful conversation, I decided to
bounce her to a mall near my place to baby-step the pull.

She complied and we bounced to the mall. While we're


walking I told her that I am kinda hungry so I led her to a
restaurant which is near my place (this is another baby-
step).

While we're eating, I told her more stories and talked


about our passions in life to build more comfort and I
seeded the pull again, I told her "I really can't believe that
you haven't watched Beauty and the Beast movie! You're
so boring!" ;)

After eating, I decided this time to lead and go for the pull.
I told her "Let's go watch Beauty and the Beast, you really
have to see how beautiful this movie is, then you can go
home after, only if you promise me that you won't make
noises or touch any of my things."

I did not wait for any reaction from her, I just led hard and
we rode the taxi right away while holding her hand and
continuously talking about things just to keep her mind
preoccupied.
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THE ESCALATION

We entered my room. I showed her everything. I made


her comfortable in the place first, I told her my family and
personal stories, while doing light to moderate touch. And
when I saw her complying with my physical touch, I was
the one who stepped back first.

While watching the movie, I escalated again by holding


her hand, massaging her back, and playing with her hair,
and telling her to kiss my cheek for compliance testing.

All the time I was watching her body language if her


buying temperature (BT) is high, and when I saw her BT
raising, I went for the make out then after 5 seconds I
stepped back again.

THE LAY

After 30 seconds I went for the kiss again, I kissed her


hard this time and she also complied with the make out.
I touched her body and noticed that there was no
resistance. I touched her private part then this time she
gave me a Last Minute Resistance (LMR). I just do the
wash, rinse, repeat method, good thing I remembered
what Smooth taught me.
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I froze out and said dramatic lines like "I'm disappointed


because you're judging me that I'm just like other guys
out there, well if that's what you think you can go home
now and leave."

After giving her a short drama, I freeze out again and this
time she's the one who hugged me back. I rewarded her
by telling jokes and funny stories to spike her emotions. I
went for the make out again, tried to escalate again, no
resistance this time. And the rest is history.

AFTERMATH

We lie down next to each other, cuddle, talk more about


our passion and deeper topics. I like her thinking, she’s
a smart girl. There was a great connection between us.
We laugh and joke around more.

After an hour we kissed goodbye because I had other


things to do and I told her to text me when she got home
safe.
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HOW TO ESCALATE IN A RAVE


PARTY WITHOUT TALKING
BY COACH PHILIP

It’s a Saturday night and it’s our Super Camp event. Our
attendees were really happy and satisfied. We heard that
HYDRO, a rave, is happening in Angeles, Pampanga. It's
a big event that’s why we always go there.

We used the car of my 1-on-1 student to get there. A


Toyota Grandia. YES, it’s the BIG van. So you know what
we planned to do. Thanks to him, I won’t drive so I can
sleep while we are traveling. It’s the best way for me to
conserve energy so that I can give my best in HYDRO.
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After an hour, we finally arrived. It’s a big place but at that


time, only a few people were there.

GAMING IN HYDRO EVENTS


This kind of event is huge. A lot of high-value girls go to
this event and it’s freaking good. So if you want to meet
hot babes and high-value girls, this is a good place to go.
But the question is, how can you get their attention and
talk to them until you reach the hook point.? That’s the
same question I've asked myself before. But since I’m
with Smooth, I’ve learned that I just need to have fun. I
need to be in my peak state to successfully game all
these girls.

How to be in a peak state when gaming?

You should have an “I don’t give a fuck mindset”.


You should not do what other men do. Be unique.
You should have fun first and with the people around you.
An example of this is dancing like crazy. Not just dancing,
but crazy dancing and that's what we are good at.

APPROACH
When we are about to get inside, we find out that there
is NO RE-ENTRY. It means we can’t pull a set in our car.
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WTF, right? HMMMM. So we have to think of a solution.


We have to find a good place where we can isolate our
girls.

I see Smooth approach 2 set. These are HBs set. So


what I did is I wing him. I talked to the girl who is alone.
Here’s my opener.

“You are now the third wheel. I can’t allow that. Hi, I’m
Philip. You are?”

Boom. I delivered that in a funny way. We had a


conversation for about 10-15 minutes. Again, I used my
routine. I created attraction through negging and DHV.
Eventually, I built a comfort but when I knew that I
couldn't pull her, I just n-close her.

How to know if you can pull a girl? Here are the logistical
questions that I used.

Who are you with?

What are you doing here?

What are you going to do after the party?

What will you do tomorrow?


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You will know if you can pull her depending on her


answer. So, you better ask that to a girl so that you will
know if you can spend time with that girl.

DANCING LIKE CRAZY


If you will see our game in a bar or in a club, we are the
kind of PUAs that dance a lot. We don’t care what other
people will tell us. Take note: We are not dancers. We
dance like shit, but that’s the best thing because girls like
that. We dance in a place where there are a lot of girls
and when they smile or they show some IOI, that’s the
time we will open to them. Dancing is like breaking the
ice.

The dancing opener is so easy and yet the most effective


because girls will not reject you because they know you
are not hitting on them and you’re just making fun of it.

While I’m dancing, there’s a girl who follows me wherever


I go. It shows IOI and I need to talk to her. So I danced
with her for 2-3 minutes, and when I have seen that she
was complying with all the things that I’m doing to her. I
stopped and turned serious as if we are the only 2 in that
place. I created an imaginary bubble.
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ESCALATION
I and Smooth went out for 2 months straight already and
I saw him pull a lot of sets in a CR and in a parking lot.
So I’m asking myself, what is he doing that I’m not doing
and other men are not doing.

In a club where the music is so high, it's hard for you and
the girl to understand each other. Plus, it's hard if you are
using your routine to escalate. Based on my observation
with Smooth’s game, he is doing a lot of kino. There are
certain parts of the body that you need to touch for you
to escalate and it will not look like that you are just
‘fuckboy’. That’s what I have been teaching in 1-on-1
bootcamp.

So I applied it to my set. Her name is Melle. I isolated her


and touched the part of her body that will raise her buying
temperature. Eventually, we went to a place where I can
escalate her. I kissed her neck and boom, I finger her. I
saw on her face that she wanted it but too bad that we
can’t go out because we cannot go back. So what I did is
I told her that I want to be with her later. For now, we will
just enjoy the rave party. She complied and I brought her
back to her friends. For me, to be sure that we’re going
to see each other again, I got her jacket.
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BACK TO APPROACHING
So I have 1 in the books waiting for me but I need more
so that I can maximize the money that I paid. HAHAHA.
I and my colleagues continued to dance and to talk to a
lot of girls. I challenged myself to open the most
gorgeous and beautiful girls that I will see. And I do that,
here’s the opener that I used.

Hey, I didn’t know that all the people here are all wet…
What the fuck is going on?

I used this because that party is throwing water.

Note: You must deliver it perfectly or else that will be the


first that you’ll experience being slapped in the face.

All the people here are having fun, what’s going on with
you?

I got 4 solid numbers there. So I think I’ll be going back


to Pampanga. Who wants to join me?

Pull

It’s already 2am, I can pull her now. But when I texted
her, she told me that she is not free now. Her friend will
find her. She’s having LMR so what I did is, it’s fine I will
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just bring you back your jacket, let’s meet outside the
venue. I let her wait for 5 minutes (investment of time).
Then I told her

“Ow shit. I missed you. You know what? I’ve met a lot of
girls but you are the only one that I wanted to be with.
What have you done to me? Let’s get your jacket in our
car” Boom while we are walking I’m telling whatever story
that I can tell her to maintain her buying temperature.
We got inside the car and the rest is history.

Take note: We’re still texting each other and we will see
each other again. She will go here to Manila.

• Get some rest if you plan to go all out. Save


your energy.
• Think outside the box.
• Know the logistics. Where you can pull her.
• Be creative.
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CHAPTER 3
ONLINE GAME
“One good thing about online dating,
you’re guaranteed to click with whomever
you meet.
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ART OF DATING

What is the ultimate goal wherein you are now both


handling your actions while dealing with a woman’s
emotions? Where are we going with this? Well I want to
tell you what kind of game it should be and should not be.

But first, let us define what the Art of Pick Up is?

Pick Up is about getting a partner by trying to impress


her or get your way with her.

There are core principles that are needed to do when


you are dating women. These are as follows:

1. Meet women in relaxed social locations.

2. Exude confidence at every step of the


pickup.

3. Avoid closed off body language or online


avatar.

4. Be your genuine self.

5. Don't fear rejection.

6. Use a simple opening line to get her


attention.
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7. Engage in lighthearted conversation.

8. Show your sense of humor.

And many more.

But that isn’t our focus. Our focus is on identifying how


dating should and how it shouldn’t be.

Dating should be seduction and it shouldn't be coercion.

Seduction skills basically refer to the educated abilities of


attracting women, generally speaking your "game."
There are, in essence, four major categories of seduction
skills: physical enhancement; flirting abilities;
conversational skills; and personal charm.

In order to be successful in dating women online by


section, here are a few steps to follow.

1. Putting your good photos

2. Writing an attractive description

3. What’s your first message

4. What are the next messages

5. Try to be witty and make her laugh


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6. Compliment her with simple yet effective


words

7. Utilize suggestive questions in a smart


manner

8. Avoid focusing only on her physical


appearance while talking

9. Use the power of technology to your


advantage

10. Be liberal and support her wishes and


desires

11. Setting up a date to meet her

12. Confidence and composure can be really


helpful

13. Smile and always maintain eye contact while


talking

14. Tease your woman to make her feel good

15. Avoid lying to the woman you like

16. Make her feel as comfortable as possible

17. Try to appeal to her emotional sides.

Notice that everything in the list is in favor of a woman’s


emotion and more on a man’s initiative to take action.
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As we’ve discussed on previous topics, men have to


focus on their actions and on women’s emotions not
vice versa in order for you to up your game.

Contrary to what dating should be, it is coercion.

The term “coercion” is used to describe the act of forcing


or intimidating someone to do what you want them to do.
For example, coercion is what every school yard bully
uses when he tells another student to give up his lunch
money to the bully or risk being beaten up.

In law, coercion is codified as a “duress crime”. Such


actions are used as leverage, to force the victim to act in
a way contrary to their own interests.

Coercion may involve the actual infliction of physical


pain/injury or psychological harm in order to enhance the
credibility of a threat.

More or less, dating should not feel like a negotiation but


rather an act of passion or seduction. You should be
trying to get in her head using emotions and not by force.
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SOCIAL MEDIA
The final point I want to make about getting a girl chasing
and investing in the messaging game is that social media
is a tool.

Social media is your best friend.

Social media refers to websites and applications that are


designed to allow people to share content quickly,
efficiently, and in real-time.

The ability to share photos, opinions, and events in real-


time has transformed the way we live and the way we do
business.

Social media is great and actually even a better form of


communication than just texting.

Every time a girl sees you do something, you are actually


making her see it.

Why is that?

Social media apps usually have notifications. Whenever


you message, react or comment to their posts, they will
see your name.
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The thing with texting via cell number is that it seems like
you are saying “Please look at this text”. But when you
pop-up via notifications on social media, she’s just going
to treat that as something she saw by accident.

Any cool stuff she finds out about you that is through
social media is not bragging or not trying hard, no
agenda.

Social media can be great for getting all the chase.

If you have good Snapchat, good Instagram, good


Facebook accounts and you can get the girl to be
entertained by it, keep her intrigued by keeping your
posts going. She will go back to it every single time.

What’s happening is that she’s investing more time in you


than you do her.

What you were doing in social media now is trying to


attract a larger amount of audience or woman.

Technically you’re hitting two birds in one stone. Instead


of just impressing her you are impressing a lot of women
which will then be favorable to you.
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THE TONS OF BRICKS CLOSE

If you know what you’re doing in text and yet you're


asking for plans about the right time in the texting
sequence, then you’re safe from dropping tons of bricks.

Most guys are absolutely terrible about actually asking


for plans. Basically, they make 2 mistakes and here are
as follows:

FIRST MISTAKE: Dropping the plans like a


ton of bricks. No escalation and all of a
sudden, they drop plans like an animal in a
cartoon and the plans just fly out and drop
out of the sky. That's not very effective.

SECOND MISTAKE: Men are bad at the


specificity of the plans. They are trying to get
way too specific way too quickly.

Let me talk about what does that to you in the texting


process.

Girls respond to your texts and actually have a good time


and then, all of a sudden you drop in this very specific
very demanding request out of nowhere and it's this
massive spend of social capital.
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If the girl really likes you, then you may get away with it
but it just kind of feels like there's nothing being offered
back .

When you drop tons of bricks, meaning you drop a lot of


plans or activities you want to do with a woman, it’s like
withdrawing a large amount of social capital.

Always remember what social capital is and how you use


it properly.

Always make sure you have established and earned


enough social capital for you or you might not get away
with dropping tons of bricks.

BELIEFS VS EMOTIONS

Notice that it is highly encouraged that men should stop


relying on emotions when making actions towards a
woman.

When dating, where does the positive self-esteem, state


control, self-discipline and the ability of men to react to
adversity should come from?
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Where are we guys digging these? If other people would


look at it, they can almost be considered emotions.

In order to attract a woman you just met, men are advised


to focus on actions and base it on observations from a
woman’s emotions.

Believe it or not, these emotion-like things that men


experience came from your beliefs.

For further understanding, let’s define belief first.

Belief is the attitude that something is the case or true. In


epistemology, philosophers use the term "belief" to refer
to personal attitudes associated with true or false ideas
and concepts.

Now, I know this can get very confusing but for you to
understand it clearer, I will be giving you an equation.

WOMEN’S EMOTION = MEN’S BELIEF

That’s it, easy as that.

From the definition itself you can already notice that


belief is pretty much similar to emotions.

For another comparison of a better understanding of


what belief is, here is another equation.
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BELIEFS > EMOTIONS

Beliefs are more powerful than emotions.

That is the case, because belief is something that is


unshakable.

Most people rely on their belief in order to think and judge


things.
Emotions can only ruin your thoughts and ability to think.
It can also be a way to keep a positive mind and healthy
perspective. It all depends on how you’re feeling.

Emotions have both positive and negative effects while


basing off on beliefs that you can only go up.

Why is that?

Beliefs are known to stick for a long time and mostly you
are basing off your judgment and at times how you react
to things from your beliefs.

Since emotions are discouraged for men to dwell too


much time on, here are a few steps to still attract women
without relying on your emotions too much.

First one is to state an empowering belief or a belief you


want to have.
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An example of this is to start a belief wherein you can


easily communicate and have good conversations with
women. Belief can be perfected into an attitude overtime
which is why it’s like you’re doing the “Fake It ‘Till You
Make It” style.

Not only will this help you get a woman but this will also
boost your self-esteem that some people think can only
be acquired through emotions.

Second, find evidence to support this belief.

Here’s a scenario I experienced as an example. A girl


once told me that she had fun talking to me. Girls laugh
at my jokes and find me funny. Now, that is something to
support your belief of having good conversations with a
woman.

Lastly, read steps 1 and 2 once a day and come up with


more supporting evidence to strengthen your belief.

It is not enough that you stop at having one belief that


works. Try and come up with more beliefs and
evidentiary support to these beliefs in order to fully boost
your positive self-esteem, your state control, your self-
discipline and have the ability to react to adversity.
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WHAT CREATES VALUE

The first obvious question to ask is what creates value in


the woman's mind. Well, anything that shows good
genetic ability. Good ability to attract women, good
health, good sort of like robustness and ability to handle
stress, handle bullshit life that throws at you, that's all
value. But I want to give you an idea which is not your
ability to do and would have been your ability in the 21st
century BC.

A lot of modern things don't really matter that much. The


number in your bank account doesn't matter that much to
a woman in terms of her emotional perception of the
value you’re offering.

Now, if that money in your bank out translates to a


lifestyle where you're the boss and can tell people what
to do and they’re responding to you, that’s definitely
going to resonate with her emotion.

If that money in your bank account translates to a life


where you can already not work and potentially spend
more time taking care of her, having a child, and having
more time and experiences to offer, that resonates with
her emotion as well.
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The money, per se, does not because that's a construct


that didn't exist a millennia ago.

Understand that she's not just looking for what makes


sense in the 21st century in terms of value to survive and
replicate. She’s looking for what would have made sense
back in the day.

Specific characteristics that she's going to look for are


social proof and physical health.

1. Social Proof

How does the world respond to you? Are


you in charge of certain circumstances
and are people acting well? Are people
taking your orders or do people
contradict you and tell you that you’re full
of crap and try to pick fights with you?
That kind of stuff is social proof. How
other people react to you is absolutely
huge.

2. Physical Health

If you seem full of energy and vitality, or


if you have a good physique and
appearance, that kind of stuff is going to
make a difference and that's going to
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convey value. What’s going to come in a


lot of value is the confidence with which
you act. If you're very loud, decide then
she will be willing to take strong actions
that convey.

Now, take note of what creates value in the eyes of a


woman. Dating way back to when there weren’t even
roads and buildings, being a provider is of value to
women and also being attractive and in good physique.

THE IMPORTANCE OF
ABUNDANCE

To have an abundance of something is to have more


than you need. It's often used to describe positive
qualities, such as "an abundance of love." Abundance is
the opposite of scarcity. An abundance of wealth is a ton
of cash.

Now, let me tell you something that may surprise you


about text games.

The best way to get any one particular girl out of a date
via text is probably to text a lot of girls at the same time.
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Sounds strange, right? You'd think that it would divide


your focus or it wouldn't be relevant anyway but here's
the thing. Almost everything you do in a text game that
comes off as needy or try hard is going to be very
unattractive to the girl. Almost anything you do entices
and conveys that you have abundance, that you're busy
living your own life and barely even have time to text the
girl, that you have other girls in your life and that you have
a fun life going on is going to be massively attractive.

If you have one girl in your phone that you're texting then
you’re going to do these things. Whenever you receive
her text messages, you're going to notice it and you're
going to be on top of it. You’re going to be focused and
you're going to text back right away. You might write texts
that are a bit too long to invest in that kind of stuff
whereas if you have a whole bunch of girls that you are
texting then you may even kind of forget about any one
particular.

In a way, that's actually good. That's simulating high


value male behavior and to be fair that's probably how
she is when she's texting you back. Any attractive girl is
getting also hit up by lots and lots of guys as it is.

One of the best things you can possibly do is to have that


abundance and not care too much about any one
particular while having text conversation.
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Anything that's needy is of low value and anything that is


not needy is of high value.

The other great reason to be texting lots and lots of


women is actually mass texting. If you happen to, at a
particular point your life, send out a text that works really
well, like a mass text or general text, it’s probably going
to work really well with a lot of girls.

Having a lot of girls on your phone and having a variety


of conversations will just give you a lot more to text a lot
more ideas for any particular conversation.

Finally, by having lots and lots of girls to text in your


phone then you're going to get a lot of practice very
quickly.

Practice makes perfect so one of the best things you can


do for your text game is to get lots of numbers and follow
up with them and get lots of girls out and to have that
abundance, but also as a learning experience.

PATIENCE

As patience defines, it is a person's ability to wait


something out or endure something tedious, without
getting riled up.
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Having patience means you can remain calm, even when


you've been waiting forever or dealing with something
painstakingly slow or trying to teach someone how to do
something and they just really don't get it.

Most of the biggest mistake guys make in their text game


over and over again is about the lack of patience.

Here’s a scenario. A guy got the number of a girl and he


figures out that the girl likes him. The guy thinks that “why
don't I just get to the point and get the girl out on a date?”

That would make a lot of sense if girls were the same as


guys. As guys, you pretty much know that we like the girl
and we mostly like her for physical qualities and we know
we will have sex with her. Men often think “let's just get
to the point let's get her out” but take note, girls aren’t like
that.

Girls need not only value or attraction but they need


some level of comfort and assurance. They need to know
that you're not weird, you’re not creepy or you’re not a
stalker and ensure that nothing bad will happen to her
and they want to feel the connection.

For guys, attraction is like an on and off switch, right?

For girls, it is like a dimmer switch where the switch that


you turn on lights gradually go up or go down. What you
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need to do is just gradually raise the level of attraction


and gradually raise the level of commitment.

If you’re trying to jump straight to commitment too


quickly, it's going to convey a lot of negative qualities. It
conveys that you’re trying very hard, you’re very needy
and desperate.

Gradually doing this instead of rushing is circumventing


or trying to get around that idea of building comfort.

Building comfort with someone or letting them get to


know you is built over with lengthy interaction, which
means it has some time and duration.

If you don't give the girl time to experience you then she
will be seeing you as someone who is rushing or pushing
her. She's going to wonder why you're so pushy. She will
be questioning if you do not enjoy the interaction with her
or if you do not have anything else going on in your life.

What you need to do is avoid being needy and


desperate.

How does this manifest? A lot of guys instead of going


through 2 or 3 text messages in order to get to a
particular point and enjoying the texting process and
having some personality conveyed throughout, they just
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want to cut straight to the chase and ask the girl out on
the first text instead.

Another one is when the girl is all positive in text and men
try to grab the opportunity to transmit that, let's go grab a
drink at 7:00 on Tuesday.

It’s all too much and it’s all too fast. It should be a gradual
build and should be developing in displaying your
personality.

Kind of getting to know the girl and letting her get to know
you through the text is a better way than rushing things.

Now, remember the primary idea is to get out on a date


but a lot of times the fastest way to get around a date is
actually to go slow.

If you go too fast and hear the word “no” then that's the
thing that is going to slow you down.

Your goal is to be patient enough that you're hearing yes


rather than rejections or “no”.
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ESTABLISH THE PREMISE IN


PERSON

Is it better to impress a woman in text even if you haven’t


talked that much in person?

The answer is no.

The final easy thing that you can do to make a text game
go tremendously smoother is to establish the premise
that you're going to hang out before you even get the
number.

Are you friends, are you romantic? What's this all about?

If you asked for her number with the established premise


that you both are going to go out or hang out some other
time, you both know that getting the number is intended
for making plans.

I told you guys that the main purpose of texting is to make


plans so when you both know that and you're on the
same page it’s going to make plans of going out a lot
easier.
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If she's not sure about that or she's not sure about your
intentions then that's one more topic you need to address
in text.

That's one more sale you need to make in order to get


her out. If you can establish it in person then that’s better.

Remember, in actual communication like in person is


better than text communication.

Anything you can handle in person, you should better


handle in person and anything you want to handle over
the phone, can be handled over the phone.

Texting is like the last resort in terms of communication.


It is not your preferred method.

The reason we use text actually is because girls respond


to it more readily but anytime you can have in person
conversation then set it up and if a phone conversation,
then set it up.

While you're there in person, set a good premise as soon


as you possibly can.

Do your work while you have the ability to see her and
her reaction because she can see your actions and also
at that moment when she's feeling really good about the
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interaction and she’s emotionally aroused then it will be


better for you than in text communication.

WHAT IS CALIBRATION

Feminine psychology is an approach that focuses on


social, economic, and political issues confronting women
all throughout their lives. It can be considered a reaction
to male-dominated theories such as Sigmund Freud's
view of female sexuality.

Female psychology is a self-explanatory thing but that’s


not something that we would be talking about here.

We are already done with the female motivation and now


we have defined female psychology. I think you're finally
ready for the Holy Grail in game. This is what's going to
take you from intermediate to advance, from where
you're just playing a numbers game and hoping to jump
to where you are actually in control of the situation and
you’ll be able to get the hottest women.

This is the hallmark of advance game and it’s called


calibration.

We're going to talk mainly about calibration. Calibration


is something that is the biggest and most important in the
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game. It is about how fast we move things forward


physically, how much sexual intent we show, how much
we come unto the girl and how much we pull away.

Note that everything can be calibrated. You can calibrate


how much value to show rather than how much comfort
you can calibrate. If you want to be there again versus
being more modest and down to earth, you can calibrate
how much to talk.

Calibrations have adjustments and the most critical one


or the most obvious one is physical and emotional
escalation.

What we’re going to do right now is deal with escalation.


But before that, I'm going to break down 5 different levels
of escalation from level 0, also known as the “Total
Newbie”, to level 5, which is also known as the “World
Class Game”.

I’m going to explain this step by step regarding what each


level consists of, where it comes from and what it's all
about.

You should be able to take this and immediately apply it


to your game and give yourself at least a leveler to further
up.
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CREATING ATTRACTION

Attraction is a feeling of liking someone, and often of


being sexually interested in them. Our level of attraction
to the opposite sex has more to do with confidence than
how we look. An attraction is a feature which makes
something interesting or desirable.

For most guys that I've seen in the field whether the girl
likes them or not, it seems to come down to a bit of
chance.

A lot of guys when they set a good opening and things


are going well, they're able to carry it through.

A lot of guys can also do a bunch of approaches and find


the one girl that likes them, and if there's attraction there
then maybe they can carry it through.

Most guys have a very hard time creating attraction.

Most guys, even those who are good at games, in a


platonic conversation have difficultly creating that
attraction. Beyond that, a lot of guys that start off with
some level of attraction but interaction goes platonic,
they have trouble getting it back.
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What I’m going to discuss now is what I call a plot line.

A plot line literally is just creating attraction.

Taking interaction, where there is no sexual chemistry


and there isn't any sexual attraction or sexual tension,
and injecting that into the conversation is already a very
powerful thing. Injecting a plot line in a way that it’s not a
cheesy punch line or cheesy one liner also adds effect.

Advanced guys understood it early on when games were


like technical and formulaic but as we move towards a
more natural style of game it’s something that's really
been lost in the shuffle and almost nobody knows how to
do it.

The way we think about this is based on a scenario.

Now, think of a movie. Think of the interaction between


you and the woman as though it's a movie playing out.
As if it was like a romantic comedy and if you look at
romantic comedies they follow a few sets of scripts.

Imagine this scenario: Boy meets girl then boy loses girl.

Boys get girls a lot of times and then two people are put
in a situation where they have conflicts. If they’re in
conflicting companies or conflicting sports teams, usually
they end up in an accident early on and it creates hatred
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between the two. They’re then forced to interact with


each other and then it becomes clear to the audience that
they like being together.

Now, to further explain this, let’s define what plot line is


in terms of literacies.

Plot is a literary term used to describe the events that


make up a story, or the main part of a story. These events
relate to each other in a pattern or a sequence. The
structure of a novel depends on the organization of
events in the plot of the story.

You’re probably wondering how is that related to the


game?

It is very vital that your next moves and actions would


seem like an upcoming romantic movie in the eyes of the
woman.

A plot line sparks interest in a woman's eyes. Being able


to give off a vibe that your relationship is like a romantic
comedy waiting to happen, a woman would want to
spend more time with you and this gives you a chance
and give your game better results.

That’s the idea of creating a plot line in your interactions.


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FRAME GAMES

The next thing I want to talk about is one of the biggest


mistakes I see in guys that are already pretty good at
games, which is bringing up the wrong frames and not
bringing up the right frames.

Just a quick primer, a frame is the perspective through


which you're looking at a situation.

There are certain perspectives or certain frames that are


going to help you to sleep with girls and certain frames
that are not helpful with that.

Now, a scenario to further explain this and for you to


understand.

For example, the frame (or world view perspective) you


have is that sex is normal, that girls like sex, and that
when two people like each other it's normal for them to
express it physically. If this perspective is expressing
through your stories and your opinions, that will put the
girl in an environment where she can have sex without
being judged.

However, if the perspective you're putting across is that


women are sluts and you hate that, or maybe you’re
telling a negative story about some girls doing something
that's a bit overly sexual, then the girl is going to register
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that the only way to get social approval from you is to not
be sexual.

You may or not have any perspective, but if your end goal
is to have sex with the girl and you’re putting her in a
frame where having sex is a negative thing, it’s not going
to happen.

Putting her in a frame where sex is normal and natural is


very positive to your objectives.

A lot of guys are so caught up in trying to impress the girl


or trying to convey something that they lose track of the
underlying message of what they're saying.

The other thing that we talked a lot about throughout this


is the lover frame versus the provider frame.

Is she viewing you here as the guy that is so high value


that she just wants to have sex with you and she will have
sex with you quickly without making you go on many
dates with her? Or is she viewing you as the provider
which is the guy that she wants to stick around with, the
guy that she wants to think that she would never cheat
on and she is super angelic to?

If you want to sleep with the girl quickly, you probably


don't want her trying to convince you that she's an angel.
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If she's trying to come off as someone angelic then she's


not going to sleep with you.

You have to think a lot about what category and what


frame you're putting yourself in because that's going to
dictate how the girl responds to you.

Many guys tried to pick up girls and sleep with them and
they're coming at them with these judgmental frames and
lecturing them. An example of this is a man lecturing a
woman that she shouldn't drink or she should do other
fun things, which is contrary to his end goal.

Here’s an advice from me. Never try and lecture a girl


you haven’t slept with.

You introduced her to a frame of wanting to have sex with


her, so wait for the end goal. Once you have reached it
then that is the only time you can try and start lecturing
her on what to do or what not to do.

Why is that right? It’s because after sleeping with you,


she is now going to rationalize every reason and justify
why she had sex with you. This is the right time to
introduce to her the things that you want to lecture her
on.
Now, frame is very important in game because it will be
your gateway to getting your way with women. Make sure
to give off the proper frame or world view perspective and
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act on it accordingly. Never contradict your frame with


your actions because that won’t do you any good in
game.

GAME DO’S AND DON’TS ON


ONLINE GAME

Most guys fail in Online Game because:

They show too much sexual interest.

They are always available when a woman


messages them.

They send messages that are too long.

They act too nice and too manly.

They’re trying to having a conversation thru


messaging.

They follow the woman’s flow of conversation.

They show too much value and become boastful.

They don’t try to get to know the girl.


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If you want to become successful with online game


then do this:

Don’t be too nice

Don’t seek approval

Challenge her

Don’t answer all her questions and lead the


conversation

Banter back and forth and leave the interaction


on a high note by not responding back or
messaging her later or by ending it.

Show that you have high value, high status and


that you are busy with your life. Women can pick
up on that vibe.

Know how to have fun and be social so women


don’t get a needy feeling.

Show that you are interesting and mysterious.

She should be the last one to message.

I was successful in an online game because I am aware


of what women respond desirably to and can think about
what they’re going to say and be creative about it. Online
messaging is one of the best ways to develop your skills
when it comes to communicating with women.
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I say this because women generally are more socially


savvy. So, if you know what to say and how to say it
correctly gives you an advantage.

Before you start sending messages, you have to


understand why you want women in your life so you can
use the right approach. You need to understand your
purpose of messaging and know the difference between
calling and messaging. You also need to know what kind
of guy you are conveying when messaging women.

The purpose of messaging is to create attraction, build


connection, flirt and get a woman to think of you.

FOUR TYPES OF TEXTS

Texts have been our topic for the previous videos and
still, we’re at it. There’s still a lot to discuss about it so
let’s get straight to it.

What I’m going to do right now is show you how to


respond to every possible text message you will receive
for the rest of your life.

Sounds impossible, I know it, but here's the thing. All of


those texts basically boil down to just four texts.
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Simple as that.

There's basically four texts you can send and it all has to
do with social capital.

First, if there's virtually no social capital, what you're


going to receive back from your text is silence. There's
going to be no response at all.

Second, if you have a bit of social capital, the response


you're going to get is what we call a “shit test” and that's
her responding but she’s saying something negative,
challenging you, or teasing you in some way. She's
asking you to prove yourself.

So, if no social capital = silence.

A little more social capital = shit test.

Third, if you have a little more social capital, she'll still ask
you questions and she'll have logical conversations with
you. There won’t be a lot of emotional exchange. There
will be a lot of positives, but she’ll still ask questions.
She’ll be curious and will exchange information.

Finally, if there's a lot of social capital, the results will be


clearly positive.
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Based on the 4 types of text you can get, each one of


those necessitates a very specific response.

If you respond to silence the way you would respond to


a positive response, you're getting it massively wrong.

If you respond to a positive response the way you would


respond to silence, then you're going to waste a lot of
time and never move the interaction forward.

What I'm going to explain now is about different kinds of


responses and explain where it comes from, why she
does it, what it means, and how exactly to deal with it to
be effective.

SILENCE

There are four categories of texting in which you should


be aware of.

The first and worst of the 4 types of text is silence.

You texted her and she's not responding at all.

A lot of guys make a lot of mistakes. They start getting


offended like “Why don't you like me? I thought what we
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had was special” and they start getting emotional. That's


the worst thing to do.

Understand why you're getting silence and where it


comes from. It comes from a place where the social bank
account is very low.

If the social bank account is very low, then your goal is to


build more positive experiences and build up that social
bank account.

Negative accusatory things like asking for compliance,


asking questions that require responses, those are all
drawing down the bank account even more.

What you want to do is send positive and funny things


that don't require response.

Oftentimes what I’ll do in this case is to treat my text


conversation with the girl the same way I update my
Facebook, Instagram, or any social media account.

We're just basically sending a cool and interesting quote,


or a little update or snapshot from your life. Anything like
that is just offering value.

The funny thing with this is when I've had situations


where a girl goes silent and even when they’re not
responding, I’m still sending out a cool little interesting
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update, a cool picture, a funny meme. This works


especially if the meme is good to a lot of girls you thought
were you never going to hear back from.

Once they pop, you're now getting a non-silence


response. You're getting one of the other categories of
text and then you can start building interaction, moving
things forward and progress it. But if you respond with
negativity or asking for things, you're just going to keep
getting more and more silence and the situation will
become worse.

Our goal is to hit value, build that social capital, do not


ask for things, and do not require a response in any way
shape or form.

SHIT TEST

Out of the 4 categories of texts, we are now at the second


one.

The second category of text that you're going to receive


is the shit test.

This is when you have a little more social capital. She


would not give you silence, but she's definitely overtly
testing you and she hasn't bought it completely.
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Here’s the thing with shit test.

You’re, again, just building social capital and you're


holding your frame, you're holding the perspective that
you are a cool guy.

What you need to do when you get a shit test is just pass
the shit test.

Don’t try and pass the shit test and then make plans.

Escalating of shit test is one of the biggest mistakes that


guys make in text.

Also, don't pass the shit test and then ask questions that
will almost always go wrong because you lose all the
power and impact of having passed the shit test.

What you want to do is just pass it.

How do you pass a shit test?

First of all, don't be emotionally reactive.

If you get emotionally reactive or needy then you will fail.

There are different ways to pass the shit test.


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One is called the “Green Exaggerate”. This takes


whatever frame and negativity she put you in to such a
logical or extreme degree that it no longer makes sense.

The other thing you can do, which is actually the best
thing to do in a text game, is whatever shit test she gave
you, treat it as though it is actually a compliment, reframe
it, rephrase it in such a way.

Think of it like this. The girl is totally into you and could
never say anything negative and then she said
something negative, how would I interpret it in that
context?

I want you to think that when you get a shit test, you
should recognize the shit test as a good thing.

Silence is bad.

Anything that's non-silence is a good thing.


Any girl that's not giving you silence that's a winnable
situation.

Shit test means she hasn't decided to sleep with you yet
but you're in the right category and she's considering it.

First of all, understand that it is a positive thing, and


secondly take it and make the most positive thing you
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can out of it. Don't justify yourself whether you have to.
Don't ask questions and do not try to escalate a shit test.

Just pass it and be done. Trust that your answer is good


enough.

LOGICAL OR QUESTION
The core idea of logic is to create a system in which
communication is clear, precise, and unambiguous. It is
the goal of any form of communication.

Logical communication in dating is a good thing as long


as it doesn’t over power the fun.

The third category of text which is where things are going


really well and girls are either just giving you logical
information or asking you questions.

This is both good and bad.

It’s good because they're actually showing that they want


to get to know you and actually want to open up and
share with you so it's all very positive.

The thing here is it’s not highly emotionally charged and


is very boring. So the danger is if you get caught up in
too much factual exchange or too much of question and
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answer, you lose all the tension and you lose all the fun
in the interaction.

The key thing you want to do here is that you answer the
questions and deal with the logical contents, but at the
same time you make sure to keep a flirty fun vibe.

This can be done by answering the question or dealing


with the logic very briefly and then adding something
flirtatious and fun, then offer value and start teasingly
hinting at making plans.

The decision here is how the overall interaction has


been.

The purpose of texting is to get the girl on the date.

When you're getting this logical communication, always


remember the following:

1. Recognize it’s good

2. Understand you need to keep it charged

3. Know that if it has been good overall. If the entire


messaging sequence or the recent messages
has been positive, then it's time to go about
making plans.
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POSITIVE MESSAGING

Finally, after going through the previous categories of


texting, we are now at the fourth and final category of
text. This category is where you're going to get the clearly
positive text.

Obviously, this is good and this is the one we want.

However, guys make a lot of mistakes in responding to


this one.
Here are a few mistakes that I made which I think you
should know.

MISTAKE NUMBER ONE:

They get those positives and then they just keep


doing more of the things that got them too positive
which is being fun and flirty but never taking the
interaction anywhere.

They keep building and building and building the


social bank account but they never spend any
money.

That's the equivalent of a guy that likes to build


multimillion-dollar fortunes and dies in a ditch, having
spent none of it and never enjoying a penny.
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You actually have to enjoy and use what you've built


up and actually get her on a date.

Remember the purpose of texting is to get her on a


date.

MISTAKE NUMBER TWO:

The guy sees something positive and he’s trying to


get her on a date. Then in one text, they go for a date
with a lot of compliance.

An example of this is when guys are being


complimented and the guys think it’s an invitation to
have sex with them.

You have to build the plans a little bit slowly.

Understand that you can't just go straight for the


jugular.

THIRD MISTAKE:

The girl starts giving positives. Rather than just taking


the positives, they think they should get together and
try to seduce the girl via text.
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Guys will then start giving them shit tests and ask her
to comply and qualify with a lot of things.

Why not try to get a jump through the hoop of going


out and meeting on a date so you can actually have
sex with her?

FOURTH MISTAKE:

Men start sexting like crazy and start trying to get the
girl some naked pictures and stuff.

They’re losing sight of the fact that they can't sleep


with the naked picture but they can sleep with a
naked girl so the priority should be getting the girl on
a date not getting a naked picture.

You’re going after the wrong objective.

The right way to handle a situation when you're


getting positives is to start closing. Close gradually
and patiently. Make sure to keep it funny and flirty
throughout the closing process.
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THE ONE SPECIAL CASE

Now that you know all the categories of text, it is time to


introduce you to a special case.

This special case that I want to talk about is going to help


you avoid a grave mistake. There are certain times when
you’ll get silence, or no response, but it doesn't mean that
you don't have social capital.

For example, you're making plans with a girl and she kind
of agreed to the plans. You're setting up the actual date
and time, and then suddenly she goes silent.

In this generation, this is called ghosting.

In this case, it doesn't mean you have to start all over


again. In fact, if you do start all over again it looks very
low value. It looks like you don't believe in yourself and
that you believe you have to kiss the girl’s ass to create
plans with her. At that point, it would look like you owe it
to them to ask them out.

In that context, I want you to just think for yourself. What


would I do if I was making plans with a friend and they
ghosted me?
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In that case, you send them a question mark. That's what


you’re also going to do with the girl.

For example, you say to a girl that you should hang out
soon and she agrees. You planned everything, from the
date, the time and the place. It’s all good and it’s going
great.
Then the night before you go out with her, you text her
the time you’re supposed to go out but she doesn't
respond.

Right at that point, it's weird that she hasn’t responded


when she's been very positive. You had great interaction
and it's just discourteous for anyone not to respond.

If she hasn’t responded and it's getting close to the set


time, just send her a dot and a question mark. As in
saying like “What's going on here?”

You’re entitled to do that.

I wouldn't treat silence as a lack of social capital. I just


view silence as something like she didn't see the
message yet, or she's not 100 percent sure and there’s
some other things in her mind, or she's procrastinating
on it.

It doesn't mean she doesn't like you, so take the


assumption that she likes you.
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TRY AND TRY

The vibe in your text needs to be fun.

Understand that it needs to be fun and it should be a


situation wherein when she sees a text message from
you, she'll feel excited.

In order for that to occur, you need to be teasing and


instigating towards her.

Most guys in text are way too nice, way too polite, and
way too complimentary.

Sometimes, you need to give a girl a hard time.

You know when we talked about the 4 types of texts and


one of those is giving a shit test.

Well, you need to give her shit test sometimes. You need
to challenge her.

I’ll make a point on why it’s best to test and instigate a


woman or challenge her.

If you want to grow, don’t date your twin.


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It’s easy to be seduced by your mirror image—someone


who validates your every whim, who agrees with you on
every major issue, and who wants to spend every hour
of the day just as you do. It’s reassuring to be strikingly
similar to another human, but when you choose a mate
who’s just like you, you’re destined to remain stagnant.

Parallels are comforting. They are warm and fuzzy and


easy to mistake as loving. But they are not the seeds of
growth.

When you challenge a woman, it makes your game more


interesting and exciting which in return makes her more
hooked to you.

When you give her shit tests to sometimes challenge her


and tease her or just give her a hard time, she's going to
respond very positively.

Remember, someone who challenges your mind


exposes you to things and places you've never
experienced. They want to help you grow and succeed
without challenging the person you are and every little
thing you do. Now that is someone worth being with.

Trust me when I say that women will be able to tell if you


are indeed challenging her and that would give you great
results.
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AVOID BAD NEEDY TEXTS

Let's face it. One way or another we've all sent that
terrible, needy, awful text that ruins a good interaction.

It’s such a mind fuck because it's very difficult for one text
message to completely impress her, make her hang out
with you, and sleep with you right away. On the other
hand, it is very easy for one bad text message to
completely turn her off.

You need to be very careful and avoid that bad text since
that will lead to a frame wherein you’re trying too much.

How would you know if you’re making that big mistake of


sending a bad text?

There are some signs to identify if you’re sending a bad


text.

1. If you are feeling very emotional or pressured


while texting or you feel that you have to get
it right, there’s a good chance you're going to
make a big mistake.

2. If you look at the text and something bothers


you about it, there's a pretty good chance
that you're going to make a big mistake.
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This means you’re doubting what you’re


going to send and you’re thinking too much
about it. That would be a big mistake in
texting.

If you're not sure, just wait. Don't text back


right away. Think about it and do not send
that text because once you hit send, you
can't take it back.

Not responding to a text will not mess you up


because it's very plausible that you're doing
something else with your life and you're
busy.

Again, being busy and having a good life is


actually an attractive quality. Text just in a
situation where you’re trying to make plans
with a girl.

3. If you’re going to send her a text where


you’re unsure, stop for a minute. Ask yourself
a couple questions and ask yourself “Would
I send this to a girl I'm already dating?”. If you
wouldn't send this text to a woman you’re
trying to date, there's a good chance that text
is very needy, trying hard, or you're pushing
for something too fast.
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4. If you respond to a text by just saying "OK,"


then you are a literal monster. The woman is
going to think “Are you mad at me? What did
I do wrong?”. While you don't want to
overshare or be overly available when
texting, if you say too little you come off as
disinterested and cold.

The thing with texting, in order to have a good


conversation with a woman, you would then have to re-
evaluate the texts you’re going to send. Take your time
and think through things you’re going to say before
sending them. Make sure to avoid the following signs to
avoid bad texts.

NOT REQUIRING A RESPONSE


What’s the worst response you could possibly receive
from a text message? The answer to that question is
silence. You put out a text and you get nothing in return.
Not only does that boggle you but it also makes you feel
like you did something wrong.

For certain types of texts, not receiving a response


doesn’t mean it's the end of the world.
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There are texts that require responses and texts that


don't.

It may be human nature to expect a response straight


away — that’s how conversations have historically
always worked — but being glued to our phones all day
to ensure that happens isn’t always a solution.

It is important to remember that not everyone has the


time to always check their phones, which is why waiting
for a response is normal but then again, no response
doesn’t mean that it’s bad for you and the woman you’re
trying to attract.

Now, there are reasons when sometimes your partner


doesn’t reply and here are as follows:

1. DRIVING: This can’t be emphasized enough.


Some of us spend hours and hours in a day
driving, so I get that it’s boring specially during
rush hour. But texting while driving is inexplicably
stupid. It increases your crash risk 23x. Even if
you’re happy to take that risk, think of the car or
person you might crash into.

If you have that crucial text message to get out,


pull over and send it. Then again, if a message is
really urgent and important, maybe you should
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have the discussion over a phone call (or, you


know, in person?).

2. WORK: Text messages are high value


interruptions, especially if we respond to each
other right away. This is ridiculous. If I were to
drop everything to respond to each text message
I received, I’d never get any work or thinking
done. It’s the same reason why I choose not to
check Facebook until 6PM (unless it’s to
proactively send a message to someone myself
— but I don’t expect them to respond promptly,
because I actually log out immediately after.
Yeah, I’m a selfish user).

In order to identify if a text is requiring a response or not,


you would have to weigh the following things we have
discussed. If you get no response from a girl, there is no
harm in messaging again your partner.

Try to re-evaluate the messages you sent that didn’t get


a response. What does this require? If you don’t get a
response, would this kill the interaction? It’s very critical
that you don’t commit such a big mistake.
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REFRAME TEXT
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OPEN – TO – N-CLOSE
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DAVAO INVASION BY DEFMAN


(2009)

2009 was Smooth’s first time to visit Davao city to


conduct a PUA seminar. The time I fetch him at the
airport, I already felt a different kind of vibe from this guy.
His aura is extraordinary compared to regular guys that I
met. His avatar and energy exude differently that stands
out from the rest of us here. Friday night the day before
the seminar, we hid at a local gimmick spot to check the
night scene in the city. The place is packed with party-
goers and it’s full of hot girls from mid-standard to classy
chicks on heels.

I'm with my Davao PUA crew, Azlan, Yoda, Tank and the
others. At first, we are doubtful of Smooth’s game, we're
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thinking he might be just a con-artist who tried to sell his


plot in the market, but we were wrong.

He approached a lot of girls during that night, talking with


them, vibing with them, dancing and getting numbers
closed, and for us, it was a jaw-dropping experience. This
guy is LEGIT.

The night is starting to get freaky, so Smooth gave us the


challenge to approach many girls as we can and get
more numbers. For me, the butterflies in my stomach
start cringing. It’s my first time to accept a challenge from
a pro and I feel like, damn, I need to step up my “A-game”
because this is my city. So, I approached a couple sets,
HB’s (HotBabe) ranges 6-7 and a few HB 8 and 9. Out of
10 approaches, 5 of them ignored me, 2 of them gave me
good conversations and 3 of them gave their numbers.
So to me, it was a good night gaming with Smooth and
the gang.

Saturday, I woke up early to prepare for the first-ever


PUA Bootcamp. I went to the hotel in advance to prepare
the venue. I also went up to Smooth's room to see if he's
already awake and BOOM! He bagged-up an HB from
last night’s sarging. This is Game!

The seminar started at 1pm and there were 20 attendees


at that time. It's quite successful despite short notices in
marketing and social media promotion. For sure, most of
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the guys captured the knowledge that Smooth had


shared.

After the event, we agreed to do the night game back to


the same spot where we chilled last night. But before I
went, I decided to do a phone game with the three girls
that I number closed last night. Texted them with a
default opener and tried to see if I will get a good
response. Out of 3, two of them responded so I continued
to do text games and hoped to meet any of the two.

Fortunately, one of them accepted my invitation for


dinner and a few drinks. We exchanged conversation
and figured some commonalities for both of us. I
continued to banter for her to be more comfortable and
tried not to ditch me. After a few shots. The girl decided
to go home because she still has homework to do. We
drove to her apartment, a couple of minutes away from
where we chilled. At first, I’m quite hesitant to do the next
move, but in my mind “I have to take a risk, or I’ll be
sorry”.

She invited me inside her place and I can tell with all
books on her shelves that she’s intelligent. I asked her if
she has a phone charger because my phone’s battery
started to get empty. I sat on her bed, because it’s near
in the electric socket, then she also sat beside me.
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I continued to banter, and this time I shifted to the


seduction phase. Just trying my luck to be intimate for the
night. I asked her what type of a man she’s looking for or
what turns her on, etc. When I noticed that deep
connection between me and her. I looked at her, what
Smooth taught me, the Triangular Gazing Technique on
her eyes, and started to initiate a kiss. At first, she resists
and then smack, the next is the killer. She ended on my
top, screaming really loud wanting for more. She was
really loud so I had to cover her mouth because I’m afraid
that her neighbors might hear us. After an hour in her
pad. I paved my goodbye and promised to come back the
next day.

Oh! Next destination? I head straight to the spot where


the guys are sarging, and the rest of the night is F-ing
history. Thanks to Smooth.
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EXPERIENCE REPORT BY RON


I’m already good with girls before, in fact, I’ve had a
handful of women in my life back then but never did I
imagine that my skill set in terms of this kind of art would
zoom up to the next level.

It’s almost near my birthday and Christmas. I want


something special to give myself. Since I’m a huge fan of
knowledge and personal development, I might as well
enroll myself in Smooth’s Bootcamp. I did. It was a cold
Friday night. People are everywhere.

As I drink my “Not-So” Iced Tea, a man wearing black


maong jacket arrived. “What’s up? Am I late?” he said. I
was surprised. It’s Smooth.
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Imagine, the man, the myth, the legend, and the season
veteran in this kind of art talking to me one on one. He
gives me some pointers before we proceed to the venue.
As we entered the club, I told him “Man, I’m having AA”
he said “Hahaha! It’s ok just follow the things I’ll instruct
you to do”

“See that 3 set. Open them. Ask them if they have lighter”
He said. So off I go… I opened the set. Kinda nervous
but I’m kinda wondering why my mouth won’t stop
talking. Smooth went to me and said “C'mon let’s go! The
one you’re talking to is a gay. Hahaha! I just wanna know
if you’ll comply with me”. Such an asshole right? Haha!

Then the night went on. I guess I opened more than 50


sets that night and NClosed more than 15. I even pulled
a set to Smooth’s Car. Haha! First night by the way. Lol!

And my journey to this art went on. From clubs to cities


to provinces even in Social media.

My game went up to speed and eventually became one


of Smooth’s Wingman and Executive Coach. I’m not
saying that I’m already super proficient that’s why I
always carry this book around me.
Whenever you’re running out of words to say to the girl,
all you need to do is to turn the pages to the material that
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you’ll use and I guarantee you that it would give you the
best result you’re looking for.

This book provides step-by-step guidelines from opening


to closing. All you need to do is to follow it. If I can do it,
so can you!
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HOW TO GAME A GIRL IF SHE


KNOWS THAT YOU ARE A PUA
BY JACK PHIL

It’s July 21 and we have a set of friends in Beech. They’re


all casino dealers and they are all HB. We are gaming
them. Actually, I only have one friend there and I tried to
talk to all of them but I can’t. It really helped that I’m with
Smooth, Jex, King and Pao at that time. So I tried to
introduce all of them, one by one. After almost 1 hour of
conversation, they all went home. None of us got a
chance to pull.

Of course, we cannot allow that to happen. We cannot


allow that we have no set. So what we did was we
approached the bar. Then I saw this girl and I
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approached her right away. Maybe she’s the 4th or 5th


girl that I approached.

This girl is an HB7(body 8,face 7, boobs 8 and kind of


high-value). We had a conversation for about 3-5
minutes and she told me that she needs to go back to her
friends inside the Beech, so I decided to get her number.
I knew this is a solid number because she gave me a lot
of IOI, but she has friends waiting for her.

So, I continued gaming. We bounced from Beech to


Tides to En Route. We did go home without any set and
we decided to eat instead. While we were eating, I texted
all the phone numbers that I got. Then BOOM she
replied. I thought I could pick her up. Too bad because I
can’t.

TEXT GAME
We exchanged messages the next day through
Facebook messenger. Too bad, she is about to go to La
Union. She will be staying there for 4 days. Thanks to
The Cure as I know now how to create an instant
attraction on Facebook and on chat. I just did my usual
routine when I’m chatting with her. Think of a topic that
will interest you and her. In our case, we are both
watching the movie series “Game of Thrones”. That
could be one of my pulling lines.
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So, with those 4 days, I need to keep her attracted to me


through text game. How will I do that? I can text her like
this:

1. Take care.

2. How are you?

3. Good morning.

The majority of us text a girl like that including me, but


thanks to SUPERCAMP! I learned that I need to be
different. I learned how to have an interesting topic for
me to talk with a girl. And that’s what I did to keep the
attraction.

DAY 2
Finally, she’s in Manila now. After 4 days of waiting for
her, finally, she’s her (as if I’m really waiting.) Now, I need
to think of a reason for us to see each other. Like I said
earlier, we are both watching Game of Thrones. So it can
be the reason for us to see each other. I told her that we
need to watch the latest GOT episode and she’s okay
with that. This is it.

We agreed that we will meet at 9 pm and she needs to


leave by 11:30 pm because she has a party to attend to.
It’s already 9 pm and she’s not yet here at our office. It's
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10 pm already but still, she’s not yet here. In short, she’s


late. She came at around 10:45 pm. WTF, right? She
came at 10:45 pm and she needed to leave by 11:30 pm.
I just stick to the positive. I just need to make her
comfortable and set day 3. We just had a conversation
and yes, we watched GOT. It's already 12am and her
friends were calling. I felt that she wanted to stay but she
didn't want to ditch her friends so I told her to go. I booked
her an uber.

THE OBSTACLE
I already set day 3 and we agreed. The next day, I
chatted with her. She seenzoned me a couple of times. I
don’t know why but I have a feeling that something came
up. And yes, one of her friends told her that I am a Pick
Up Artist.

It sucks, right? I know the feeling.

A lot of PUA’s post here that this is their problem. I see


some were angry. But if you know the game or at least
study it, this will not be a problem for you. So, she’s
ignoring me. If I game her too much, I will be looking like
a needy guy who doesn’t know what I’m doing.

Her emotion is up, she really thinks I have a lot of girls,


which is right. But of course, I will not tell her that. So I let
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her emotion subside and when I knew that her emotion


was already low. That’s the time that I got mad and used
my favourite technique-role reversal. And boom! I flipped
her emotion and now, she felt guilty. HAHA. Thanks to
bootcamp with Smooth, I learned that very powerful
technique.

So we just exchanged chat messages for a couple of


days. I punished her by not pushing through with our day
3. I did that because I know she is still attracted to me.
Don’t do that if there’s not enough attraction. Okay?

DAY 3
It’s the birthday celebration of my Master, Smooth. We
had lots of drinks and food. That’s the first time I saw
Smooth got drunk. At around 1 am, we planned to go out
but we got lazy. So I texted some of my set and yes, I
texted her. I asked her if she’s free. She was also drinking
with her friends at that time. I told her to drop by at our
place and she agreed.

She already came at around 3 am. I told her to stay here


and we went straight to my room. But I’m not doing
anything because she always tells me that all I want is
sex. So I’m not trying to escalate her.
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Maybe some of you are thinking about why it's so fast


that a girl will go to my place at around 3am? Here is the
answer:

1. Because I punished her by not pushing


through with our day 3. I’m now in control and
if I ask her again she will feel obliged to say
yes. And that’s why she said yes.

2. She is thinking that if she will not go, I will


not invite her again. Plus she wants to see me
again.

Gaming her by letting her game me

Since she knows I am a PUA, every action that I will do,


she will think that I am gaming her. So what I did is I let
her game me. Here’s the line that I used.

You know what? I don’t want to kiss you because I know


you will think I just want sex from you.(With a combination
of Bodyrock)

I let her hand touch my face. (role reversal again)

Come on, kiss me. NOOOO. Not lips. Cheeks only.

I don’t do one-night stands. We will not have sex.


HAHAHA.
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So. she’s thinking that this is not a one night stand. That’s
what she needs to hear because she doesn’t want to look
like a slut. That’s it. She kept asking me if I want to have
sex with her. Boom. I was shocked that she told me that
let’s do it

First, my reaction is NO. But I already touched her boobs.


I did that because if I say yes and touched her boobs at
the same time I will look needy. That’s why I threw IOD
and IOI at the same time.

And the rest is history.

After that, we hang out a lot of times. We are still in


contact and she really loves our companionship.

1. Continue gaming. Don’t ever give up.

2. Don’t look like a needy guy. Because it will


lower your value.
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CHAPTER 4
PHILOSOPHY
“You don’t learn how to walk by following
rules.
You learn by doing and by falling over.”
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SOCIAL PROOF

Social groups are important, but what should you do


about that? Here are some steps to be in a social circle.

1. When you're in an environment like at work,


at school, or even if you play in a sports
team, if you're just in an area or you’re
frequently at a restaurant, try to make friends
with the people around there.

If you're at school, say hi. Greet every girl and every


person there. It's not going to bother you if you go to the
same restaurant, especially when you go out to the same
bar, over and over again. Get to know the manager,
waiter, and the staff. Be well known and well-liked to
people who are dressing you by name.

If people are familiar and are joking with you, even if a


girl sees you in that environment and you are being
sociable, then that is going to be massively helpful for
you.

Also, you're going to meet girls in that environment and


you're going to meet them without having to do a cold
approach.
Try hard.
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You should get introduced in a favorable way with


already some value attached to you so you don't have to
create it.

It's going to be a lot better for you in general, so be


sociable. Making guy friends may make you have
girlfriends.

A lot of people think of the dating community and going


out with girls as somewhat of a hunt. Guys will be looking
for the girl to throw the pitch on.

One-shot could bring her home, eat whatever with you,


and make you as an available option for her, but the
wrong shot could make you lose your chance.

That is a very good option but also, there's another option


of farming.

2. Farming is planting seeds, watering them,


and letting them grow up. Effective
civilization is built on farming. Civilization is
built on creating something that grows for
you.

That's what social proof can do for you. You can build a
circle of friends and you may not get laid the first day. But
when you're going on about making a lot of friends, then
when you plant those seeds and, in a month, or two or
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even a week or two, you're getting tremendous results


beyond what you could have expected.

3. In terms of social media, nowadays that is


something that most people are using. So, if
you wanted to still have a social circle despite
the lockdown or when you’re just being at
home, there is no harm in messaging
colleagues or even messaging old friends.

You can be active on things like Facebook, Instagram,


Snapchat, and that kind of stuff. Be active, have good
stuff up to present yourself.

If you present yourself properly on these social media


platforms then girls will Google you. Girls will stalk you
and girls will even add you on Facebook.

They will now look at you and see if you are living a cool
life. That's one more way that you can impress them
without trying hard.

Now, it is important that you try to make friends not only


in person but also on social media platforms. Be sociable
in a lot of ways because then you will increase your
chances of getting a woman.
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ADVANCE SOCIAL PROOFING


GAME
I’m going to make a slightly controversial claim about
social proof.

I'm going to claim that you can convey social proof even
when someone has never met you and there's nobody
around. That sounds crazy right but how can it be social
in that case? There are no social media and there are no
friends around?

Your behavior, when your friends aren’t around, is what I


call implied social proof.

Let’s create a scenario. If you're speaking in a nice and


loud tone of voice, making good eye contact and you’re
firm in your beliefs, what does that say about your past
history? It says the times when you had good eye contact
and asserted yourself that people have responded
positively to that. Otherwise, you probably wouldn't do it.

Remember, most people are not learning by their social


behaviors. They are learning by accident.

Most people if they stood up, and put themselves out to


be noticed then they got slapped down, they would then
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stop putting themselves out to be noticed. The fact that


you can be assertive conveys a positive past history.

When you make a request from someone, you're asking


for it in a very assured sort of way and not begging. When
you ask for things in the past and you received a positive
response, you tend to do the right way of communicating
or asking.

In the dating community, the things that we teach are


good body language, presentation, vocal tonality, and the
way you say things. What’s being pointed out here is that
when you have conversations that are rewarded, you
tend to act according to its response.

Even without friends around, you can practice being


social proof in order to prepare yourself when meeting or
talking to somebody in person.

Another way of leveling yourselves in a way is holding


yourself back. If you are being funny and interesting but
you're coming from a low-value frame, then it says a lot
about yourself.

Your level frame can work with some girls but with the
highest caliber girls, it's not going to work. You should be
very conscious about what you are implying. Social proof
is what you are implying to the girl about your life, your
actions, your tone of voice in the words you used.
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OUTCOME DEPENDENT

Focusing too much on the woman’s actions will not


actually work. Why? You are about to find out.

You might have heard of the phrase “outcome


dependent” in-game.

Well, focusing on the woman’s actions is by its nature


outcome dependent.

You're focused on the goal and you want to make that


goal happen to the point that you're not concerned about
the person involved. You're just involved with the action.

There's a move in pick up named Handshake Spin. It’s


where you grab the girl and you spin her. It’s an old-
school pick-up move, not the best and not the worst
move.

The funny thing is that men have done this movement


and it worked sometimes.

Now, since it worked for them, they are going to escalate


that whenever they go inside a club or a bar, that’s the
best way to pick up a woman is to handshake and spin.
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We have discussed this before and it is about over-


escalation and that is a bad thing. It would ruin your
game.

What that man is going to do now is to try and force a


woman to handshake and spin, no matter how physically
resistant the woman is. The point here is that you’re
moving away from your goal.
Your goal is to get a woman and not to spin her around
in a club or a bar.

Outcome dependent is relying too much on a tactic that


worked once and now you are expecting the same
outcome to happen in varying women.

Let’s not go back again to our previous discussion where


we discussed that each woman is different.

Different women mean that you will be needing different


tactics in order to impress them.

You don’t have to be dependent on one outcome. You


will have to be imaginative enough to think of different
tactics to try on different women in order to achieve
different outcomes.
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WORK ON LEADS

We’re done with labeling, descriptions, and draft. Now


we’re moving on to working on leads while they’re fresh.

Before we move on, what are leads?

Leads are actually identifying and highlighting your top


10 prospects and working on them very hard.

This is something like when you’re in class and they have


announced the top 10 your class, then that’s your
school’s lead. They base it on average and how well the
students have performed.

What you’re going to do now is apply that to dating. After


getting tons and tons of women’s numbers, labeling
them, adding descriptions to them, then it is now time to
rank them.

Ranking your leads very much depends on you. How do


you want to rank these women? Is it based on value,
beauty, smartness? It all depends on what you like and
what you prefer.

In my case, I rank them based on value. This is a must


since you are also leveling and escalating yourself in
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order to attract high-value women. But as I said it all


depends on you and this is just something I do.

Now, when you already have your lead or ranking of your


top 10 women you would have to work hard on them

Work hard as in, serve them, put effort into them, or


whatever you do to try and impress a woman.

In class, when the top 10 is called they are then awarded.


Now, instead of literally awarding women you have
ranked with money, bags, and clothes, what you’re going
to do is award them with effort.

Work very hard on them because what you want to do


now is impress them and get them on a date with you or
even get them to sleep with you.

Work on it from time to time.

Don’t just rank them and keep texting the Top 1 prospect.
Text them all. Because as time passes by, you will find
that some of the women you rank will change rankings,
from Top 1 to Top 4 for example.

As you get to know them more, some women will lose


interest and get flaky which means you would have to
demote them in the process.
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Demoting is also an important process for this will help


you filter out the best woman for you.

HOW LONG TO WAIT

Scoring the phone number of someone you’re interested


in, feels like a major victory, and it is.

But it’s also just the beginning. Once you’ve got that
number in hand, you have to figure out what to actually
text the person, when, and how often.

No pressure, but your entire romantic future here could


be determined by your first few text messages.

The most common question that guys ask with regards


to texting is how long they should wait to text and how
long should I wait to text back.

There are do’s and don’ts in waiting how long to text and
I think this is something very important to remember
when texting or texting back a girl.
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DON’T WAIT TO REACH OUT

The first text is always the hardest. How long do you


wait to message that girl from the club? If you ask
around, some people will tell you to wait for “this many

days” before you make contact, but that strategy is flat-


out silly.

You should always touch base sooner rather than later.


If you don’t text them relatively soon (or sit around hoping
for them to text you first), a couple of things can happen:
that girl will either forget about you and that she gave you
her number at all, or she will assume you’re not actually
interested.

LET PEOPLE KNOW HOW YOU


FEEL ABOUT THEM

In this new technological generation, we live in, most


people tend to have any kind of electronic device on them
at all times. In knowing this, for someone to not reply, it
looks like she doesn’t want to reply, or you’re being
annoying and a bother.
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Of course, you could be busy so people shouldn't read


too much into texting speed, but if you do it often, then
they will begin to have suspicions. This can lead to
arguments, fights, disagreements, and all-around
negativity.

THE GIRL EXPECTS A REPLY

The person on the other side expects a reply from your


side. It is a psychological need for human beings. It is a
way of respecting the other person. This makes the other
person feel important.

Not texting back could make the other person upset.


Sometimes you can tarnish the other person's ego by
ignoring them. This would then ruin your chances of
getting them on a date or even having sex with them.

Know that texting immediately after getting a number is


important.

The invention of templates is based upon it and I think it


is a great idea to tell your status to someone who cares
about you. By doing this, you use this technology and
also show your respect towards the girl. It also shows
you’re very interested, hooked to her, and making her
response fast and eventually making your results better.
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WHAT TIME OF THE DAY TO


TEXT

Do you have any idea what it means if you send a text


right at 7:00 PM?

It looks like you’ve been staring at the phone all day long
wondering whether or not you’re going to text her. At 6:55
she’s probably just walked in the door. Maybe she’s
working late. 7:00 tells her you’ve stood there all day
long, neurotic, compulsive, and uncomfortable waiting for
the “right time” to text her.

Waiting for a few minutes doesn’t solve your problem


either. It looks like you’ve been staring at the phone all
day long and decided to send a text at 7:02 just to seem
a little on the cool side.

Sending texts shouldn’t be random.

7:14 is one of my favorite times to text. I like 7:14,


because it says, “I got home, got comfortable, and I had
a thought about you.”

The frame has been discussed to be pretty much of


importance when texting a woman so you have to be
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careful in texting her at the right time and giving off the
right perspective.

It is also very important generally in-game and in-text


game because it will be your gate in getting a favorable
text or just basically make her respond to your text.

Now, going back to what time of the day to text a girl. It


really depends, to be honest.

It takes both observation and frame in order to know


when is the right time to text her.

Observation is needed to know what time of the day to


text because you will be seeing when the time she
responds the fastest is. That means that is the time she
is most responsive and that is when you would want to
text her.

CALLING TO CONFIRM

Are you familiar with the catholic sacrament of


confirmation?

Don’t worry. I won’t be asking you to do that in order to


get better results when trying to date a woman.
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I’m asking if you’re familiar with it because I will be


making a comparison to it. Catholic Confirmation VS
Women Call Confirmation.

Now, don’t get me wrong. I’m not trying to mock any


religious events, I am just merely making a comparison
in order for you to fully understand what I am about to
say.

Here's what happens at the actual ritual of Confirmation:


You stand or kneel before the bishop.

The bishop anoints you by using oil of Chrism (a


consecrated oil) to make the Sign of the Cross on your
forehead while saying your Confirmation name and “Be
sealed with the gift of the Holy Spirit.” You respond,
“Amen.”

Now, why am I telling you this? It’s because this is what


seems to be happening every time a woman tells you she
will be calling you to confirm your date or the date you
told her you when you are going out.

When she tells you that she will just confirm your date via
call, it’s like you stand or kneel in front of her waiting and
begging for her to finally confirm the date. That sucks and
that is terrible for your game.
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Instead of waiting for one woman, you should have tons


of women you’re talking to. So, whenever a woman tells
you she will confirm your date over a call, move on to the
other girl or make other plans with that other girl.

The thing is, you shouldn’t be stuck with one woman.


Why? The girl who told you that she will be confirming
your date is actually kind of flaking on you, and that
means you have to redo your escalations and start from
the beginning again.

What you should know is to continue with your other


leads instead of getting flaked by a woman who told you
that she’s going to call you for confirmation.

Now, you might be wondering why women do this. There


is actually a reason behind this. Some women use the
“call me to confirm” tactic because:

1. They’ve had a history of experience with guys


responding to them badly afterward due to a
bruised ego over feeling rejected

2. They’d rather not even deal with the guy at all,


so they choose to just tell him anything just to
make him go away
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3. They have so many guys chasing them that they


could care less about telling anyone particular guy
the truth because they don’t really care if they
never see him again

4. They have very little respect for men in general,


so it doesn’t occur to them that they’re being
inconsiderate in some of the ways in which they
treat them.

5. They are really so busy that the only way they


can manage their social calendar is with an
administrative assistant who is proficient at setting
up meetings in Microsoft Outlook

6. Or they really “do” like you a little, but they hope


that the guy that they like “more” will come through
with a better offer before the time of your date

Thankfully, not all women do this, of course. However, in


your case, we can use the process of elimination to
narrow down which of these “Call me to Confirm” tactics
may apply to you.
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Since you’re supposed to be a well-spoken, seemingly,


rationally-minded man that she already knows, and
whom she may wind up seeing again at some point, then
that eliminates reasons 1, 2, 4, and 5.

My experience leads me to believe this lady hit you with


the “Call me to Confirm” tactic because she has so many
guys after her that you haven’t differentiated yourself
enough from the rest, or she does like you but she wants
to keep her schedule free for someone she likes better.
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IT'S A NEW LIFE BY JOHN O.


(2017)

If you're not careful with PUA Bootcamp, you may lose


yourself in the process and social interactions may feel
less fulfilling and exciting. PUA teaches you things that
are unknown to 90% of the population, and you may wish
you could unlearn things at times.

So far, I have done PUA Day 1 and it is more than just a


method on how to get better with women. It's a gateway
into understanding the pillars of human interaction. It's a
lifestyle and perspective event. I never expected this
would lead me to such a life epiphany.
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Smooth got into deep reasons behind why people


behave the way they do, using psychology and personal
experiences in their claims. They are open for follow up
questions too if you have any afterwards. Whilst you
digest the material you will start to read and influence
people like never before.

They delve into what it means to truly be human and be


alive. Again, the goal is to not just to get better with
women but to have an overall more impactful life. To
realize your own self worth and no longer allow your life
to be hinged on the opinions and actions of others.
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3 MINUTES KISS BY JOSEPH T.


(2013)
Smooth is the best PUA and Dating Coach I’ve known in
Asia. Can you imagine kissing girls within 3 minutes?
Unbelievable.

I became a student of this great, humble guy. Back in the


old days, most of my friends are girls rather than boys. It
seems natural to me hanging out with girls everywhere,
especially my friends, but one thing I didn’t know about
is the IOI (Indicator of Interests) and some stuff that I
didn’t realize about that some girls are already attracted
to me, which I didn’t know! And of course, that time I
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already had a girlfriend, but we broke up and got lonely


for a long time.

I told myself that I am good with girls. I can connect with


them and can talk with deeper connections, as a natural
player does, and there goes, my friend Big bob
introduced me to this young humble guy named Smooth.

He is 5’7 tall and average looking guy and every woman


loves him. I was shocked that this guy is kicking
awesome! Unbelievable. All great things. Have you ever
felt the feeling when your dream girl walks by, and you
are not moving and thinking some negative thoughts in
your mind like “how should I approach this beautiful girl?”

Good thing this guy can attract women and he taught me


how. After days hanging out with this guy, I learned a lot
about attracting women, talking to them, giving good
conversation, and the good thing about these is, now I
know all the signs if the woman is attracted to me, which
they called IOI. It feels great meeting a stranger, a
beautiful woman and you see her at the mall, approach
her using the style of Smooth, and after that you have the
chance to date her.

Thank to Smooth, I’m living my life to the fullest.

Student in life,
JT.
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TANK BOOTCAMP
When I first heard that a direct student of Mystery will be
conducting a free seminar in our city, I was really excited!
He held a seminar and I learned a lot of things. When he
offered bootcamp, I didn’t need a second thought and
quickly enrolled.

I really learned a lot during my bootcamp. Like acronyms,


proper tonality and delivery, proper body language,
everything.

The best part was when we went in-field and Smooth


picked girls we approached. He also did live in-field
coaching.
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He pointed out our mistakes, why the close was a


success or why we crashed and burned. And also, he
taught us how to be the flame when entering the club, all
eyes on us. That’s it for now. I might have revealed a lot
so just find out for yourselves.

Experience the magic and the experience of being taught


by a full time PICKUP ARTIST, enroll in the bootcamp!
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FITNESS COACH SHOPPING


DAY BY KING
Epiiiic! The traffic this holiday is just amazingly long. We
just finished our weekly meeting with boss, Smooth, to
give you the success-with-women mindset and dating
content. But today, I'm riding a bus and I’m going home.

I opened my phone and checked our VIP group chat for


1-on-1 Bootcamps and my friends, Marc and Andrew, are
doing Day Game at the mall.

Good thing I’m just near the area and I was like "Am I
going home right now?”. He said there's a lot of hot babes
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walking around. It's a waste if I don't approach a few girls,


right? Hehe.

I grinned and felt butterflies in my stomach. I got excited


and got off the bus.

I just entered the mall and I’m off to an AMAZING Day


Game experience again. Who knows what can happen, I
might get a SAME DAY CLOSE. Crazy, right?

Results happen over time, not overnight. Work hard, Stay


consistent and be patient.

I still remember back then before these crazy adventures


happened.

I was 23 years old when I started this journey as a Pick-


Up Artist.

First, I was really boring. Doing the same old routines at


the office in a graveyard shift for more than 3 years.
Work. Gym. House. Sleep. Repeat.

My ex-gf and I broke up. A 3-year relationship ended up


because of familiarity.

I go to her house from Ortigas to Laguna during my day-


off. I got really bored with my life. I wasn’t happy
anymore. That was the time we started to fight. Endless
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blaming, arguing, and shouting. Then I realized, it was


time to stop the relationship.

A few days after, I found myself scrolling down on my


feed on Facebook. I found this post that says “How to
Attract Your Dream Girl”. Wow, there’s such a thing like
this in the city. So, I keep reading.

There will be a workshop that’ll happen in Mandaluyong


at John Calub’s seminar. He’s the famous self-
development and money coach in the country. I bought
a ticket for me and for my co-worker.

Me and my friend were running late. As we enter the


room, there were lot of guys. There were a lot of pretty
ladies too.

There I was sitting, at the back. John is talking and


introduces Smooth. They play a short video. I was like
“This is the Casanova of the Philippines.”

There were pictures and videos of him with girls.


Enjoying the bachelor’s life. In my mind, I also dreamt
about that in my mind but it was just all fantasy and now
a man standing in front of hundreds of guys in the room.

There he is talking. Smooth is good looking and with a


manly voice.
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He sounds sick tho. I thought I was like “Is this the guy
with a lot of girls?” He’s coughing and stuff. But I was like,
it doesn't matter I’m going to learn his ways anyway.

So, there was the montage with Smooth and girls. I’m
hooked. So, I said I wanna learn this. Even my friend who
I invited to come was not really interested. He’s like he
has his own ways to attract girls. So, I was like “okay, I’ll
continue anyway. If you’re not coming to train with me it’s
fine”.

And there I was talking to Smooth’s staff named Michael.


Nice guy. He walked me through the course. They call
the program, Bootcamp. During that time, I withdrew all
my savings just to get into the 3-Day program. Damn so
expensive. Hope it’s worth it

Before meeting Michael remind me to dress up,


preferably with polo. I never wear formal clothes but I was
really open minded to learn the stuff so I followed.

Then there was the group of instructors. That time, there


is Prince, Bien, Paulo, Jex and Emman. We met at the
High Street, BGC. There’s a lot of people walking around
which I’m not used to running around. It really sucks my
energy.

We just had a 30-minute lesson at Fort Strip then we’re


off to hit the streets. It’s really not my field talking to
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random people. I’m not used to this. I’m really shaking


and sweating.

There’s one instructor that guides me but my approach


anxiety is off the charts. I thought I was going to die by
just saying Hi to random chicks. I tried. But I did not
approach a single person that time. It was so
embarrassing but not still young.

It was time to hit the club, which I’m not used to as well
because I’m a church boy. I don’t go out to chill or even
go to a bar now and this. It’s out of my comfort zone dude.

Now, they switch me to a different instructor. We did


differently this time.

I just followed whatever he whispered in my ears while


he was behind me. And I was able to talk to a girl and
another girl and another one. I even got my first number.
Which is a great achievement for me. I was excited dude
that this stuff really works. And the rest was history.

To cut the long story short. I failed, failed, failed. But I


keep learning from my mistakes.

I got rejected but it did not stop me. I can see small
progress in me and I know it. I’d like to do this for the rest
of my life.
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I became really good at this. For the next 2 years, I


started going out solo studying. Writing field reports - it’s
like a journal. What did not work and what works. I started
posting my experiences online and people loved it. Not
just loved it, they are learning.

Little did I know I started inspiring people. Getting fans.


People DM me for advice. I felt good about it that my
experience helped people to have the same result.

This is where a new mission started for me. That I want


to help a lot of men to be the best of themselves. I
approached Smooth how I can become an instructor.

We had dinner. I remember there was Michael and Jex


that time.

I asked him what it takes to become your instructor, he


said. You need to be mentored by me, Smooth said. So,
I took his program 1-on-1 Bootcamp and there I was
approaching and dating thousands of girls.

I got rejected. I got stood up so many times. I never stop.


I keep moving on like it doesn’t hurt anymore, for the
name of personal experience because EXPERIENCE IS
KING. So that’s where I started. I hope it inspired you.

Now let’s go back to the present.


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SAME DAY CLOSE WHILE DOING HOLIDAY


SHOPPING STORY

When you approach a girl, you have to be non-needy.


There is a correlation between being non-needy and how
attractive you are. The reason why it's important is
because for example, imagine anytime of your life that
you are surrounded by your friends. You're in great
clothes, a good environment and you felt comfortable,
joking with your buddies, dancing around, fucking
around.

There are hot girls here and there.

You have your friends out there, feeling good, and


looking good. When girls come and talk to you, you're not
super eager, not super needy and you're just enjoying
the night.

Whenever you do that, you’ll probably succeeded in


attracting the most attractive girls. That is how most
people attract really quality women.

FIRST TASTE

So, I jump out the bus and enter the mall to find my
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The mall is jam packed. Hot girls left and right. We start
approaching. We started approaching fashion stores. We
went to places where hot girls love to shop.

First stop is ZARA. I had 3 approaches before I met these


two. You want to start warming up asap. Be in the
talkative state.

Andrew gets her first approach. I and Marc are still


looking for hot women. We went to the next stop, H&M.
Had a couple of blowouts while we're on our way.

Marc approaches this tall, blonde girl. I roam around the


area. Got few approaches and some blowouts. I'm not
100% leading and persistent. I had to change this now.

THE APPROACH - THE FITNESS COACH

Our next stop was Pull & Bear and Uniqlo.

We approach a lot of hot women. Those two are crushing


it. Marc had to go back from his work because he's just
on break and Andrew is still with a girl. I saw this girl with
a pink blouse, long dark hair and White skin. I followed
her. I was walking towards her but there was a hotter girl
in front of me with a nice rack and I said to myself,
"Hmmm, yummy she's hot". I'll approach her instead.
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I approached her with a smile and I said, "Hey, which one


is better for my younger sister's birthday (pointing to a
black dress)?" She smiles back and replies. I say my
sister's birthday routine. I know this is indirect and to
make things more fun I said, "You know what, fuck that.
The truth is I just wanted to say Hi to you because you
seem quite elegant but half classy" she laughed.

I see her big smile but she's quite busy with all the
shopping. Get her logistics. She works as a fitness
instructor from Singapore and flies back here to manage
their family business.

She knows Elon Musk and Steve Jobs. Most of the time,
I ask girls if they know Elon Musk or Steve Jobs so I’d
know how to talk to them. If they know Steve Jobs but not
Elon Musk, I can talk to them about slightly deeper
things. If they know both Jobs and Musk, I can talk to
them about deep and intellectual things. If she doesn’t
know both, then I’ll just talk about shallow things.

I said "Interesting, you have 3 points for that" she burst


out laughing and said, "WHAT?"

I keep the conversation flirtatious and light. Then I run my


pulling routine. I said, if she wins I'll treat her in llao llao if
not she'll treat me. She agrees.
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While we're walking and finding gifts for her relatives in


the store, I get her logistics. She's from Marikina and
staying with her gay brother. I'm gathering info for my
future pull to know what game I have to plot to get my
end goal.

She has a boyfriend.


I told her "Don't worry I'll try not to steal him. How long
have you been dating?" “1 month.”
I said to myself, this is easy. "Where did you meet?"
"Tinder."
"I think I saw you on Tinder and I swipe left"
She laughed.

At the back of my mind, this is easier. It is hard to meet


girls and sometimes it's easy doing game online but you
don't have proper knowledge on how to attract girls.

You must have game on Tinder. If you're ugly and you


can't get matches and dates on Tinder or other dating
platforms, Smooth is here to rescue your dying stick and
dating profile. He creates the best online dating program
in the country to help you get dates and possibly a
girlfriend, that you don't meet in clubs or streets because
of being too busy with their jobs or career.

Now is the time to change, don't wait ‘til next year my


friend. THE CURE By SMOOTH.
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You’ll want to meet a lot of girls to gain so much


experience for you to know how to game a specific girl.
This is calibration. We, coaches, can teach the basics but
not all.
YOUR BRAIN WILL NOT BELIEVE WHAT YOU SAY AS
LONG THERE'S A FACT THAT YOU EXPERIENCED.

So, it's important to go out and study your approaches.


Each approach preferably. Stop being lazy about it.

After my routine which, I usually win, we had a small talk


and I'm still thinking if I'll pull her or not, but since she's
still shopping and I know she's hooked. I have to get her
number. I told her I have to go and it was nice meeting
her. Number close her and she's okay with it even though
she has a boyfriend. I was surprised. Studying success
with women is really amazing.

THE TEXT GAME

There's a lot of women. I have to go back to my friends


and approach more.

I texted FitnessGirl right away. I don't wait for 3 days or


one hour to text her because in this current situation who
knows you might get an instant date. I don't expect that
she was really hooked.
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I run my text game. I remain playful and teasing in the


text. We did not end up eating yogurt ice cream but
instead, she agrees to meet up for dinner.

THE INSTANT DATE

We meet up outside H&M. Andrew taking pictures of the


pull behind my back. Lol

It's comfort building time, and after approaching the girl


and a little bit of text game, we go to our comfort place.
We went to 5 restaurants. We keep walking to find a
restaurant where we can eat.

I bring her to Gringo to eat. I sat next to her. Did some


lights kino we're waiting for our order. Did the roller
coaster routine. Everything seems sexual now. She's
loving it.

Before walking to where we ate, I was already seeding


the pull for a drink.

I said "I think you drink a lot".


"Yes, you?"
“Not really. I feel you can beat me in drinking. If we drink,
I can only drink one bottle and I'll be tipsy. So, you have
to carry me and when I fall asleep you might put your
hands all over my body. Ew"
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She burst out laughing.

We bill out. She insisted on paying it. She doesn't bring


cash but only card. I said "I can pay but if that's the case
drinks on me later." She's okay with it.

We walk towards Marc's booth to get my big bag. We're


linking arms and tell Marc we're bouncing to Moonshine,
a pub. It's 11:30pm and it's freaking hard to get uber or
grab. She asked how far it. I said 15 minutes away. She
replied "Okay, let's walk." This girl is wearing high heels.
I like her. She's not maarte. This is better and more effort.
She invests. We're holding hands while crossing the
streets.

We're at the pub now. We ordered some drinks. I don't


really drink. She ordered a cocktail. We talked about
random things. Just normal talk and building more
comfort. She opens up about her past boyfriend. Talks
about her monogamous 7 years relationship and found
out that the guy has a newborn baby while they're
together. Life sucks. I gave her advice about failures. I
use my knowledge about self-development. The value
you can give to all people. You must know the things you
are good at. If you don't know much stuff. TRY NEW
STUFF. NO EXCUSES.

After she talks about her life and her family. I build more
connections by talking about my family and how we are
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completely the same. She starts opening more deeply.


We're on our own bubble. Not much fan of drama so I
keep things light-hearted and fun.

We play 21 question game. Everything became sexual.


Did The Cube to get her more hooked. I said to her that
I can kiss her without touching her lips. She asked me
how. I Put my arms on her shoulder. Our face is close.
We Eskimo kiss. No resistance. We continue with the
question game. I make sure she starts escalating on me.
Putting her hands on my lap. She doesn't remove it.

THE PULL

2:10am I'm getting sleepy. I told her I wanna watch a


movie called 50 first dates. We'll just have to find a good
wifi. I ask for the bill out. Damn it it's still hard to book a
grab or uber. No taxi in the area. Her BT might go down.
She took the restroom. She asks for water. We walk to
the nearest convenience store. I'm still booking a car.
FitnessGirl sat down outside. We continue the question
game. Finally! I got uber but it's 14 minutes away. I have
to stall. We talk about vampires. She sat in some sort of
wall with plants. I stand in front of her. We kissed and I
was the first to release.

She said "I'm committed.”


"Don't worry, I won't do you"
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We made it again and released it. The uber arrived. We


cross the street. She holds my hand inside the cab. She
leans into me. We talk about the exotic foods till we reach
the motel.

THE ESCALATION

I already made her logical mind occupied saying my ASD


routine to make her more comfortable and not slutty. She
said, "Omg, why are we here?" I run my pulling routine
line. Lead her. See the bellboy. Put my 3 fingers up (3
hours). He knows what to do. We walk towards the room.
I said "We'll just watch a movie and I'm not in the mood
to make love”. She's quiet.

I told her to lock the door. I didn't touch her yet.

I told her to relax there ‘cause I needed to shit. My


stomach really aches. While I was in the toilet, I asked
her to get me mineral water, towel, and soup. To make
her invest in the seduction stage. I prepared my magic
ginseng tea to help erection longer. Drink it. It doesn't
taste good at all. Ew.

THE LAY

I'm done. She is sleeping in the bed. It's funny how girls
pretend to be drunk in seduction place. I saw this so
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many times. I close the lights to make the escalation


easier. She pretends to be drunk.

I escalate. She doesn't want to be kissed. I kiss her neck


instead. Her body presses towards me. I touch her
papaya. She moans softly. I JAPAN her. I got resistance.
I told her I just massage it. I JAPAN her. She opens her
legs. I undress her. She removes my favorite shirt. She
doesn't want to be kissed. I lick her watermelons. I get a
boner and butterflies in my stomach. She touches
StarLord. She said it's hard.

I stroke StarLord in her papaya. I stopped. I won't make


love without a condom. ALWAYS WEAR CONDOM.
ALWAYS.

I put protection. I PENETRATE HER. Did basic


missionary, happy crab, the bottom's up which my
favorite it makes my balls relax and penetrate her longer.
It helps a lot to stay longer in bed.

AFTERMATH

I run a destiny routine to make her comfortable. I don't


talk about her boyfriend at all. I just remain calm about it.
I tell her I'm not boyfriend material but we can remain
friends if she wants to. She's okay with it. We make love
3 more times and we sweat like pigs. The bed gets really
wet. Time runs out in the hotel. I still have my girlfriend
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waiting in her crib. We book a grab. She drops me off at


my place. We kissed goodbye. After she arrives home
she texted me that she's home safe and we're still texting
until now. HAPPY HOLIDAYS BROTHER!

Until next time brother.

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CHAPTER 5
MESSAGING
“The greatest relationships are the ones
you never expected to be in.”
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THE FIRST MESSAGE


Texting has become one of the most common ways to
communicate, but it’s also one of the hardest.

So much can get lost in translation when you send text


messages, and that can hurt even the most experienced
guys.

Texting a girl is a delicate process, but like any other part


of the game, it can be figured out. All it takes is some
practice and some trial-and-error.

Your goal should be to evoke some type of feeling in the


girls that you’re texting. Give them a reason why they
should keep opening your messages and why they
should be excited to see what you wrote.

Too many guys fail when they try to text with girls. This
won’t keep her interested and will end up getting you
ghosted sooner than you think.

Now, we have been discussing the text game and how to


get favorable results when talking to a woman but there’s
something I forgot to tell you. It’s about how you send her
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In order to impress a woman, your first text should have


substance instead of the most basic “hey”.

It’s really common sense, but a lot of guys don’t do it. The
first text you send a girl should meet the following criteria:
● It should evoke emotion
● It should be original
● It should capture her attention
● It should be short

If you can nail these criteria, you’ll have a much better


shot of getting a response than if you had simply written
something about how her day was, or the dreaded, “hey.”

It does help to keep in mind that when you text a girl for
the first time, you’ll make a mistake. Don’t say something
overtly sexual, or too outlandish—it’ll just make her think
that you’re weird.

Just like when meeting for the first time, it is important to


make pretty good first impressions when texting a girl for
the first time.

REAL INTERACTION

A social interaction is an exchange between two or more


individuals and is a building block of society. Social
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interaction can be studied between groups of two, three


or larger social groups. By interacting with one another,
people design rules, institutions, and systems within
which they seek to live.

The most important part of a text game is having a good


interaction with the girl first before you even get the girl's
number.

If you have a good initial interaction with her, you’ll have


this great momentum that will carry through and you will
be successful.

If you have a bad first interaction, then you have to be


dead solid perfect to get the girl out.

Now I got some girls out on date that didn't even


remember who I was from the initial meeting.

So, it can be done but you're much better if things start


on a positive note.

There are very few specific things that you can do that
will make the interaction extremely better.

There are also a number of things you can do even if the


interaction itself is just an ordinary one to help you to start
the text sequence and move things forward in such a way
that you'll be able to meet up with the girl very easily.
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I’ll show you exactly what those steps are that can get
things started on favorable terms and make everything
else you do so much easier.

QUALIFY

Most of the time when people are searching for who they
want to sleep with or be in a relationship with, they look
for qualifications.

In order to find the one to be in a relationship with is to


check who they are talking to, or engaging with, is
qualified.

If she’s qualified, then the next thing you can do to make


a girl follow up with you via text is to show her that she's
actually special in the interaction.

A girl will give you her number because she's attracted to


you, but she'll only come hang out with you on a date if
she feels comfortable and safe about doing it.

If she feels like you would pick up any girl and treat them
all the same when you're just in it for sex, then she's not
going to feel very comfortable and safe.
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If she feels like she’s special and she’s won you over,
she's going to feel like there's a connection there, she's
going to feel like there's a lot of good possibilities there
and it also kind of makes you seem more high value in a
sense that you have standards and she had to win you
over.

What I'm explaining here is what we call qualifying.

Qualifying the girl means showing the girl legitimate


reasons why you like her or ideally having her show your
legitimate reasons why you should like her and then
agreeing to it.

For example, I like intelligent girls so I might ask a girl


what she studied in college and then she might tell me
what it is and I’ll act like that's really cool and I'm
fascinated by that.

Then, I’ll be complimenting her by saying that thought.

So now what have I done?

First of all, I asked her a qualifying question. I asked her


a question that made her prove herself to me.

The fact that I care and have standards, says that I'm a
high value guy but then the fact that she answered, says
she's investing in the conversation and she cares as well.
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And then, the fact that I recognize something cool about


her means that when I call her up or when I text her later,
it's for a genuine reason and not just because I like her
body and not just I want to get her in bed. It's because
we're actually going to have a good interaction.

Girls do like sex. Very much. But the way girls have sex
isn't so much like the “I'm turned on let me have sex”.
They kind of want to have a process and they want to
have an experience leading up to sex and part of that
experience is building a connection, having a genuine
positive interaction with a guy.
So, the more that you convey that there's something
special in the interaction, there’s a genuine-ness or
positivity then the better you're going to be.

Again, qualify the girl and that again means show her the
reasons why you like her. That commitment and
investment actually matters as well.

ROLE REVERSAL

One final way that you can actually convey social proof,
without people around, is what I call “Role Reversal”.

Remember in our previous discussions that the highest


level of the game is when the girl is chasing you rather
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than you chasing the girl. So, if you are able to create a
scenario where she's consistently chasing you, she will
look in that scenario and realize that she's behaving with
you with the way she does around high value people.

She must have assumed that you are a high value, so a


lot of the tactics they teach in games are centered on
flipping the script or getting her chasing you rather than
chasing her.
That’s the height of the game.

If you ever see another person’s game and you see him
disqualify a woman and pushing girls away, it would
seem that he’s a little bit aloof.

To be a little bit aloof is again implying that social proof


on both through his and her behavior. If she's
consistently chasing the man at a certain point, she
would have asked herself t why she is chasing this guy.
He must be of high value.

Heighten your behaviors to get her to chase you, but the


fact that she’s chasing accentuated you more and even
just a conversation from you would seem really cool on
her side.
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SHE FOUND OUT


by XjA (2016)

How are you doing guys?! It's been a month since I


started pimping out with Smooth, Philip, and King. Well,
I admit that these guys are hustlers and they are really
hard closers! Most of their girls are HB 8-10, every week
they have a minimum of 3 new dates, and even date
three 10s in just 2 days!! Massive respect to my mentor!
It's an opportunity to be associated with these guys
because I'm really pushed to give it all and strive to
improve and step up my game!
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THE APPROACH
It was Friday and we have a 1-on-1 and Immersion
bootcamp. After our intensive lesson and infield, we had
a chance to game in the club, and while I was talking to
some girls inside the club I saw this adorable girl walking
alone towards the exit. I approached her immediately,
used a direct opener and calibrated my body language
so that I won't show too much interest and she won't freak
out. After doing some disqualifications and getting IOIs
from her, I bounced her outside the club to isolate, know
her logistics and to know if I can pull her or not. After 15
minutes of fun conversation her friends came and
dragged her away, good thing I got her number and just
scheduled for our day 2 instead.

THE PHONE GAME

After getting her number I texted her right away so that


she'll know that's my number. Then I texted her the day
after, she replied immediately. We just vibe and I made
the conversation more fun and exciting so that I can build
more attraction.

Text or phone game is one of my favorite part of the


game, so when the girl replies to my text there's a high
probability that she'll be really hooked to me.
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After how many hours of texting, she suddenly became


unresponsive because she found out that I'm a PUA and
also a Dating Coach of PUA Academy. Thanks to my
mentor Smooth and also one benefit of being a 1-on-1
student, because he taught me how to handle this kind
of scenario, I easily and effortlessly flipped her emotions
and she liked me even more after I handled the situation.

THE DATE
After 2 days of texting and calling, I scheduled for Day 2
to maintain the attraction. We met at a coffee shop near
my place. I used DHV lines, routines from Smooth
Seduction, and gave jokes to make her laugh and to
make the attraction more solid.

After 35 minutes of fun vibe and conversation, I bounced


her to different places to build more and more comfort,
then go for the pull.

Always remember that the date should not always be


classy and expensive, convey to her that you're a guy
who's fun to be with and have a man to woman
conversation.
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THE ESCALATION

When we arrived at my place, I didn't escalate


immediately so that she would not freak out. I babystep
everything, in terms of kino escalation and transition to
sexual stories so that she won't logically think that we're
just there for lay. I started from light physical escalation,
then moved to moderate then heavy escalation when I
observed we're comfortable with each other. I also made
sure that I'm the one who does takeaways first. When I
kissed her, I stepped back first. I did the 5-10-15 rule that
Smooth taught me in order to raise her buying
temperature.

THE LAST MINUTE


RESISTANCE

When I sensed that her buying temperature was rising, I


kissed her hard and we lay down. I touched her body and
she also complied. And when I'm about to touch her
private part, she gave me a Last Minute Resistance. Well
this kind of scenario is not new to me, so when I felt that
she'll give me a resistance I stepped back immediately
and said "What are we doing? We're going too fast. I'm
not used to this kind of scenario. Let's take this slow.."
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I remained silent after checking her reaction. Also, I take


this moment to check if what I missed out during the
attraction, comfort, and seduction phase. After 30
minutes of silence, I tried to escalate again but still she
resisted. This time I used my LMR routines, made her
laugh, pumped her with different emotional spikes, story-
tell, escalate and takeaway. Wash, rinse, repeat method.

I babystep the escalation again to make her BT rise


more, touch her pants, then her undies then freeze out
again. And when she let me take her clothes off, it's about
time. I hugged her tight, intensely stared at her eyes. And
the rest is history.

AFTERMATH

In order for me to do a solid game, build a solid


relationship, and keep this girl, I opened up everything
about what I do. I showed her all of my video articles
about pickup, taught her about value and attraction so
that she'll be aware about handling relationships. Our
experience was really great, we learned a lot, had a nice
connection, and exchanged a lot of value.

“When done right, it is a privilege to get picked up by a


pick-up artist.” – Mystery
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INSTRUCTOR LEVEL BY KING


It’s funny how we instructors learn from our infield shoots,
a LOT of ridiculous responses from friends of girls,
bloopers, THE FUNNIEST lines ever and social
intelligence from gorgeous women we interact with.
Pulling madness with Smooth and Inner Circle, traveling,
teaching, loving it.

We’re in Cebu, last January for Freetour and Supercamp.


Together with Philip and two students, we couldn’t have
been more different from each other but nevertheless,
both of them are making their progress throughout the
program and I am once again amazed towards their
willpower and ability to learn quickly. I always love how
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our Infield Training gets out the best in students. I’m on


their back, giving them instructions on what to do and
what to say next, reminding them to lead and persist. It’s
awesome, I love it. Hot girls walking by, giving us
massive eye contact, but we send the students in. If they
get laid, we get laid. We feel our job. Haha.

It’s getting late, we debrief and after giving the words of


encouragement we all say goodbye to each other, many
tips given, many “thank you” the event is finished.

A few hours ago, my student approached a group of girls.


They were 8 girls. It’s too big to handle. I’m with my
colleague. I tap this girl on her shoulder, she looks
Spanish, really cute, amazing face, big anime eyes,
tempting and tasty lips. They're too big as a group.

Our students need help I talk to this girl who is really my


type. We’re all exhausted. We’re befriending their friends
so I can still talk to my girl. The group of guys on the left
is too loud. It's challenging to get their attention.

I lead, create a Timebridge then number close. She


seems so into me and really keeps the conversation
going. I have a feeling that she’s simply surprised to
finally have met a guy who’s got his shit together, being
able to hold a normal conversation while remaining at
least a certain amount of wit and finesse.
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#TIMEBRIDGE - A mental bridge that uses logistics and


foreshadowing to ensure a day 2(Date) with a target(girl)
where he can continue the seduction at a later time and
location.

She’s from Consolacion, an hour's travel from the city. I


text her after the event. I told her to save my number and
she complied, seeding the pull and no reply. I text her on
the next day early morning.

After I send my favorite zombie routine credits to Smooth,


I got 3 replies with a massive IOI from her. I throw some
DHV routine. She gets intrigued why I’m in Cebu. Of
course, to work and party at the same time. It was my
birthday. Did some grounding then we continued
messaging.

#GROUNDING - A power routine (or a sequence of


routines) to convey one’s core personality with DHVs,
vulnerabilities, and an interesting and engaging storyline.

#SEEDING THE PULL - Preemptively talking about your


apartment or a location that is conducive to sex, way
before you try to bounce the girl there.

This is how most girls (DTF spotted) pretend when


they're drunk. She called me “Hey, where are you? I’m
drunk.” She’s with a friend. Good thing Jex is with me.
He's almost done with his bootcamp. We met on 7/11
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near Sentral. I saw my girl walking with her friend. She


hugs me. Of course, pretending she’s drunk. I told her to
hold still. She's like marshmallow and leaned on me. Jex
comes in.

At this point we were being physical with the chicks. Jex


bites her neck. I bite my girl’s neck. I lift her. Jex does it
too. I make sure we both are in the same phase. I lead
us. We're going to eat breakfast near our hotel. She
pretends that she doesn’t want to come with us but she
did anyway. She wants to smoke. I said let’s take a walk
and find one. While we walked I booked an Uber to our
hotel. We walk 5 min to our pick up point. I put her arms
on my hips and my arms on her shoulders. She keeps
swaying.

I mention that I’m hungry, she wants to smoke. She buys


a cigarette. Before she lights it the Uber arrives. I said
“Put that down. You can smoke outside our hotel”. We go
inside the car. I know the pull is going to happen, she just
wants to play the game a little more and that’s fine with
me.

We get in the car, I keep the exact vibe up - light-hearted,


chatting, telling her I’m a virgin, more joking. I increase
sexuality, take her hand, touch her inner thigh. We began
making out. I’m making out with my chick. Jex is making
out with her chick. We arrived at our hotel. The rest of the
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story is history. All of us had a good night and had our


breakfast altogether.

Good job, love how we learned persistence.

No Results In Your First Date? Get It On Your Second


Date.

Your excuses might be legit but they won’t improve your


life. -Garyvee

Until next time brother.

King
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CHAPTER 6
GAMBITS AND
TECHNIQUES
“Art is an evolution of techniques and
materials
from past to present and we can’t stop
learning.”
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DRAMA
As we all know, drama is a mode of fictional
representation through dialogue and performance. In
simple words, a drama is a composition in verse or prose
presenting a story in pantomime or dialogue. It contains
conflict of characters, particularly the ones who perform
in front of an audience on the stage.

Plot line has a big effect on your game and plot is


something that is mostly found in dramas.

Let’s be honest. Drama is something that also intrigues


us men, not just women. We like watching films alone
with deep and interesting plot lines that really tickle your
brain and when the drama comes in, that’s where we get
more invested.

Try and picture that in a relationship or when you’re trying


to impress a woman. It becomes more interesting not
only to women but also to men when relationships are
mixed with drama. It’s either your relationship is going to
progress or end in ruins. Isn’t that just like in films?

I want you to understand why a plot line is so important.


I'm going to give you some metaphors in life and some
scientific evidence. I’m going to illustrate this to you so
that you’ll understand the process a woman goes through
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when she has a little drama and how that creates


attraction.

The first thing we think about is romantic comedy movies.


If the plot line was guy meets girl, girl meets guy, then
they love each other and live happily ever after then that's
a boring movie. It's a bland movie and nobody's going to
watch it.

It's not very compelling for you as a viewer and it also


wouldn't be that compelling for either the characters.

Imagine a sports movie where the movie is featuring a


soccer team that wins every game. It’s 0 base from the
start of the movie but in the movie, they win every game.
It’s a fun movie to watch.

In the romantic comedy there's drama. They hate each


other and there are obstacles getting in the way of them
being together. They don't know if they like each other or
maybe they think that they fucked up. There’s a part
where they were misunderstood, then they finally get
together and there's catharsis that comes from it.

In the soccer movie, the team had a bunch of injury


problems and lost a bunch of games. Their star player
has personal drama and eventually it helps the team to
win the championship. That's a much more compelling
and interesting movie.
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The highlight of the movie isn't that they won the


championship or whether they met their dream person,
but the struggle they went through to get their goal.

To simplify things, having drama in your game spices


everything up. Not only for you but for the woman you are
trying to attract. This adds interest to the woman’s
experience therefore making you memorable.

Good drama contributes to the growth of your


relationship. It may not always be easy or fun, but good
drama is a key factor in facilitating healthy long-term
change in your relationship (and by extension, in your
life).

Bad relationship drama, on the other hand, is a source of


pain. It makes you feel worse about yourself.

PLOTLINES

Plot lines are of great importance in game, which is why


it is vital to have a few or more plot lines to use up your
sleeves.

I’m going to get a little more practical with the idea of plot
lines and I will give you some specific plot lines that I use
on a regular basis.
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Anything that comes up in the interaction that can be


used to play with, or to create a plot line, creates drama
between you and the girl is a great thing to happen. But
that’s not just something that’s going to happen in every
interaction. That’s why you have to put a little bit of work
into it.

Imagine you’re in a more mundane conversation. What


can you do to make it more special? The following plot
lines I used are as follows:

Plot Line 1: At first you didn't impress me (or at


first I didn't like you) but now you're starting to
grow on me.

It's a classic negative type of thing. I'll just tease the girl.
I’ll start acting like she will never get in my pants by
talking like that. I’ll act like I won’t be kissing her for the
night.

It’s push-away statements that make up for this plot line.


It can also work on crowded places.

Sometimes this works really well with a crowd, as if her


friends are around. Oftentimes, especially when she's a
really hot one, her friends are used to her getting all the
attention. They're kind of envious of her and when you’ve
left, her friend is going to think “Yeah, somebody's finally
giving her what she deserves”.
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That’s a good thing because now her friends will be


thinking “I'm actually going to be on this guy’s side”.

Aside from her friends, the girl who you’re actually


executing the plot line might even be surprised because
she wasn’t expecting that.

Over the course of time, she will try and win you over by
impressing you with things. What you’re going to do now
is let her win you over. Act as if she’s slowly winning you
over.

Remember to start off with pushing her away. It’s a pretty


useful dynamic that you can set up in the interaction.

Manipulation is the skillful handling, controlling or using


of something or someone. But this word also has some
negative connotations — a manipulative person knows
how to twist words, play on emotions and manage a
situation in a sneaky fashion to get what he wants.

You might be thinking to yourself that this sounds really


manipulative, and you're right. I’m manipulating her
emotions, but the question is up to what end?

In the sense that the movie director manipulates our


emotions by creating drama in his movie by making us
feel emotions like fear or anxiety, it makes the overall
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experience better. You're essentially doing the same


thing for her.

Creating a plot line can be manipulated and you are


manipulating her emotions, but you're manipulating them
to a good and pleasurable cause.

Do note that when I am dating the girl, I'm not trying to


attack her self-esteem and make her want to slit her
wrists or anything like that. It’s a bit tongue and cheek
and it's all very playful and already positive. I never do
anything that's overtly insulting.

The second one is really good and actually


recommended to anybody who has trouble with
escalation.

If you're a beginner or intermediate and you have trouble


getting physical and sexual with a girl or have trouble
expressing your sexuality, this is something that is best
for you to use. It’s called “Smooth” game.

Plot Line 2: You're essentially playing the role of


a hopeless romantic. You’re trying so hard not to
be a player and you're trying not to get distracted
and get caught up with a lot of women, but you
just can't help yourself because you love women
so much.
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This is played out so you can give a girl compliments that


are secure. Acting so cute like you seriously can’t stop
giving her compliments and that you’re trying so hard not
to like her.

This plotline is very different from the first one but is as


effective to women. You act like you are resisting yourself
or resisting your desire or not wanting to get anything
with her because you have your own personal things.
Notice that as the plot line progresses, you are now
presenting drama or conflict to get her more hooked than
before.

Try and make her feel special as if you are now doing
things with her that you usually weren't doing with other
women before.
Now this is something that is interesting. You’ve got Plot
Line 1 and Plot Line 2.

For Plot Line 3 you are just going to combine these two
and make more drama out of it for better results.

Plot Line 3: At first you didn't impress me (or at


first I didn't like you) but now you're starting to
grow on me. Then you will become a hopeless
romantic. Someone who wants her but wants to
take things slow. Make her feel that she is
someone special and that it would be hard not to
have her by your side.
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These are very effective plot lines with promising results


no matter what level you are in. The thing here is that you
have to commit to this.

Since you are already playing a Plot Line might as well


milk it and make the most out of it. Act as if you’re an
actor and you are directing the most romantic film ever
and you’ll never know that maybe what you’re playing is
actually going to be the most romantic moment of your
life.
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HOW TO CREATE DRAMA


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SAMPLE NEGS
You and I aren’t gonna get along.

You guys aren’t tourists, are you?

Don’t say anything, you’re cute. You’ll mess it all up

You’re cool. You can help me pick up chicks.

You usually hang out at the library, don’t you?

Oh, so you're one of THOSE.

You don’t have to be nervous, it’s cute.

I hate you.

Ok, note to self: don’t date her.

You have the funniest and adorable facial expressions

You’re actually kinda … Cute…ish

Do you know what I love about you? … Absolutely


nothing

You seem pretty cool… sort of.


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Your photos have a lot of filters.

You’re a very… interesting person

You know what? You’re actually not so bad.

SAMPLE FLIRT
What did you come over here just to flirt with me? What
else do you like about me?

You’re hitting on the wrong guy. I’m totally not boyfriend


material. That guy looks better for you [point to some
dorky guy nearby].

Stop undressing me with your eyes.

Did you put roofies in my drink?

You’re looking at me like a fat kid looks at a


cheeseburger.

You seem… interesting.

You’re trouble.

You’ll never get under my pants if you keep saying that.


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I’m trying so hard not to do something naughty to you


right now.

I want you inside me.

Wow, we should take things slow. We have never met


yet.

That's too fast.

SAMPLE ROLEPLAY
Now, are you just making shit up as you go along?

It’s a good thing you’re pretty, because once the looks


go you’ll be in trouble.

Let's play a game. Let's see how long you can hold your
breath.

You're aware you're still talking, right?

I don't know what you’re on, but I am sure they offer


rehab for it.

Bartender, I think you need to cut her off.


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Now you’re starting to scare me.

You are a total blonde fluff ball.

Stop looking at my photos like that.

Stop looking at me like that.

I’m not going to sleep with you tonight.

You would make a great wife … if you weren’t so


needy.

You’re like a cartoon of James Bond.

You’re so cute remind me of the guy from the movie


“Gods Must Be Crazy”

I want to get married and divorced to you and take half


your money.

Let's pretend we’re little kids again, but if you’re mean,


I’ll pull your hair and throw sand in your face.
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SAMPLE BANTER

Ohh.... We’ve got Grumpy Smurf here.


Oooh... She’s very hostile when she hasn’t taken her
nap.

You know what your problem is? You’re just not


spontaneous.

I love it when you talk mean to me.

I bet you have a real cute side somewhere. You just


don't show it.

Stop playing hard to get. You know I’m better at it.

Looks like someone put their cranky pants on this


morning.

I’m gonna pretend you didn’t say that, because I’m


enjoying talking to you.

Damn, please stop being so cute.

I kinda want to have breakfast with you.

I kinda want to make you my (city name).


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TIPS ON FLIRTING

Lead the conversation, control the frame. You are the


man, you are in charge.

Don't break the tension - don't do apologies, just say


"just kidding", etc.

Show that you don’t really care if she walks away from
you.

Act like she is annoying you.

Role-play together.

Compliment her on something non-physical. E.g. "You


seem pretty confident, it's refreshing"

Tell her what to do. Examples: "Hold this a sec", "Come


here", "Look at this"

ACTIVE IOIS

She re-initiates conversations when you stop


messaging her.
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She giggles.

She tries to get rapport and build comfort with you.

She messages you really fast.

She calls you.

She asks you for your name.


She asks you your age (make her guess).

She compliments you

She is playful and tries to challenge you

She's disagreeing but laughing

She uses nicknames for you

She asks if you have a girlfriend

She mentions your girlfriend without knowing if you


actually have one

She avoids mentioning her boyfriend

If it comes up that you like something, she mentions


that she likes it, too, or
needs someone to show her how to do it
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When she says or does something, she looks at you to


see your reaction

She calls you a player or a heart-breaker

She returns your calls

She invents reasons to talk to you

COLD READ

Cold reading is a teaching usually used by psychics,


mentalists and illusionists to make a person feel like they
know a lot about them without real prior knowledge.

Generally, the cold reader will make a series of vague


statements, will observe their reaction, and then will
refine the original statements based on the reactions they
got. PUA's use this to find commonalities, helping to build
rapport and comfort. Plus, it is a form of DHV.

People usually won't resist cold reads since they are


ambiguous, yet sound true to the listener. She will feel
like you understand her, so she will open up even more
to you. She will feel like u guys connected on a deeper
level. It is easy to talk to someone whom you have
commonalities with.
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HOW TO DO A COLD READ?

Observe her.

Know what makes her uncomfortable. Read her. Is she


extraverted/ introverted?

Listen closely.

Is she a realist and idealist?

Notice her clothes and style.

Girls who wear high heels and have tattoos, especially


two or more, do not see sex as a big deal. These girls are
called justifiers. Making her feel that sex is a big deal will
end you.

Does she have more girl or guy friends?

If she has more guy friends in the group that means she
is a tester, which means she will respond a lot to teasing
and she needs to chase you at all times or she'll lose
interest fast.
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SAMPLE COLD READ

I have an intuition about you. I bet you that most people


think you've had life a lot easier than you actually have,
because of the way you look. I don't think that's the case
though. I think you've actually had to work harder than
most people and at the same time you've had to play the
role and make it seem like it's all coming easy. That must
be difficult.

You know you're actually quite tense. I bet you're the kind
of person that finds it difficult to really let go and relax.

You're a shy girl aren't you? You need to go out more.


There are times when you are very energetic and
outgoing and other times you just like to chill.

Some of your aspirations tend to be pretty unrealistic.


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WET GIRL HYDRO BY XjA


And my adventure as a PUA Academy instructor
continues.

After our Super Camp event, we (Smooth & other


instructors) planned to go to Pampanga for the Hydro
party. All thanks to Guilt, a friend and his van for the
awesome ride. We arrived there around 12am. We paid
for the entrance and after that, we're on our own. There's
just one problem in that event. You're allowed to go in
and out of the venue ONCE so it means that we can't
bounce a lot of girls outside the place.

Since we were six, we separated by twos. Well, this is a


perfect moment for us to practice our game and
wingmanship.
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Guilt was my first wingman inside the venue. First thing I


did was to check for the logistics to know how I can pull
and bounce sets (checking for logistics is a must when
you're not familiar with the place). We approached a lot
of different sets to be in talkative state, number closed
then moved & merged other sets. We also tried to AMOG
each other just for shits and giggles.

After an hour, I got lost because of the wild crowd. I saw


Philip gaming so we winged each other. We approached
a lot of girls that time. One of my most solid games was
with the two cute & wet girls. After we saw the set, we
followed the 3 second rule. One of them was taking
pictures so I pretended and acted that she's taking
pictures of me, she smiled and I opened her right away
with good energy, body language, vocal tonality and a
great smile.

While building attraction, I observed that Philip’s (one of


the instructors) set was giving me IOI(Indicators of
Interest) and my set was giving IOI to Philip as well. After
how many minutes, we both agreed to exchange sets so
that we can game them better. We had conversation for
around 15 minutes, passed a lot of shit tests and number
closed both of them, then we approached another group
& mixed sets after for training purposes.

Note: Wingmanship is very important when it comes to


group and mixed sets. Your wingman will help you build
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more attraction and will also help you isolate your target
so make sure that your wingman is also socially
calibrated and savvy.

It's already 4am. We were kinda tired, so we decided to


go out and game outside for the last time. Before we went
home, Philip pulls a set inside the van and did a
threesome with Smooth. Hahaha! I wanted to be with
someone so I texted all the numbers I got from the event.
Hmm I guess I got more than 10 numbers that night.

I sent them a group message and most of them replied,


but unfortunately all of them are already home since the
party started at 12 in the afternoon.

It was a nice party and to end our game that night. We


drove back to Manila, had our breakfast and we reviewed
our game together with Smooth. Great experience. We
learned a lot.

THE PHONE GAME

After that night, I rested. When I woke up, I texted all the
numbers I got from Hydro. A lot of them replied but one
girl caught my attention, and she's the one me and Philip
approached.
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Well, this girl is kinda responsive. I guess it's because I


made enough attraction during that night. I disqualified
myself as a potential suitor, demonstrated enough value,
and passed all of her shit tests. Our phone conversation
was fruitful and I found out that she's staying in Tarlac
with her family, and she's working there as well.

THE CHALLENGE
A lot of guys make distance and their place as an excuse
not to close a girl. It's either the girl is too far or they have
logistics problems, so I challenged myself to make her go
to my place by building attraction and comfort through
text and call.

I guess phone game is one of my strengths because I


can make a girl fall in love with me by just texting and
calling them for many days. After I took a 1-on-1
bootcamp with Smooth, I conceptualized a text pattern
starting from building attraction up to seduction stage, to
the point that she's all ready for the lay and she's asking
for it. All thanks to my mentor Smooth for the guidance.

So, my plan is to make her come to my place all the way


from Tarlac. I can go there but it's better if she will go to
my place, eh? She's not really familiar here in Metro
Manila so it will be a big investment for her to travel for 2
hours.
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THE DATE

Our phone conversation lasted for 1 and 1/2 weeks. We


decided to meet somewhere in QC, I lead and she
complied.

Note: It's not enough that you're doing well in a phone


game, it's more important that you first know how to play
a solid game in actual conversation. It's a good
foundation. Improve your outer game and social skills by
going out a lot and attending seminars and bootcamps.

Well, our date was not different from my past reports. Our
connection and conversation was man to woman. I
always lead and we bounced to different places for me to
build more comfort and so that we could spend more time
together. When I observed that she's already complying
and she's comfortable with me, I went for the pull. Since
she likes korean drama, I used my korean routine to pull
her. Annyeong-haseyo!!?????

We arrived at my place, I was not needy. I'm all relaxed


because I've been in this kind of situation a lot of times,
I'm prepared and I know what to do. I raised her buying
temperature through compliance testing. After doing
baby step, I go for the lay. No Last Minute Resistance.
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We had a wonderful experience together. We're both


tired and we slept next to each other. Morning came and
we did it again. After that we said goodbye with a smile
on our faces.
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GET IT IN SECOND DATE


Success Story by KING

4 days before we landed in Cebu City, the "Queen City


of the South", I’m with Philip and Jex, two awesome
mofo’s. I’ve hung out with different guys in the inner circle
but I haven’t seen any guy with such a different depth of
character like Philip. He can be a funny idiot and he can
fall asleep anywhere. He can talk to girls at any given
time - no game switch at all. Jex, he can be a funny idiot
too. He’s wise and theoretical as well. He can get his shit
together like no one else. These two are beasts! Not the
“hypebeast” group hehe.
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We arrived at our host apartment in Lahug (thanks for


being so kind and accommodating Kenjie). Since we
were all exhausted with the flight, we rested. I couldn’t
sleep, so I did some online game chatting with girls on
Facebook. I couldn’t use Tinder because I had some
issues downloading it. Good thing I still had girls that I
engaged with before when I traveled from my previous
Free Tour in Cebu. One I already talked to but we
stopped messaging because I went back to Manila that
time. Super pretty face, Cebuana look, extremely tight
body.

I open with my opener “Touchdown, Cebu!”. She


responded and she played along. I did misinterpretations
about love and relationships and if you read the Part 1 of
this success story you see how I lead the conversation
man to woman and pass her shit test until we meet.

Before I met with this girl I chatted on Facebook, I'm with


this other girl I met back from my last visit in Cebu. We
decided to meet near Escario, but when I saw her I
noticed that she got fat. She’s a cutie, not very tall, hot
body last year but now my attraction goes down. Haha! I
guess I have to just chat up with her for an hour or two.

Since I booked two dates for the day I am fine with letting
this go. It’s 10PM so I grab her a taxi so I can meet up
with the next girl I chatted with on Facebook. After my
first girl went home. I texted my second girl.
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“Hey, I’m on my way to this coffee shop. How about you?”

I called her. No response. Out of coverage. Shit, did she


flake? I do not know. After 20 minutes I got her text.

“Sorry, I turned off my phone. Mom keeps calling. 10


minutes I’m there”

“No worries,” I said.

While waiting, I opened my Macbook and start working


on my Free Tour talk. I don’t wanna waste time, plus
she’ll see me working at the same time while waiting for
me. This conveys high value when she sees my talk,
which is quite interesting for most girls. They see you as
a man with passion and that completely shows me as
non-needy while waiting for her. If she comes, she’ll
come. The complete abundance of character.

She arrives. I smiled and grinned with a big smile. She


walks towards me, gives me a kiss on the cheek and
hugs me. I reward her. Damn, you’re so adorable. She
thanks me. I know it’s on. I’ve been with hundreds of Day
2s already. I can see clearly which girl I need to spend
time with and the girl I can just pull right away.

#DAY2 - Meeting a girl again after the initial pickup,


usually on a different day.
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#PULL - To lead a woman to one's house for the purpose


of sexual intercourse.

We talk for 15 minutes. We first talk on Tinder then we


moved it to Facebook. She loves my passion. She talks
about how my post greatly inspires people, which I’m
thankful for Smooth. Teaching is not only the way of
being a successful pickup artist, but a man of value who
is eager to help guys be the best versions of themselves.

She looks at me with lustful eyes and has no problem


being near to me. I lead her away from the coffee shop:

“Come, I’ll just leave my laptop at the hotel, then let’s


grab some food. I'm hungry but only if you're harmless
okay?”

“Of cooooourse. I am!”

We go there in my hotel. Plugin my MacBook in the


outlet. I let her chill. Since there’s no chair in the room,
she goes straight to the bed. I said, “Hey you went
straight to the bed ha, nothing will happen to us, promise
me,” She said, “Omg that’s not going to happen”. I make
sure I’m the first one to say this so It won’t be slutty for
her if we do it and so I said “I just met you.” while smiling.

I told her to hug me. She hugs me. I told her to kiss me
and she did.
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Obviously, I was the first to let go. “Hmm you escalate


too fast huh?”

Even though I first did the move. I do this to prevent


possible LMRs in the future. I tell her to let’s get out of
here before something happens. I’m hungry. Let's grab
my favorite choco-butternut. I see her giving me intense
Bambi eyes. I found out that it’s her favorite too.

Everything seems to be smooth but I still wanna play the


game by building more comfort. So, we went outside the
hotel. Buy us some food. Joke around in the streets, did
some role plays which can often time result in you and
the girl feeling you guys have 2-3 years shared
experiences (a lot of these role play examples is in the e-
book ,Smooth Seduction. I would grab a copy if I were
you) and ending up in the same bedroom.

#BAMBIEYES - The enlarged pupils and eye-area of a


girl who is either really into you, or likes to look cute.

#ROLEPLAYING - Role-playing with a woman when you


first meet her is introducing a scenario into the
conversation where both of you take on roles other than
what you obviously are (two people in a bar talking for
the first time). These roles can literally be anything, and
the role-play can be started in many ways.
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I told her we could watch a movie while eating fries. She


complies. I knew that she knew, that I know, you know?

By this time, she was for sure all wet and ready for my
StarLord. I played some music since the internet is slow
while we lay in bed. I figured to try the massage routine
to escalate physically and start then foreplay. You want
to do this baby step so that your girl won’t feel harassed
or it feels too fast but instead it’s a step by step with a
smooth transition from mid kino to heavy kino.
Meanwhile, I do more fantasy role play.

#MIDKINO - After she is comfortable with light kino you


progress to mid kino. This kino is still playful, but a bit
more intimate and overt. You can now go for slightly
more private body parts such as her back, waist, and
legs.
At this level, longer touches can also be introduced.
However, before you do it is a good idea to perform a
short or incidental kino escalation move around that area
first, to test her comfort level before you go for a longer
touch.

For instance, you can let your leg brush against hers, or
gently tap her thigh while making a point, to see if she
would be comfortable with longer kino on her legs.

#HEAVYKINO - When she is comfortable with mid kino,


you can move on to heavy kino. This includes more
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intimate areas – such as her neck and facial area: ears,


lips, and hair. Note that this is still comfort building. Heavy
kino does not include erogenous zones such as her
breasts, crotch or inner thighs. Those areas are not paid
any direct attention until foreplay, where the intent is
sexual arousal. Making out can arouse you, so make
sure not to cross the line until you are at a seduction
location. As with mid kino, you can go for incidental
touches first before you go for more overtones.

At some point, I felt her back move while I massaged her


traps and back. When I felt there’s no resistance with me
massaging her back, I put my hands at the back of nape
I squeeze it and pull down her hair, I am kissing her neck
now, first slowly, then a bit more passionately, and she
loves it. I moved her body, facing towards me, and make
out with her. We kiss passionately and our hands are with
each other. I remove the strap of her bra and begin
kissing her yummy watermelons.

When I get down my hands to her papaya, she resists.


“We can’t do this.” she says “Sure, let’s stop this. Why
are we so fast?” I said. Her token resistance is a bit soft
and I’m cool with it. I turn my back and say the cousin
rape routine (good for handling LMR). After a deep talk
about it. We hugged and I told her to let’s sleep instead.

#LMR - The resistance that a woman puts up to physical


advances before sexual intercourse.
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I escalate again. I kiss her neck, slowly and passionately.


Use the lock-in position (2nd option to handle LMR).
While kissing her watermelons, my hands are running
through her thighs up and down. Running my hands
between her legs. I’m super horny, and so is she. I put
my hands down her pants. I pull down her zipper and my
hands down to her papaya. She starts moaning hard. I
remove the lock-in position. She unbuckles my pants to
make some space and let her start touching my StarLord.
She couldn’t wait to have s*x. Then I put my condom on.
THE REST IS HISTORY, my friend ;)

You know, any potential good girlfriend will appreciate


that you take the responsibility for your actions and that
you want to make it smooth for her.

After this awesome Sinulog festival, I was able to meet 3


more girls during our stay there and have an awesome
sexy time with them. ‘Till next time, Cebu!

The distance between your dreams and reality is called


action, my friend.

Until next time brother.

King, Executive Coach


Pua Academy
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CHAPTER 7
COMFORT
“Forever is a long time;
but I wouldn’t mind spending it by your
side.”
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BUILDING COMFORT
Calibration refers to the act of evaluating and adjusting
the precision and accuracy of measurement equipment.
Instrument calibration is intended to eliminate or reduce
bias in an instrument's readings over a range for all
continuous values.

We talked about calibration previously but I missed


mentioning something. The second major thing in game
that you should be calibrating aside from escalating is the
value comfort dynamic.

I’ve always been calibrating when I'm talking to a woman


aside from escalation but I have been using different
tactics and that is something I want to discuss.

I want to talk about this value comfort model I have and


how I use it and how it helps me to always know what's
going on a woman's head and what to do next.

Value comfort idea comes from a woman's evolution.


What is she looking for again? The Lover or the
Provider?

The woman has this genetic obligation to herself to


assess which type of guys she is ending up with.
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She needs to be aware of what she's getting into


therefore she's always assessing value income.

I think the value comfort idea is how much a man could


provide for her life, comfort and how much is he actually
willing to provide for her life.

A guy who could provide a lot but is willing to give


nothing, isn't worth much to work with and a guy who just
can't provide any, isn't worth a whole lot either.

That’s what she's trying to assess. How much you can


provide and whether you're willing to.

That's why value and comfort is so critical.

We’re also going to understand that it is not just about


how much you can provide but also the ratio that you're
showing her because that's going to tell her what
category you're in and that's going to dictate how much
you’re willing to go.

HOW TO BUILD COMFORT

Aside from value, what do women want men to convey


more in order for them to settle? That is comfort.
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So, the next obvious question to ask would be “What


conveys comfort?”.

You have value on one side and the other part of the
model is comfort.

Comfort basically means is her belief that you will stick


around. What conveys that? If you do things that’ll show
you to be trustworthy, then that will convey comfort.

If you do an explicitly honest action, and when you're


honest about something that you could have gotten
away, it’s being honest.

If you show loyalty to a girl and if you have an opportunity


to go to cheat on her with another girl but you don't and
you stay loyal and faithful, that's a good indicator.

Spending time or investing your time, energy and putting


hard work into the relationship shows a lot of comfort.

In fact, time spent together and time investment is one of


the biggest indicators of comfort because it’s one you
can't fake.

It would be theoretically hard to stage some kind of


situation where you will look trustworthy or it could just
be one of unusual events, but time is the best investment
you could make.
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The investment of time is kind of its own proof because if


you didn't care about her you wouldn't have spent it and
it wouldn't be worth faking. It wouldn't be worth it for you
to fake that because if it wasn't worth the time, you would
have spent it somewhere else.

The longer you spend time with a girl the more she does
believe that you're willing to spend more time with her.
The more it seems like you're willing to invest and the
more you are willing to stick around and spend more time
once she has a child.

That's one of the biggest ones.

The other thing that helps you create comfort is what we


have talked about before which is plot line.

The better the plot line between you and her, the more
plausible it is that you'll stick around.

If you just like her because she's attractive and there are
a lot of attractive girls in the world, she's going to believe
that you would just leave her for the next attractive girl.

If you show her explicitly that there are characteristics


that are unique to you that you really like about her, that
makes it easier for her to believe that she's special and
you won't just leave her for a girl from a different caliber.
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You have to think about what every girl really wants deep
down.

She wants a guy who she really doesn't deserve. The guy
who could cheat on her but for whatever reason, she is
sure she can trust that he won't. That's every girl’s ideal.

The more that you show that there's something special


not just about her but between the two of you or some
kind of a connection, similarities or shared bond of any
kinds then that's what people believe is love.

That is going to make her feel a lot more comfortable.

Things like shared values. If you guys are the same


religion and have the same hobbies and there are things
you can do together then that's good.

Another one is shared friends or shared family because


if you share a lot of friends in common or you know each
other's families are deeply connected, you have more to
lose by leaving her because you lose all those social
connections as well as her social connection.

That's a way of having more leverage on you that's going


to make her trust you more as well.

All these different things that bring you closer or make


you trusted are going to convey more comfort.
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LONG LASTING COMFORT

Okay, so how do I model value in comfort and how do I


calibrate them? This is the core of what I'm thinking
during an actual conversation or interaction with a
woman.

I want to give you two models in order to fully understand


this.

First is the “Filling Up The Cup” model which is the old


value comfort model that is very useful. I also want to
give you my new 5-layer model, which really goes deep
on to what all this is.

There is a BLUEPRINT OF COMFORT

Basically, every girl has her particular blueprint that she


needs.

In order to sleep with a party girl, you may need an 8/10


value and a 3/10 comfort because she doesn't need that
much comfort. Whereas, with someone who is a religious
woman from a small town who has known the same
people her whole life, you may only need 5/10 value and
value but you may need 7/10 comfort or 8/10 comfort.
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You need to get the glasses kind of filled to the right level
for that particular girl. However, it doesn't really matter if
you overfill the glasses. If you have too much value that's
not a bad thing too much comfort is not a bad thing per
se.

There's no such thing as too much value, too much


comfort in a vacuum. The whole thing is that over time as
you're adding elements of value, you'll fill up one glass
over time and adding elements of comfort you flip the
other glass and then the ratio for that, for the final position
where you end up doesn't matter. However, the ratio that
you're conveying when you get to know the girl matters
tremendously.

The end state doesn't matter for you just have to fill the
glasses, but how you fill up these glasses matter.

Here’s why.

The girl is characterizing you or categorizing you as 1 of


5 different types of guys.

It’s really 1 of 4 and then the fifth is where she’s confused


and can't categorize you, but she's basically putting you
in a box.
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The boxes are:

Box #1: The guy who is very comfortable,


very nice, arouses no emotion in her and is
not even considered as a sexual prospect.

Box #2: The guy who is the provider male.


He’s the nice, safe and secure beta male
type of guy, who she does feel some emotion
to and does feel affection to. He’s friendly
and there's a little bit of a sexual spark
enough that she's interested you in that
category.

Box #3: The middle box is interesting


because the 2 boxes before and after it are
the provider box and the lover box.

You can definitely very much have success


with women from either one of the provider
box and the lover box as long as you're
consistently in that box. We will further
discuss this but before that, let’s move on to
the next categories.

Box #4: The lover box, which is now there's


a lot of value with still enough comfort that
she feels safe with you and she doesn't feel
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in physical danger. She doesn't feel like


you're just going to cheat on her and that kind
of stuff but she's very aroused by you. She’s
very interested in you so much that she
wants to sleep with you even if she thinks
there's a chance you might leave her.

When you're in the provider box and if you


thought of leaving her, she will not sleep with
you.

When you’re in the lover box and she likes


you so much that she sees so much value,
she would still sleep with you even under the
condition that you might leave her.

Box #5: This is further down the value


spectrum with a lot of value and lesser
comfort. Basically, high value - low comfort.
She just doesn't trust you. Because you're so
high value, she doesn't even believe you'd be
with her or there's so little comfort she just
thinks you're a criminal or a psychopath and
she just can’t convince yourself or fool
herself into thinking that you're safe or
comfortable. She will just reject you for her
own safety.
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Now going back to the middle box, you can definitely still
have a lot of success because you're in the right place
and the gradient. The problem is this. The girl doesn't
know how to categorize you and she'll act very differently
and sleep with under different conditions: the lover
versus the provider. When you're in this middle box,
she's definitely thinking of sleeping with you and she's
definitely interested in sleeping with you, but unless she
can put you in one or the other of the lover or provider
boxes, she is going to have a hard time because she can
be confused on how to react to the proper way.

What usually happens here is she will be very aroused


and things will be going in a sexual direction, but she'll
try to give you tons of tests because she doesn't know
what category you are. She’s hoping that if you'll blast
through the tests and put yourself in that lover box, she’ll
just be aroused and sleep with you. She could also be
hoping that you don’t act like a baby yourself and put you
in the provider box and then she'll feel comfortable and
safe around you.

I highly advise that you make it to a point that you fit


yourself in a category. She will then be able to know the
level of value and comfort you can provide so she can
act accordingly.
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SUCCESS STORY by SEPDIO


AKA DJ
Hey guys! Before I learned the art of success with
women. I want to share with you who I was 6 months
before.

I was a type of guy who gives everything for the one I


love. I thought that giving all that I have for the woman
that I love will never leave me. I give her my money, l
bought her flowers, food, and if she needs me l even
clock out of work early just to go to her place, which is 3
hours travel time from my work.
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But what happened? My ex GF cheated on me. She's


been dating with other guys. Did I do something wrong?
For 1 freaking month, I cried and begged for her love. But
still, she left me with nothing. Not a single penny since
she has all my money.

I was very depressed that month. My parents brought me


to the psychiatrist for me to get well.

One day, one of my friends introduced me to this group


about attracting girls. Pick Up Artist Academy. What?
From the word itself. So cheap! Then I watch some of
their videos. Nahhh it's scripted. That guy can get girls??
Oh, come on! Yeah, he will just pay for him to get the girl.
In short, I'm the NUMBER 1 HATER OF THIS
COMMUNITY.

But I got hooked with this group. They are not just
teaching guys to attract women. They also teach self-
development that helped me to move on from my ex-
girlfriend and to have a long lasting relationship with a
partner.

So, I tried to attend their Free Tour and bought their


Smooth Seduction ebook.

By the time I read the book, I thought “Is this real??”. It


crossed my mind that what if the girl will slap me in my
face if I did this. Then what my ex-GF said popped out in
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my mind: "NO WOMAN WILL LOVE YOU BECAUSE


YOU ARE A JERK."
So, I motivated myself to take ACTION. I tried all what
the book said. WTH!!!! Yeah, it's real! From approaching
to dating, until the girl chases you. It's all accurate.

But I want to learn more, I needed a mentor who can


really guide me with this art.

So, I attended a 1-on-1 boot camp. These coaches really


gave me a hard time. They taught me the proper way on
how to attract women up to handling long-term
relationships.

I've been 4 months straight doing this art and I never


regret taking the risk and taking action. Going out of my
comfort zone. Surpassing my limits.

What is my dream?

To get the DREAM GIRL that I want. To TEACH guys to


never be a loser, what I used to be before.

Thank you PUA Academy. I’ll always remember what


these coaches taught me.

What if this will be your last day in the world? What will
you do? Raise your standards! We are born to be Alpha!
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MARDI GRAS ESCAPADE

Mardigras is an event held in Olongapo where all the


gorgeous girls from Bataan, Pampanga and Gapo go
there. It is always held in the last week of October.

We stayed in Olongapo for 3 days and 2 nights from


Friday to Sunday. So our goal every time we go out are
the following:
1. We want to do a seminar like a free tour.
2. Shoot infield videos.
3. To have fun and to have a lot of lays.

Every time we go out of town, I see to it that I will have 1


lay per day. So I’m not posting if my LR is kinda the same.
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But that’s why I want everyone to have a routine because


you can use it over and over again. This time, what I’ll be
posting is very very different.

Day 1 in Olongapo is kinda cool. But I don’t know, this


time HB sets are so rare. You know, Gapo is not like
Manila or Cebu where there is a lot of HB. Gapo is more
like Davao. I made a joke with my colleague that we
should go back to Manila now. There’s no hb. Probably,
1 or 2 out of 10 girls is HB. That’s why I told myself that
if I’ll be seeing HB set I need to approach them right
away.

So we were walking in the streets, hoping that we would


see HB 8 and up. But I feel it's very rare. I just enjoyed
the moment, there’s nothing I can do but to enjoy it. So
to practice my game, I approached the set even though
it is average. I opened a group set and girls with boys.
Probably, I got 8-10 numbers so that I can text those
later. Hopefully, 1 or 2 will be interested later.

We continued walking. Once we see HB 8 and up, we


open them right away but most of the time, they reject us.
Because they feel they are like goddesses at that time.
Even though I’m seeing a lot of IOI with my target, we
can’t handle the cockblock. Too bad, but the good thing
is I open them.

This is it.
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I saw this girl for me, this is HB 8 or 8.5. She was with
her friends, they were three. She is the prettiest among
the group. I opened them indirectly.

Me: Excuse me, I need to tell you something.


Set: WHAT?
Me: Come here, I need to tell you something.
Set: What is that?
Me: I didn’t know that I’ll be seeing the Powerpuff girls
here. You are bubbles, blossom and you are buttercup
and I’m mojojo.
They all started laughing.
Me: High five. What's your name?

They introduced themselves and that’s the time King and


Jex went in. Here are my friends.

Now, I can talk to my target.

Again, there’s nothing new with the way I created


attraction. I still use my disqualifying lines and my neg
lines. But my lines are different because now I know what
is the purpose of that disqualification and neg. That’s why
I can create my own. You will know all of that in super
con and my bootcamp. I threw my lines to her. But I knew
that this would be a very fast conversation because they
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were walking and we were walking also. I need to throw


my DHV stories right away so that she will know that I am
a guy with value. In short, I got her number.

It's 2am already and I need to text all the numbers I got.
Looking at how many of them are hooked. Good thing,
my hb 8 set replied to me. I’m so happy.

So we invited them to a chill area where we can drink and


play billiards. Yes, finally I isolated them.

We had a couple of drinks. But unfortunately, they went


out. And I need to pay the bills. I really thought that I could
lay this girl. I felt so sad at that time.

But I need to move on. it's just 2:30am, there’s still a lot
of girls. Then I saw Smooth, so what I did I wing Smooth.
Good thing, it’s a girl also. So I told her it's okay, let's eat
instead. But at the back of my mind- yes, I can lay this
girl. While we were eating, I created an attraction and
built comfort at the same time. I knew that it needed to
be fast.

After we ate, I told her that I need to get something in my


car. Good thing, our friend brought his car, so I borrowed
the key. All our rooms are occupied at that time so I need
to use the car. So we bounced immediately to the car.
And you know what happened next, I knew what to do
inside the car. I knew how to escalate in a subtle manner.
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After that, I saw the HB 8 girl again. And that time, she
was with someone else. They were so sweet. They were
holding hands. Maybe some of you will ask how I feel at
that time? I invested time, money and effort and I will see
her with someone else, I felt so down at that time. But
after 2 minutes, I let it go. What did I learn from this
scenario?

I started giving feedback to myself. What’s lacking, what


I did not do, what could work better. That’s how I give
feedback to myself.

But still, I won’t give up that easily. I pushed it. But


nothing happens. It’s okay at least I gave my best.

This is not an LR, only FR.

So once we were in our place already. I told myself that


I’ll be doing an FR for this one because I learned a lot
from this one. Until…….

But after 15 minutes, I was shocked King went home and


he was with the 3 girls. King told the 3 girls that we will
drop them in Bataan since we are also going there but
they need to stay first in our place.

YES! This time I know it's an LR.


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I was shocked that this set went straight to my bed. She


laid down beside me right away. What I need is to throw
ASD.

“WOW. Grabe ka ang bilis bilis mo a.” (while saying that,


I’m putting a blanket in her body.)

Since Jex and King knew that I can lay this girl, what they
did is they went out of the room together with the 2 girls.
So my set and I are in an isolated place. YES!

But I also knew that the attraction and comfort are not
enough so that’s what I need to do-my LMR routine. Man,
it’s so hard. I’m about to give up. She doesn't want to. But
now, I need to push myself. While doing my LMR
routines. Finally, she said:

“Gusto mo talaga a. Sige eto na. Pupunta na kong cr.”

Booom finally. But after she said that, someone opened


the door. My set got to freak out. What the fuck? I’m back
to zero. No way. Haist.

So I did my LMR routine again and this time, I made it.


After that, I’m happy because she doesn’t feel any
buyer's remorse while we are still talking.

We might see each other again before this year ends.


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Learnings:

1. If you see an opportunity, always close it. Or someone


else will close it.
2. Know the process by heart so that you know what to
do when the time comes.
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CHAPTER 8
CONVERSATION
“One good conversation can shift the
direction of change forever.”
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ENDING THE CONVERSATION


FIRST

A cliffhanger is when a story or plotline ends suddenly or


a large plot twist occurs and is left unresolved. It is a
device that is used to cause suspense, but most
importantly, it leaves unanswered questions that make
the reader or viewer want to come back to learn what will
happen.

Now, when texting a woman and all of a sudden you don’t


receive a response from her for a day or more, then you
will feel a cliffhanger. She left you hanging off a cliff of
your conversation.

I know how badly you want to ask why she hasn’t


responded when it has been days, but I also want you to
repeat after me. “Not every text requires a response”.

There’s a lot of times when you can achieve a lot more


by not texting back than you can by texting back.

Let’s say you made tentative plans with a girl for a couple
days off and she says it sounds great. You don't have to
reply back.

Leave it there.
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Leave it and don't overdo it.

Don't be over invested, it’s not a big deal.

You’ve already achieved everything you're going to


achieve in that moment and texting more is just needy,
trying hard, and only shows that you don't have a life and
gives you opportunities to fuck things up.

Another context is when the girl is really into you but you
won't be able to hang out with her for a few days and you
can't get on the phone for whatever reason.

A lot of times it's good to leave it that she texted last and
you didn't text back.

When you talk to the girl and you don't get a response,
you’ll start questioning yourself if you did something
wrong. Did you mess it up? The more you overthink
about that no response from her, the more you start to
fall in love with her. The longer she doesn't text you back
the stronger your emotions get.

Imagine your reaction when she doesn’t text back. Girls


react like that as well, except times 10.

If they text you back and you don't respond they will go
crazy for you.
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If you need to arrange details over text that generally


does require response and you are having a really good
back and forth conversation by all means, keep texting.

But if the situation is where it can go anywhere and it's


already going really well and you have an opportunity to
leave it hanging and let her want you a bit by all means,
do it right now.

Don’t be afraid not to respond to a woman’s text. It will


get you more desirable.

HER RESPONSE

Observation is something important when noticing a girl’s


response.

Observations are key to good planning and I will tell you


why.

When you take a good look at something, noticing facts


or taking measurements, you are engaging in
observation. Something a little more intense than just a
quick glance.
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Most of what we discussed could be described as the


“Texting Best Practices” or generally good texting
strategy.

Let’s now move away from it for a while and focus first on
what has been the woman’s response ever since.

I want to point out that in order to escalate, you must be


very observant to how a girl responds to you.

We have discussed positive, logical communication, and


silence. It is important to observe which texts set her
positive and what ticks her to be silent.

When I say silent response, it doesn’t mean that she


wasn’t really replying. It’s just a much shorter response
and it has a cold vibe to it.

Notice which texts make her reply silently. Take note of


the words or terms that you use. Take note of what you
were talking about that suddenly ticked her off.

This would greatly help you in improving your


conversation with her. You would then have more
positive responses and lesser silence.

Another thing is to notice when she responds positively.


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Make the most out of the information you get when she
responds positively. This will help you make her happy
and get a positive result most of the time.

Think of this like a domino effect. Once you know what


ticks her off or what makes her silent, then you wouldn’t
be doing it anymore. In return, your conversation will then
get more fun and exciting as your conversation
progresses and you will more likely get her to go on a
date with you.

THE WAY SHE RESPONDS

It is important to know what matching is and how this


would be very much helpful in texting a girl.

After observing when and how your conversations came


from positive to silent, you now have a great knowledge
of what terms, phrases, or words will do good in your
conversation.

Now, I would like to ask you, what have you observed


regarding her communication style? Does she text with
the first letter of the first word in uppercase? Does she
use proper punctuation? Does she use an emoji or
emoji?
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It is vital to know these things for when you match her


communication style, you will have more favorable
results.

Men often prefer face-to-face communication, with the


opportunity to shake hands or tap someone’s shoulder.
Women are usually comfortable speaking with someone
side by side and more comfortable being in close
proximity with other women.

You can actually use this fact and use this to your
advantage.

When texting a girl, try to say actions you would do.

For example, when she texts you that she has achieved
something then tell her she deserves a high five for
achieving that.

Or when she texts you that she’s sad, tell her that you
would hug her if you were there. Something like that.

It implies affection and that lets her imagine the scenario


making her more hooked on you.

Going back to matching, it is important to match the girl’s


communication style. This proves that you are on her
level and that you understand her.
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Try and match how she texts. When she uses an emoji,
use one too once in a while. When she uses proper
punctuation then do the same.

NONSENSE TEXTS

There are times when there's no point in sending a text.

What I want you to know here is that every time you're


sending a text, you need to think “what was the
purpose?” and “what did that text achieve?”.

Why am I asking you to consider these questions before


sending a text? It’s because there are times when there
is nothing that will be achieved by a text.

To further explain this, here’s an example.

The scenario is that you are texting back and forth and
it's really good but then you need to go. But after a while
of more texting, she then said she also needs to go. What
she did afterwards is say good night. At that point texting
good night back or texting a follow up has no purpose
because she's already in bed. You're not meeting up with
her that day, she already ended the conversation and it's
already super positive.
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If you texted back after she has said good night, it’s not
going to achieve anything. All it can achieve is make you
look needy and it might possibly ruin something (or
maybe not), it is not achieving anything, and it is not
making the situation better.

Now, something to help you through your texting game.

I’ll be sharing my philosophy in texting and that is “less is


more”

Imagine if you were busy and having the most amazing


experience of your life would you be texting back right
now? Probably not.

Any text you send in that context is like always saying to


her that you are not having the most amazing experience
of your life right now.

The more text you send and the more you just get
convoluted, the more opportunity you have to make
mistakes.

On the other side, note on this by the way, don't plan


ahead your text either.

A lot of times there's a situation where things are really


good and there's no point in sending a text but what guys
will do is that they'll still send a text, like “I'm going to send
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this and then when she responds to that then I’ll leave in
silence”.

What they’re doing is getting the woman hooked and


when guys get tricky like that, it always backfires. So, be
careful in doing that.

If there's nothing specific to be achieved by the text, don't


send it. You can always send it later if you need to.

CLOSING
Closing sequence, closing credits, or end credits are lists
of the cast and crew of a particular motion picture,
television program, or video game.

Where opening credits appear at the beginning of a work,


closing credits appear close to, or at the very end of a
work.

A full set of credits can include the cast and crew, but
also production sponsors, distribution companies, works
of music licensed or written for the work, various legal
disclaimers, such as copyright and more.

Now, what is the relation of this to the text game?


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So, when it comes to asking a girl out on a date, there’s


something that you need to remember not to think about.
It's close.

I don't want you to think about a close. What I want you


to think about is a closing sequence.

What is a closing sequence in a text game? Closing


sequence is pretty much the same as the closing credits
in a film. The only difference is that instead of the casts
and the production team what consists of your closing
sequence should be the texts you’ve sent to get her to
agree on going on a date with you.

What I mean is not what that one text you sent her to ask
her out on a date. Instead, think what are the progression
of texts that you sent her to ask her out on a date.

Everything in this discussion is pretty much related to


each other. When you think of your closing sequence and
just find one text, you shouldn’t ask her on a date right
away. Why is that? It’s because you haven’t established
that much in your social bank account. It would be bad
for you to withdraw by asking her on a date.

You should only escalate by asking her out on a date if,


and only if, you have checked your closing sequence and
you have noticed a series of texts leading to the
progression you are at now.
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CLOSING SEQUENCE = SERIES OF PROGRESSION


OF TEXTS LEADING TO A DATE
CLOSE = ONE TEXT LEADING TO A DATE

Again, think of a closing sequence instead of just thinking


of a close.

SAVE HER NAME

When in game, you aren’t supposed to just get the


attention of one girl and then you’re done for the day.
That is not the case when you’re in a game.

You are in game to actually broaden and widen your


choices and select the best possible fit partner that you
can get. Try to work it out and eventually get in a
relationship with that person.

The thing is, once you go to a bar and you get your game
face on, you wouldn’t just try and get one number for the
night, you would actually get tons and tons of numbers.
Once you get their numbers, it is a must that you save
their name with their number right away.
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It would be a grave mistake if you start texting someone


and call her Sheila when in fact she is Cassandra. There
is nothing worse in game than mistaken identity.

One day you might think that you are talking to the hottest
girl ever but then you realize, you are wasting your time
on someone you’re not that interested with.

So, manage to save a woman’s name once you get her


number right away.
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TEXT – OPEN – MEET


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THE RAMEN LAY BY CHOADE


(2018)

I bought THE CURE 1 from Coach King because it was


on sale. I wanted to improve my online game because
most Pinay girls use Facebook, Instagram and Tinder to
show off their bodies. Why not take advantage?

I logged in my account and I told myself “I'm gonna watch


1 video per day”. I ended up binge-watching all the
videos in 3 days because it was that intense!

I felt like I unlocked NARUTO’S FORBIDDEN JUTSU


when I changed my pics and copy-pasted Smooth’s tried
and tested PUA TINDER profile.
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IT'S A MATCH!

I swipe right on all HB5’s and above. I checked every


girl’s profile to weed out the pre-op trans and ladyboys. I
got a match on a HB7 girl then I gave her my opener by
avoiding CLICHE openers like HI. HELLO. WHERE YOU
FROM?

“Hey I like your eyes, especially the left one”

“Why the left one, they are just the same!”

“No they’re not! The left one is bigger! I have big eyes so
you can trust me”

She laughs and opens up about what she does. She’s a


ballet dancer who’s an advertising executive by
profession! Smart girl! I say to myself. She knows Steve
Jobs.

I got her number and planned for a day 1 over the


weekend.

DAY 1

I set a date at RAMEN NAGI ROBINSONS MAGNOLIA


on a sleepy Saturday 4:00pm (KKB of course, 4pm
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‘cause no one's there). She has big breasts, not to


disrespect her. My estimate is she's 36C with a nice butt
trapped inside jeans that are obviously too small for her.

I said hi, gave her the IOD (indicator of disinterest)


shoulder. “See I told you your left eye is bigger".

She giggled and gave her a high five. I locked in and did
body rock (leaning back when u talk to a girl. Imagine
putting your weight on your back foot).

I took her hand and led her to the resto to build a kino. I
ordered the spiciest Tantanmen ramen on the menu and
she got the saltiest original flavor.

I asked her "What are you looking for in a guy? Give me


3 traits.” She says responsible, hardworking and taller
than her.

I told her to describe her DREAM guy, not me! She


laughed and asked me the same thing.

I told her “I like a girl that cooks. Can I borrow your hand?
*sniffs hand* Smells like Joy!”

She says that it doesn’t and laughs again. Damn three


IOIs. Hook.
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I ran my routines on her which I learned from the Smooth


Seduction Ebook

DHV 1. DHV 2. DHV3.

Our ramen arrived and we ate it all.

She said “Can I try the spicy ramen?” I replied “What do


you want to taste?”

We both laughed and I let her taste the spicy broth of the
Tantanmen ramen.

I took a sip of hers and said “Mmmm, salty. Maybe if


some guy will kiss you, your lips will be salty.” I reach out
and touch her lips. I bring my fingers up to my lips and
say it’s delicious.
I gave out and ASD. “Kisses now? You’re way too fast.
Let’s just be friends first” (shout out to coach Jack Philip)
for this anti slut defense.

We paid up the bill and bounced. I lead her to a dessert


place while holding hands to create comfort. I ran my
routines on her while escalating kino to make her laugh
and open up more. 27,000 days gambit by Smooth,
strawberry fields (my fave), and the cube. Best
techniques and gambits ever.
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She started to open up about her past relationships and


friends with benefits. How she has 800 matches on tinder
but most of them are boring guys. I sense her buying
temperature was rising.

I brought her to my car so I decided to run Kiss gambit.


We made out but before I could escalate, her dad called.
“Where are you? It’s late.”

I checked my watch and it’s already 8:00pm WTF? She


apologized and had to go. She said she had a great time
and I set a time bridge for day 2.

I HAVE TO START ALL OVER AGAIN! GAAAAH.

I remain calm and stay positive. I will review the Smooth


Seduction ebook and plan everything because I really
like her. I want her to be my girlfriend.

DAY 2

I ran my routines and checked in the motel with the MV


logo. I lied down on the bed and we began making out. I
asked her to take off my floral shirt and she complied.
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"This is what you want isn't it" she says while she takes
off her too. Damn 36C trapped in a pink Victoria's Secret
bra.

"No way! All I wanted was ramen!" I said while unhooking


her bra with one hand and unbuttoning her pants with the
other.

She unbuttoned my pants and whips my Junior out.

"I like the shape of your dong” she said as she put it in
her mouth. I let out a soft moan to let her know I enjoyed
it.

I asked her if it's salty just like ramen. She said yes and
that she liked it! I put on my condom and she gets on top
of me, cowgirl style.

She started grinding on top of me like no girl ever had! I


licked her nipples as she grinds away and moans loudly.

We both cum and switched to missionary for round two.


I penetrated her deep and felt her kitty tightening and
contracting.

"As a ballerina dancer, I can control all parts of my body''


she said.

“Especially down there. It's called Kegels"


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The way she says it in her soft and slow voice turns me
on more. We did doggy style for round three. I wanted to
go round four but I was gassed out (no thanks to my high
carb ramen diet). I ran the destiny routine and told her
she's the best I've ever had.

Thanks to Smooth because of Smooth Seduction she’s


now my girlfriend.
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FACEBOOK IS THE NEW


TINDER
BY COACH JACK

It's been eight months since I’ve become a PUA


Academy instructor. It's been good and bad actually.
Good because I know I’m helping men transform their
lives by just coaching them and giving them the wisdom
and learning that I got from my previous coaches and
Smooth. This academy has helped thousands of men get
their dating life to where it should have been. I’m very
proud of this achievement in my life, plus I’m still learning
the process.

If there are a lot of good things, there should also be bad


things. But, I don’t want you to focus on it. Before I
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became an instructor, I've been dating almost three to


four girls per week because I don’t have anything in my
mind but just to meet new girls. I wanted to meet my
perfect partner.

Thanks to Smooth, I don’t have that much time to do day


game or approach girls. At night, most of the time, I have
bootcamp so I can’t approach girls. Some nights, I’m too
lazy or too tired to go out.

So, I’m thankful that my mentor created a product named


The Cure and I used all the things that I’ve learned from
there. And yes, I’m getting results. I got 1 new girl through
Facebook and met her. I’m very confident that if I meet
her, the rest is done.

Because one of my friends and now instructor again,


ExJ, told me that my facebook is his tinder. I don’t use
tinder or any other dating app. I just find dates on
Facebook.

Man, I know I’m over mentioning Smooth here. But man,


that guy is crazy. I lived with him for 2 months and from
Monday to Friday. Even though he is busy, he always
has a new date that comes straight to our office. And one
time, I saw him had 8 new girls in just 2 days. Yes, 8
FREAKING GIRLS IN JUST 2 DAYS. WTF, RIGHT? And
out of that 8, 3 are HB’s 9-10 the rest is HB 7 or 8. Man,
all of that is through an online game. And he always tells
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us that. I don’t know if he wants us to be envious or he


wants us to be motivated. I'm motivated as hell.

So what I did is I tried to message some of the girls that


I chatted with before and I used the lines and things that
I learned from The Cure. One of the girls took the bait.
And told me that she wants to meet me. This girl is an hb
7.

Since she is near my place, I decided to ask her to go


with me. I told her that I wanted to eat outside and I’m so
hungry. I asked her to meet me in a restaurant and she
agreed.

After 30 minutes, we met in that restaurant. What I did is


I let her order the food for her because it will show that I
have value. Plus, I know that restaurant is just a cheap
restaurant whatever she orders is below 100 pesos. I
suggest you also do the same, you don’t need to spend
a lot of money unless that girl is your girlfriend. She
needs to see that you have value and treating her will
show that you have value even if it just below 100 pesos.

Before we ordered, I kept on disqualifying her so that she


would feel that I’m not hitting her. I also throw some negs.
I’m not showing any interest for the first ten to fifteen
minutes of our conversation but I’m just making her laugh
and showing my value through the DHV stories. I suggest
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you should have a lot of stories to tell too everytime you


go on dates.

I know she is comfortable already because she is


laughing so hard. But before I isolate her to my location,
I needed to see how comfortable she is so I decided to
bounce her to Mcdonalds to eat dessert - Hot fudge
sundae. We stayed there for ten minutes then I told her
that I need to get something in my place and I will show
something to her.

Yes, I did tell her all of that and she agreed. I know that
she likes me too and I think something is going to
happen. But I waited for the right moment. We were in
my place already and I told her to take a bath because
she was sweaty and I’m going to buy something outside.
I do this because I want her to smell good. I told her to
buy some stuff but I’m buying a condom. Always use
condom guys. Then when I went back to my place, I saw
that she was already laying in my bed.

Actually, I hate this letter because I didn’t do much of a


routine.

When I went for the kiss, she didn’t even say no or


hesitate. She just shoved her mouth to mine and
booommm. But, I’m asking myself, why is that
happening? Then, I remember that it is so important to
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create your value first so that the girl will be attracted to


you.

I post a lot of stuff in my profile that can increase my value


and when it comes to face-to-face, I have a lot of DHV
stories to tell. And after that, I build solid comfort thru kino
and you and me against the world.

That’s the reason that girl was so hooked.


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CHAPTER 9
ESCALATION
“Those who make conversations
impossible,
make escalation inevitable.”
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SOFT & HARD PLANNING


Soft close is what I have discussed before, which is also
known as the closing sequence. It is a gradual, nice to
move, closing sequence that feels good for you and good
for the girl.

Now, I want to talk about one other element which is soft


versus hard plans.

Before moving on, let’s define each first.

What is soft planning?

Soft planning is the processes of mutual learning,


cooperation, negotiation and coordination. It is the
complex, overlapping, soft patchwork of activities,
relationships and responsibilities.

Just from the term itself “soft”, we can already assume


the definition of hard planning will be pretty much just the
opposite of what soft planning is.

Hard planning is the process of not needing mutual


learning, cooperation, negotiation and coordination.

Now, to further understand this I’m going to give you an


example.
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Like what the closing sequence is about, you started


texting a girl with the agenda of going on a date with her.
You took days to text her because you kept asking her
about herself and you are actually building this social
capital. Slowly, but surely, you ask her questions which
leads her to always answer “yes”. How is this possible?
It’s because you have established during your texting
stage the thought of knowing what her habits and
interests were. Now when you are at a point where you
want to take her out on a proper date, she says yes.

That’s what soft planning is. Technically speaking you


have used each and every gaming technique to your
advantage, from positive to yes ladders to social capital.
You have a progression of texts leading her to say yes to
your invitation. That is soft planning. Slowly, but surely,
you try and get your way to a girl.

Now, a scenario for hard planning.

You met this girl at a bar and immediately got her


number. She hesitated but you insisted anyway, so she
figured she wouldn’t mind that you have her number.
Right off the bat, as you got home you texted her and
dropped the bricks on her since you wanted to see her
again by immediately asking her out on a date. You don’t
know that much about her but your “want” and “need” to
meet her again got the best of you.
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That’s what hard planning is, it’s almost as if you used all
the techniques forbidden in game. You shouldn’t be
expecting great results when you do that. You didn’t have
enough social capital, you haven’t established anything
with her yet but you still asked her out on a date. You
also dropped tons of bricks at her by asking the question
right off the bat.

To sum it up, soft planning is technically all the good


texting game techniques that you use to your advantage
to get a girl to go out with you, while hard planning is all
the bad techniques that you use thinking it’s to your
advantage but ending up badly.

The thing is that some men get away with hard planning.
It’s because they are of high value or technically they
exude confidence that some women find it interesting.

If you are someone of low value, better yet stick to soft


planning to get favorable results.

IF SHE PICKS UP THE PHONE


Most of the time when men are presented with just the
texting game then they tend to think that a mobile phone
is just used for texting.

That’s where you’re wrong.


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More often than not, people choose to communicate with


each other through text or email as opposed to having a
conversation over the phone. While text and email can
be more efficient for some types of communication,
certain expressions are lost without having a verbal
conversation.

Mobile phones can be used both ways, texting and


calling. That is something most men forget. It is not bad
to rely on texting but the thing is, calling a woman has
more favorable results than texting.

When you choose to call a woman rather than texting


her, you offer more efficiency and more influence. A two-
way conversation happens much more quickly and fluidly
over the phone, and allows for a more natural flow of
ideas and suggestions.
Don’t focus on texting as if you can read emotions by
reading their text. How many times have you received a
text and couldn’t tell if someone was upset? Or do you
take a sentence personally when it wasn’t directed at
you?

An “OK” or an emoji can be taken in a lot of different


ways. Misinterpretations are repercussions of
abbreviated text conversations that lack context.

When calling, you can multitask and when texting, you’re


unproductive. Tasks as simple as eating or walking can
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become challenging, with your head down and two


thumbs typing away. Also consider how dangerous it is
to text and drive.

Now, all of this could be very much favorable to you, if


and only, she picks up the phone.

Now, that is something to note. No matter how much you


want to move through a call when you haven’t
established enough social capital then she would reject
your call. You can even be presumed as someone who
is a creep or is weird when you escalate at calling when
you just don’t have that much history.

It is best to call if you also follow the text game


techniques. Calling is like a social bank account
withdrawal you’re going to make.

You have to make sure you have enough in order to


make the most out of the call and in order to get favorable
results.

IF SHE JUST TEXTED

Now that you are presented with the idea that it is highly
advisable, more favorable, and better to call than to text
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then you might be now wondering how you should do


that.

Should I just dial the number and start calling her?

Should I just wait for days after getting her phone number
and then call her?

The answer to those questions is no.

I’ll be giving you two scenarios with different responses


on when you are supposed to be calling a girl.

One scenario is when you have been constantly texting


with the woman. When you are texting her for days and
weeks, or even months, it is more likely that she is
expecting a call from you.

From weeks, or even from just days of texting, you have


already established enough social capital that you can
already withdraw it and make a call. At that point she
already must have been waiting for you to make the next
move and call her instead of just texting her.

In this scenario you have waited for days and weeks in


order to finally call the girl. You have invested much time
and effort in order to finally speak to her and know her
emotions via her tone of voice.
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Second scenario is when you just met the woman and


she already gave you her number. As soon as she gives
her contact number to you then you should call her.

Now why is that?

Take note that this situation is very different from the first
one. Some people would say that you should wait for the
moment to text or call because it helps in hiding
desperation but 90% of the time it goes wrong.

What you would do is to call her. This is a way for you to


let her remember who you are and make her put you on
the top of the list of the men she’s trying to consider going
out with.

This is a different take. In order for this to work, you


should be of high value. You need to be ready for any
backfire or response she might give you and you should
be able to turn it around to your benefit and advantage.

Now, here are some minor points I would like to call out.

• Call rather than texting. Yes, calling is more effective


and efficient than texting at any given time of this
world.
• Even if you still choose to text. Make sure your first
text is never "hey or hello". It’s hell boring.
• Ask them about their day. Period.
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• Take a stand, don't just follow whatever your girl


says.
• Provide some space to each other.
• Address her name more frequently.

PRE-ARRANGED TIME

You use “pre-arranged” to indicate that something has


been planned or arranged before the time when it
actually happens.

Most of the time when guys get comfortable texting a


woman, overtime they then tend to set dates on when to
go out with a woman. This is not such a bad thing but this
is also not a good thing.

There’s a tendency that when you set a date via text, a


woman would postpone it or even ditch you at the date
which will then leave you wondering what went wrong.

Why is that?

This is because you pre-arranged it via text. There’s


nothing wrong with pre-arranging dates. It’s just that it
would have been more appealing if you pre-arranged a
call then you asked her out over the phone.
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Ask her out on a date after you have arranged a time to


call her. Planning a time to call her indicates that you
want to talk further, and it will set a positive tone for the
conversation. It can also create a sense of anticipation in
the object of your affection.

Asking a girl on a date can create nervous feelings,


especially if you are very interested in dating her and
you're not sure if she feels the same. If you decide to ask
her out on a date over the phone, it is important to keep
proper etiquette in mind so you create a positive and
respectful impression.

With so many current advances in communication


technology, it can be easy to avoid making face-to face
invitations or even speaking over the phone. Make the
effort to be more personable to demonstrate that you're
confident and honestly interested in spending time with
her.

End the conversation politely. If she accepts your


invitation, make sure you plan to clear a day and time to
meet. If she turns you down, take it in stride and be polite.
Realize that she might turn you down because you've
asked her for time she's already committed. Ask her if
she has a better time or if you might try again later. Thank
her for taking the time to talk with you, and be sincere.
It's important to remember that dating and talking on the
phone with prospective partners is important relationship
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practice. You should try to develop thoughtful and


respectful communication skills, and avoid taking
rejection too personally.

Even though it's sometimes easier to use texting, avoid


texts, instant messages and social media messages to
invite a girl on a date. Extending an invitation over the
phone call helps you practice your communication skills
and overcomes any anxiety you might have.

HER SCHEDULE

Aside from pre-arranging calls, how else can you


determine which is the perfect and exact time to call a
woman?

That is by knowing her schedule thoroughly.

You don't have to sync your Google Calendars (though if


you would ask her, you would seem pretty weird and
creepy), but knowing what the girl’s schedule is like from
week to week will help you call her at the perfect time,
get favorable results, and eventually get her on a date
with you.

In this way, you would then be able to identify which is


the perfect time to call her. You don’t really need to
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remember everything she does every day of the week,


but you could actually know when her free time is to call
her at a favorable time.

Another way to know the perfect time to call is when you


are constantly texting and she says “I’m not doing
anything”, or she gives off a text which supports that
statement.

During this time, you will only be knowing the fact that
she’s free when you are constantly texting with her and
she’s been telling you whatever it is she is doing.

Another way is to call her during the evening. Not super


late, but maybe 8 to 9-ish. Women usually finish
everything they have to do for the day and actually have
something to talk about as a result. It’s not rushed like
the morning, and she’s not practically falling asleep over
the phone. Midday just doesn’t work because she is
almost always in the middle of something.

There are exceptions though, such as weekends when


you know she’s not doing anything. Calling in the early
evening is also more considerate of other people who are
in the house—how many of us have been rudely
awakened by so-and-so’s annoying cell-phone ring?

This is especially important if you’re calling the girl’s


home phone. You don’t want to get her grouchy, half-
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awake dad on the phone; this happens if you call either


too early or too late.

DRAFTS (ANDROID)

Next for managing numbers is to use drafts.

This is android specific and it works a little bit on the


iPhone but it is better on android.

How does this work?

For example, if you enter text that you plan to send the
girl and then just leave it and hit the back button, the text
in there will be saved as DRAFT.

It will also take that conversation thread to the top of your


conversation list so it's a great reminder for you.

How is this favorable to you?

Whenever you want to text something to the girl but you


aren’t sure that you should be texting at that specific time,
then it is better to type in down and instead of hitting send
you press back and save it as a draft.
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Now, I’ll give you a scenario in which this is something


very useful.

Imagine you are drunk and you just got home and wanted
to hook up with somebody. Now you open your texts and
saw that you have been messaging Melissa. Now, you
tried to text her something like wanting to have sex with
her but then, since you were so drunk, you accidentally
pressed back and dozed off.

Now, you unconsciously pressed back instead of sending


it. Without you knowing it, this has saved you from a very
big disaster waiting to happen.
Now why is that?

This is because when you were drunk you didn’t notice


that Melissa was actually one of the higher value females
you have in your contacts. As you checked her
description, she is also someone who you haven’t had
sex with and is somewhat conservative.

You just saved yourself from making a huge mistake.


You saved yourself from bankruptcy in the social bank
account.

I don’t advise you only to save drafts when you’re drunk,


I have just given you a scenario supporting that you
always have to rethink whatever it is you’re going to
send. Drunk or not.
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HANDLING BUSY SCHEDULE


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BOOTCAMP EXPERIENCE by
VINCE (2015)

I don't really have a problem with girls but, I think I still


have to improve my game.

I don't really do cold approaches. I actually suck at talking


to strangers and I'm a complete introvert. I’m only
hanging out with girls who like me, girls who are below
my standards and not the ones that I really like.

Just at the beginning of the bootcamp, I realized that I


was settling into mediocrity my whole life, and that there
is an abundant amount of very hot girls that I didn't even
imagine will talk to me. It was my first time to do a club
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game and I was overwhelmed. It was a new different


world.

Smooth taught me the basics during the briefing, he


pushed me to initiate a conversation and to my surprise,
it worked! I can't believe that I was able to approach lots
of hot girls and overcome my anxiety with just the basics.

I was even able to get girls' numbers on my first night. I


was so tired when the boot camp ended but there is an
unexplainable feeling of happiness deep inside me that
I've never felt before.
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THE BALCONY BY SKY (DEC.


2017)
After we attended the day 1 of PUA Academy Supercon,
I told my new friends (PUAs from the seminar) to go to
SM Megamall to overcome the word that they called "AA”
- Approach Anxiety. Really? “AA”? Smooth says it
doesn't exist.

Here's the thing though, I thought I had no "AA" but I


know that I suck at meeting women. I really don't know
step by step on what to do, that's why I want to push
myself meeting someone during the day. I thought I got
20 approaches that day and the funny thing is all of them
rejected me then I asked myself, why did they reject me?
I think it's because my voice and body language sucks.
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INSIDE THE CLUB


When my friends and I were already inside Valkyrie, one
of the biggest clubs in the country, I started approaching
some girls but I got a lot of rejections. Then, I asked
myself “What the F am I doing? What is wrong with me?”

I analyze myself. “Okay, I think it's because of my body


language”. I need to be aware.

I saw my new friend, a real PUA. He's number closing


different girls right and left. Girls love him. I can’t believe
that I can’t even do what he does. Now, I think it’s my
turn.
- High five (She complies. Oh yeah this is it)

- Indirect opener:

Me: Hey, can I ask a question? What will


you do blah blah… (while starting hugging
her)

Her: Blah blah…

Me: (Throwing negs) I really like your eyes


especially the left one

She: What? Why only the left one?

Me: Stop! Asking me (Smile)

She: *laughing*
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- FTC – I told her that I can't stay long ‘cause I had


to find my friends. Boom! After I said that, my
friend came over and they introduced themselves
to my girl then got rejected, they fucked it up.

COMPLIANCE TEST:

(I reach out my hands to her)

Me: “Hey come here it's too loud right there.


(We're just too close to the bartender and I just
moved her. It's just three steps back ‘cause my
only purpose is to lean back while talking to her).

While talking, her two older sisters came (drunk)

Me: Hey I’m Sky

My set: This is my Ate (2nd older sister)

Me: Hey, let me guess how old you are.

2nd Sister: What?

Me: You look like 21 or 20?

2nd Sister: Oh, I like you (starts hugging me then


she kisses me)

My set: *Jealous* You should find Ate (the eldest


sister)
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1st Sister: *Walking towards us* (I knew she's the


eldest sister because the body language)

Me: Hey, I’m sky let me guess how old you are.

1st Sister: Okay, what? (smiling)

Me: You’re 21? 22?

1st Sister: (miling) Really? Okay, tell me what do


you want to drink. I’m gonna buy you drinks.

Me: (unreactive)

ISOLATION:

Me: Hey I have to buy water, come with me.

She: *complies* (Here’s my Tip: If you’re sarging


in Valkyrie, you can bring them to Uptown Mall.
The place is really awesome).

COMFORT/SEDUCTION STAGE:

After buying water at 7/11 we seat near at


Starbucks

Me: Hey, let's sit here for a while. My feet are tired
(I seat first).
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She sat close to me and I put her hand over my


shoulder and said “Your hands smell good. It
smells like Joy”. She smelled her hand too.

Then I did my gambits and routines. 6 words. 5


lies game. Thumb wrestling.

Then FTC again. She held my hands and she


initiated the chat. I gave her massive IOI. While
standing, I started kissing and teasing her. I told
her that we should go downstairs. While we
walked, she started to book an Uber. Her two
sisters were waiting for her back in Valkyrie and I
said to her “I’ll escort you guys to your hotel” and
she smiled and asked me “Are you sure?”. I
thought to myself, damn, she wants it too.

THE BALCONY

When we arrived at her hotel, I told her that I needed to


smoke. She said I could smoke at the balcony so I told
her to come with me. When I puffed some smoke, she
put gum in my mouth then I started licking her fingertips.

Her buying temperature was still high, so I started taking


her clothes off while I was smoking, licking her neck down
to her chest then teased her again. I puffed another
smoke then I started licking her neck again down to her
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chest. I throw my cigarette then start rubbing her kitty. I


could hear her moan. I took her clothes off and I put her
hand to my anaconda. She starts rubbing it and the rest
is history.

That's the first time I had sex on the balcony. It felt like a
porn movie and that was so freaking awesome. Thank
God I met about Smooth.

After the lay, I had to stay at her hotel for a while to give
some value and romance to keep her. I really like her.

After a couple of days, she said “I love you”. Now, we’re


together.

LIFE IS NOT THE AMOUNT OF BREATH THAT YOU


TAKE. IT’S THE MOMENTS THAT TAKE YOUR
BREATH AWAY.
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DON’T BURN BRIDGES TO


YOUR TARGET.

Disclaimer: This is a boring LR but I just posted this


because there would be one valuable learning here.

Before I did pick up, I was the type of guy who is super
hard-headed and short-tempered. I always get mad at
my girls if they are lying or talking shit to me. After a few
years of doing pick-up, I just realized that girls do cheat,
but they don’t want to get accounted for. Plus, they don’t
want to feel that they just ignored or cancelled one of the
guys they are dating. They don’t want to talk about that.
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That time, I couldn’t understand that. I was full of drama


and shit. I was super hard-headed and short-tempered,
that’s why girls don’t want to be with me.

Until Smooth gave me feedback about that and now I’m


starting to practice it.

THE DATE
I saw this girl on Facebook 2 months ago. We had a long
and fun conversation, we were planning to meet at that
time. Everything is in place. The place where we are
going, the clothes that I’m going to wear and the things
that we will talk about. But it didn’t push through.

It sucks right? Bullshit actually. Usually, if a set ditches


me, what I’m doing is I’m blocking her number and
Facebook. But I can’t do it. I need to practice what
Smooth told me.

Even though it’s hard to say, I told the set that it's fine. I
wanted to tell her that I want to get mad at her and say
bad things. But I’m not the old Philip, I am Jack Philip
now.

Yes, it’s a date that didn’t push through.


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We continued our conversation in text and chat. I’m


hoping if I can set a day 2 with her.

2 MONTHS OF WAITING
Yes, I’m waiting for the right time. After 2 weeks, 3 and 4
then 1 month. I wanted to give up with this chick now. I
told myself that I keep gaming and wait for the right time
if there will be.

Then after waiting for 2 months and probably, laying


more than 20 sets in that span. She chatted with me on
my Facebook account.

THE MESSAGE
It's already 2am and I just woke up and I can’t sleep
again. So we had a conversation. My mindset at that time
was she will not chat with me this time if she doesn’t want
something from me. So, I check her logistics like what
she was doing, what are the things she will do tomorrow
and if she still goes out at this time. YES! All of it is
positive. I knew that I would see her now but I will not pull
the trigger right away. I made a lot of push and pull so
that it will be her that wants to see me now and not the
other way around.
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THE CALL
After I built what I wanted in chat, I made sure that she
would call me. Calling will help you build solid comfort. I
did that to build it. To make the long story short, she
agreed to go to my place. Thanks to The Cure, I know
now how to do it. YES! But there is a challenge, I just laid
earlier so I’m sure I will not be able to lay her unless she’ll
do something crazy. But it’s fine, going to my place is a
major investment for her.

THE SEDUCTION
So she did go to my place. I didn’t imagine she would be
sexy, plus her clothes are too revealing which means she
wants to get laid. I just need a proper routine. Of course,
I lay her.

There’s a catch here, she did not just lay me but she also
massaged my whole body. I really like this set.

Learnings:
1. This is boring, right? But I must say that patience really
works.
2. Know how the girls think and you will understand them.
3. Follow the feedback that your coach or your master is
giving to you.
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CHAPTER 10
TEXTING

“I want to be the reason you look


down on your phone and smile.”
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RELATIONSHIP TEXTING
Relationship texting happens when you have slept with a
woman four or more times.

Well, even if you just slept with her once but you already
established that you are now in some agreement then
that is a relationship texting.

What happens here is that you won’t be doing the plans


anymore, it’s now her turn.

How are you going to do that? Remember how flipping


the script works?

In flipping the script, she's the one making it happen but


it’s actually you who really does. You motivated her
reaction and you’re the one who motivated her emotion.

What you're doing here actually is instead of escalating


physically, you're escalating her emotions in a physical
way to the sense that she physically escalates on you.

That’s what’s happening in relationship texting. The only


thing is that if she doesn’t initiate any plan, or doesn’t feel
like she’s making plans for the both of you, it’s time that
you do it. Just enough to get her hooked again and let
her be the one to do the planning once again.
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POINTLESS TEXTING

When you feel like talking but have generally nothing to


talk about, who comes into mind when this happens?

Your close friend.

Having pointless conversations with your close friend is


fun because you come up with jokes, which then
becomes a part of your memories and moments.

Sometimes, having a pointless conversation with a friend


can cheer you up from the bad mood or tiring mood
because the pointless conversation makes you smile and
laugh. That’s what friends are for right?

So, pointless conversations are for cheering up


ourselves or the other party. It’s simply just chatting
because we just want to talk either when in a really good
mood or in a bad mood.

Why am I telling you this? It’s because pointless


conversations are important conversations you should
also be having with the girl you want to go out with.

Pointless conversations are really important.


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When you are alone and don't have anything to do, you
can have a pointless conversation with the person you
want to go out with. Those pointless conversations in the
future will help you then remember those memories and
the fun you had.

Again, why is this important? It’s because it establishes


comfort in your relationship.

Comfort, basically to the girl, is her belief that you will


stick around. The more that you do this pointless
conversations with her, the more she’s going to think that
you are going to last and this will also help for an endless
possibilities of how to evolve and improve your
relationship with her.

SEXTING

Sexting is sending, receiving, or forwarding sexually


explicit messages, photographs to a person.

Sexting is actually most likely to occur within a committed


relationship or somewhere when the girl has finally
trusted you and is willing to take a step forward in your
relationship.
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Some research suggests that people often engage in


sexting after being coerced by romantic partners or to
avoid an argument with their romantic partner.

In another case, partners in romantic relationships sext


as a way to further their relationships and as means of
showing their trust in one another. They also use sexting
as a form of flirting and as an incentive to start a
relationship.

Sexting actually is the perfect foreplay. It’s a fun, flirty


way to stay connected with your partner. It keeps sex on
your brain all day and adds a little adventure, which
recreates that loving feeling from early in your
relationship.

Sexting is also a way of sexual expression needed in a


progressing relationship.

Now, you might be wondering, how do you sext? Here is


a guide on how to do sexting.

TIMING IS EVERYTHING

It’s best to be aware of what your partner’s doing


when you want to initiate. If they’re out to lunch with
the family, or having their weekly meeting with the
boss then it’s probably not the best time to roll out a
steamy sext.
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TAKE IT SLOW

Sexting is all about the build-up. Begin the


conversation with an opening that indicates you’re
ready to play without revealing too much. Sending a
selfie of your shorts or your torso, for example, with a
simple message of ‘Hey you’ can grab their attention
while making your intentions clear of what this thread
can become if the person is willing to answer back.

REMEMBER YOU’RE PLAYING A ROLE

When initiating sexting, you must remember that you


are in control and you are playing a role. Your role is
that of a playful partner who is horny and ready to get
into something freaky. Your words, photos, and voice
messages can all be used to paint a fantasy for your
partner and arouse them to the point of satisfaction.

DON’T STRAY TOO FAR OUT OF YOUR COMFORT


ZONE

Only do what you’re comfortable with. Sexting can be


as innocent as a ‘Can’t wait to love on you tonight’ or
as risqué as a nude selfie. Start with something that
makes you just a little uncomfortable but doesn’t
make the girl want to run and hide.
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DON’T BE AFRAID TO OPEN UP ABOUT YOUR


FANTASIES

It’s not always easy to talk to your partner about the


things you want to try in bed when they’re right in front
of you. Sexting is the perfect opportunity to put your
fantasies out there because there’s less pressure
when no one’s staring back at you.

IN THE DETAIL

The more specific you are in your sexy details, the


better you and your partner will be able to visualize
what you’re fantasizing about, and the easier it will be
to keep the conversation going.

Now, here are just a few of a more complicated and


specific way of how to text. Follow this as a start-up
and from there try and improve the experience with
the both of you.
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LR BY JRM (2018)
"I don't want to go to your place. We just
met 2 hours ago!”

So, what's going on brothers!? It's already 2020 so I hope


you started your year right, do something uncomfortable
every day and get out of your comfort zone! Make sure
you have goals. Here's my short advice to all of you guys,
learn and study pickup! Internalize every lesson. If you
will master this craft, I'm telling you honestly that your life
will improve holistically! Trust me!

So yeah, it's already lunch time and I just woke up from


our bootcamp last night. I'm done studying my verbal
pickup structure right now so I'm typing this story before
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we go to Cebu this coming week for Free Tour and


Sinulog. I'm so excited for this event!

INTRODUCTION

The hustle is real my friends! It was Tuesday and we're


scheduled to shoot infield videos. Our schedule for that
day was day game. Me and King decided to meet around
7 in the evening. So, I worked out early and prepared my
stuff. While I was on my way to the mall, I opened my
saved notes on my phone and read my verbal structure
so I'll be refreshed on what to say later.

I arrived early at the mall so I approached alone to warm


up and be in a talkative state while waiting for King. It's
really hard to approach alone but if you really want to
learn and improve, you are required to do this and have
a moment to sarge on your own.

Back 2013 when I started the art of dating and took my


1-on-1 bootcamp with Smooth, I remembered how
hungry I am to study and learn pickup, to go out and get
a lot of rejections, to invite my PUA forum friends to sarge
everyday and do push-ups or jumping jacks at the mall
haha! Shoutout to you mofos, you know who you are, I
will really treasure those training times!
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While I was walking at the mall, I saw an HB, she's hot


and tall. I followed the 3-second rule and used a direct
opener, she gave me indicators of interest while we're
walking together. I checked for her logistics, she's
meeting someone. Since my energy is still low, I just n-
closed her and ejected after. Not that solid so I'm sure
she'll flake. It's fine with me since my first goal is to be in
a talkative state.

I saw this cute girl. My Approach Anxiety is so strong that


time, I didn't follow the 3 second rule, I followed the 3
minute rule which I just made because of my strong AA
haha. Damn, I look like a stalker. I don't want this. I want
to turn around and find another one, but I told myself I'll
never see this girl again so I still approached her by first
tapping her shoulder. I used a direct opener again,
managed to hold the conversation for 10 minutes, got her
number and also her Facebook.

Not bad, but still not that solid. I ejected after because
King is texting and calling me so we can start with our
infield shooting.

Okay, I saw King and now we're walking. I saw a cute girl
wearing classy attire. She's wearing headphones, but
who cares I still want to approach her, I got her number
credits to Philip for his opener.
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THE APPROACH

We walked again, this is a day game so expect a lot of


walking activities. I saw a gorgeous girl. I love this mall
because it's full of classy girls. I can totally tell that this
girl is in a hurry because of her body language and she's
walking fast, but I still want to approach her so I opened
her directly. "Hey I saw you and I think you're kind
adorable. I wanna say hi!" then quickly gave her a False
Time Constraint because I know she's in a hurry. I always
use neg, disqualification, and push-pull lines to show that
I'm not that interested and to lower her value. If you want
to know more about those lines that I use, check out
Smooth Seduction ebook, it's a great reference book and
a good foundation for beginners.

After doing some push-pull routines, I locked in


immediately by leaning on a wall. She's giving me a lot of
Indicators of Interests (IOI), she's laughing, asking
questions about me. But I'm still giving her more and
more of my disqualification lines to build more solid
attraction. I checked for her logistics and found out that
she's from the US (based on her accent, it's kinda legit)
she's all alone and she's just there to watch a movie.
She's staying here in the Philippines to study. I checked
for her compliance level by doing high five and by quickly
touching her arms. Then I decided to move our
conversation and have an instant date so I told her that
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all cinemas are closed let's grab sundae at Mcdonald's. I


led by walking first, she followed me and compiled.

THE INSTANT DATE

After 10 minutes of conversation, we're now on the


qualifying stage. It's her time to invest and talk, so I asked
her genuine questions in order for me to convey that I'm
not there just for fun and not to be a dancing monkey. We
arrived at Mcdonald's, the line was too long so I said we
should sit first.

We're now entering the comfort phase, so I started to


escalate by doing cold reading by means of palm
reading, run qualifying routines, and at the same time still
doing push pull techniques for emotional spike purposes.
She's giving me a lot of IOIs, no signs of disinterest. I
don't want to order sundae ice cream because the line is
too long and it will take a lot of time for me to order and
she might be backward rationalized. We stayed there for
20 minutes.

I decided to move our conversation again, so I can build


more comfort. I led and asked her to go to the garden,
she complied again. Actually, I chose that place so I can
baby step easily when I move her to a different location
later.
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After a short walk, we arrived at the garden. The place is


nice because it's full of Christmas lights, dimmed
ambiance, and full of plants. I stopped and I told her that
we could talk there, I gave her an intense eye contact
and this time I ran routines like 27,000 days and made
her qualify more for investment purposes. After around
15 minutes of talk, she's asking me where are we going
next? Clearly this is a sign that she wants to move our
location so I just lead and asked her if she drinks lemon
juice because I know a place that caters great lemon
juice, she said she loves lemon. Another IOI.

THE BOUNCE

So right now we're walking outside the mall. My plan is to


babystep my pull so I keep on talking and talking while
we're waiting for a cab to avoid backward rationalization.
I told her jokes to make her laugh and make her feel more
comfortable. I also told her that it's just 2 minutes away
from the mall so no worries & I'll bring her back to the
mall if she wants to go home.

I'm still leading and while we're on the cab, I escalated


physically by holding her hand to test for her compliance
level. No resistance but I still make sure that I'm the one
to takeaway and remove the escalation first to build more
comfort.
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We arrived at the mall near my place, it's around 9:30 pm


so it's already closed. She's asking me where to go next,
I don't want to pull her immediately because I know that
she's not yet ready and I'm doing a solid game. So I told
her "Let's sit down first at Jollibee and grab extra large
fries." She told me that it's a little bit sketchy because
there's a SOGO Hotel on top of Jollibee and she also said
good thing there's a police station nearby. I quickly
calibrate by telling her "You're right I can easily run there
if you'll do something to me haha!"

I continuously talk to avoid a moment of silence and I'm


also seeding the pull by telling her that I have an
emergency dinner with friends and accidentally left my
ATM at home. I ordered fries and this time our
conversation was more personal and intimate. I'm telling
her stories about life, passion, adventures, etc. And
asking her things like "If it's okay to share personal things
to you?" and "I hope you won't judge me because I'm not
really comfortable opening up to a girl." She said it's fine.
I'm doing this to show vulnerability on my side and also
to spike her emotions.

After 20 minutes of conversation, I started to share some


sexual stories and at the same time I delivered it in a
funny way, I noticed that there's no resistance. Well, I
have to do this to know if she's already comfortable with
me, also to show a little bit of sexual intent, to test her
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compliance level, and because I'm planning to pull her in


my place.

THE PULL

During our conversation at Jollibee, I leaned back on my


chair to show that I'm relaxed and not tense, and
whenever I sensed that she's opening up I maintained
strong eye contact and at the same time I leaned in to
show that I'm interested to listen.

I have to move our conversation so I quickly told her that


I have to get my ATM at home before I meet my friends,
and she can come with me at our dinner so I can
introduce her to my friends.

She said "I don't want to go to your place, we just met 2


hours ago! I'll stay here in Jollibee!"

I said "Okay, you can stay here but there's a lot of bad
guys in this place, I don't want you to get hurt, so come
with me and just stay at the ground floor or at the rooftop.
You're not allowed to go inside my place because I'm not
sure about you yet."
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She complied. We rode a cab and during the cab I


repeatedly told her about not being judgmental and still
made her laugh with my jokes to spike her emotions.

While we're inside the cab, all of a sudden she told me


she's sleepy, in my mind I know that it's ON but I didn't
show her that I'm excited instead I said "We can book an
uber later at my place and you can go home before I go
to my friends."

Clearly, this is a sign that she wants to sleep at my place


and be with me for the rest of the night. She's just telling
me that line so she will have an excuse and because she
doesn't want to appear slutty or easy.

Now, you have to do your job which is to lead and don't


ever judge her and make her feel slutty.

THE ESCALATION

We arrived at my place after five minutes. It's really good


to know and study your logistics so you can easily baby
step every pull.

First rule when you pull a girl, make her comfortable with
your place first and don't show her immediately that you
want to have s*x with her.
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She asked me if she could come in, I said

"Yes you should, because visitors here are not allowed


to stand outside, and it looks creepy haha. Make sure
you keep your hands to yourself okay!"

She laughed and complied. Since I don't have a chair in


my place, she sat on my bed. I showed her that I'm
looking for my ATM and told her that I'm still waiting for
their message so we can just rest for a while.

I sat on the other side of my bed and told her "I'll sit this
far to you so your plans won't work on me and you can't
make any move." She laughed.

We talked and I held her hand while running my routines


like future projections & roleplay, conspiracy lines,
emotional spiking routines, and I shared life advice &
positivity. We teach these effective routines during our
bootcamp sessions.

She told me that it's really relaxing to talk to me and she


didn't notice that it's been only 2 hours since we met at
the mall (perks of being a PUA hehe). I continuously build
comfort and escalate physically. She told me she's
already sleepy, I told her you can sleep for 10 minutes
but I'll wake you up after. She asked me if I have a shirt
that she can borrow, I gave her a shirt and also gave her
shorts as a bonus haha.
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After changing clothes, I opened my computer and told


her that I want to watch a movie, I let her choose and she
complied. She said that Moana is her favorite movie, I
told her "OMG that's my favorite too, do you have psychic
powers or something?! Are you some kind of a jedi
master?" She laughed so hard (even though I haven't
watched Moana yet).

We're sitting next together and I have to do compliance


testing so I asked her to turn off the lights because my
eyes hurt, she complied. We're holding hands while
watching the movie, I do compliance testing by telling her
to hug me and massage my hand.

No resistance, so I continued with my escalation. I


smelled her hair, smelled her neck, I told her I'm also
sleepy so we lay on the bed, I stared at her eyes and told
her "I'm trying so hard not to kiss you right now." I kissed
her for 5 seconds, no resistance but I'm still the first one
to release the kiss. I looked at the monitor, pretending
that I'm watching then I kissed her again.

This time was more intense and with passion, I kissed


her neck, touched her body. She asked me if it's okay to
go to the comfort room.

I said it's okay. Since I gamed her solid, I'm not worried if
she’ll lose the Buying Temperature because I know she's
already comfortable with me and it's still early,
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I still have the rest of the night if ever she gives me Last
Minute Resistance.

THE LAY

After using the comfort room, I escalate again. I know


she's already turned on because her body temperature
is warm. She removed her bra, I sucked her watermelon
and she likes it. Next, I removed her shirt and I touched
her Moana. She moans. Damn, she's already wet! I put
my 2 fingers inside her, she moans more! She removed
my boxers and grabbed my banana, she asked me if I
have a condom, I said I have one. And the rest is history.

AFTERMATH

We hugged tight after we had s*x. We fell asleep


because we're both tired. We did it again around 6 in the
morning, she's so sexy and wild. My neighbor can hear
what we're doing, so I covered her face with a pillow
haha. Great breakfast!

After our magical moment, we talked about life, about her


wildest experiences, how she's thankful to meet me, that
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she enjoyed our moment, and how she's so comfortable


with my presence.
She still can't believe that we just met and how it all
happened very fast.

I build more comfort to make the game more solid. We


slept again and woke up around 10 in the morning. I said
I have to go because I have a meeting with Smooth and
the Inner Circle.

We booked an Uber, we will go the same way so we


booked one car. I almost forgot to get her number, so
before we parted ways I n-closed her inside the car,
hugged and kissed each other and had a very productive
meeting at PUA office.
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CHAPTER 11
MEET UP
“Meeting you is my favorite accident.”
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LEAD HER

Before we start discussing this, I’m going to give you a


scenario.

Imagine you’re going on a date with a girl. Let’s say, a


girl who’s pretty much just a simple one but very
attractive. She’s not used to a rich life and she’s not
someone who values money that much.

After going on dates and dates with her, you wanted to


suddenly surprise her. What you did was ask her to wear
something formal and you told her that you would pick
her up.

Imagine this, she goes out and she sees you waiting in a
limousine. You came in front of her door in a limo. You’re
not someone who is that rich but you actually had the
decency to rent a limo just to impress her. As you get up
to her, you can clearly see her wide eyes and her broad
smile lights up her face. It seems like she cannot contain
her thrill and excitement. While you, by contrast, displays
only the slightest smirk of satisfaction in her delight with
what you just did.

Movies and television shows are replete with this gender


dichotomy in emotional expressiveness, with strong men
who say little and reveal even less with their facial
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expressions (think Dirty Harry, the Duke, Agent Gibbs,


Walt Longmire), and equally strong but very expressive
women who wear their hearts on their sleeves (think
Scarlet O’Hara, Ellen Ripley, Erin Brockovich, Bridget
Jones).

Notice in this Hollywood stereotype that women are often


ruled with their emotions. Now, try to think, is it really just
a stereotype? No, it’s not. This is actually true.

Without knowing these films and just by speaking to a lot


of women, the biggest lesson you're going to learn is that
women communicate emotionally whereas men tend to
communicate a lot more logically.

When men are talking it is very different from the way that
women would address that conversation.

Imagine two men were having a conversation about a


movie or a film I know nothing about. I would most likely
know the plot, conversations, and the characterizations.
They might have disputed fine points of what they saw or
heard in the film.

Now, imagine two women having a conversation. I’m


telling you, you will only hear their thoughts about how
they felt watching the film.

Notice the difference on how men and women think.


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Women communicate in terms of their emotional journey


much more so than with facts.

If you want to communicate with women, your job is to


take them on an emotional journey. This is why we talked
about building plot lines, drama, and those kinds of
things. It's also why things like storytelling are massively
powerful.

If you just tell a woman a laundry list of facts, then it’s not
going to do much for her.

If you tell a girl a good story that captures her emotions,


where she can put herself into one of the characters, and
imagine herself going through that experience, she's
going to experience that and relate with that. It is really
going to capture her imagination and attention.

When you're talking to a girl, you want her to have a


particular experience with you. Whatever the experience
is, may it be experiencing positive emotions or having
drama, thinking about things like love, sex or stories,
make sure you target her thoughts emotionally.

This will certainly give you better results at your game.


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WHAT NOT TO SAY

When trying to win a woman over, we have pointed out


over and over again that it is best to persuade her
emotionally.

The thing is, women should be persuaded emotionally


but in order to be more successful, it is best to deal with
it with a little bit of logic.

Certain ideas and certain words will be what I call “Red


Flags” for girls.

The term “Red Flag” could mean either a literal flag used
for signaling, as a metaphor, or a sign of some particular
problem requiring attention.

A good definition for a red flag is any behavior that is


indicative that your partner is trying, or may try, to gain
power and control in the relationship. There can be plenty
of behaviors that do not rise to the level of a red flag.

There will be things that will kind of throw her out of the
emotional state. You should start considering the logical
consequences and you want to be very careful about
that.
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Red flags are often obvious. You shouldn’t give her an


idea that you are verbally abusive or physically
aggressive or she will blow you off immediately.

I’ll discuss commonly encountered red flags that might


help you to think twice on your actions and tactics before
pursuing or continuing a questionable romantic
relationship.

YOU DON’T DO ANY WORK

Relationships are two-sided. While it’s wonderful that a


woman can approach and ask a man for a date, this
shouldn’t always be the case. You should also be
investing in taking actions on her.

Try and plan things. Show more interest in making


reservations, getting creative with activities. The
investment factor seamlessly leads to an even more
important type of initiative.
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EMOTIONAL INVESTMENT

She asks you an iteration of relationship check-up


questions and you’re either unsure, needs more time, or
tables the topic entirely.

It’s completely fair for a woman to ask you if you see long-
term potential in the relationship, your view on
commitment and marriage, and other “big picture”
questions. Plot lines are very effective when maintaining
a relationship but there is a limit to it.

APOLOGY

Apologies are tricky. At their most basic level, they


involve setting your ego aside. Apologies aren’t actually
about who is right and who is wrong. It’s about
acknowledging your partner’s feelings and validating
them.

While fake remorse and sorrow aren’t at all useful,


neither is a staunch refusal to accept you might have
stepped on one’s toes.
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The truth: A simple apology is easy. “I’m sorry if I hurt


your feelings. That was not my intention.” It can end right
there. But will she let it?

We have reiterated over and over again how women are


emotionally driven which is why an apology for every
conflict will very much be appreciated by your partner.

MYSTERIOUS

In the dance of dating, the process of getting to know


someone occurs over time. However, in this age of
technological connectivity, it can be easy to get to know
a person at turbo speed.

Dozens of text messages can be exchanged within a day


expressing everything from the mundane, “I’m having
pizza for lunch,” to the extremely personal, “I’m scared of
ending up alone.”

There’s nothing wrong with being private at certain times


but make sure you involve your woman on other
occasions.

Not involving her would make her feel left out and she will
be the one doing the escalations on you but remember,
it also has a limit. Being private can be a good thing in
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little amounts but when too much, you can lose your
progress with your partner.

These are just very few of the red flags that women
consider. To be honest there are a lot of red flags women
notice and this is just the tip of the iceberg.

Red flags can also be varying to women. For some


women, they are fine with it and some are not.

Make sure to observe your partner carefully in order to


assess if these red flags are applicable to her.

DON’T FIGHT OVER TEXT

Texting is the easiest way to be in touch with someone.

But once you settle into a relationship, or at least get a


few dates in, texting just becomes easier. It's great to be
communicative, but there’s something I need to remind
you.

It’s bad to fight over text.

It won’t do any good in your relationship.

Why is that?
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When you fight over text you can’t really see the person
or even hear their voice. When fighting over text, you
assume the worst and your imagination goes out of
control.

It might be hard to avoid though, considering that it's


likely you share most things with your partner via text:
Good news, bad news, and a photo of things that don’t
even matter.

As efficient and snappy as texting can be, not all


conversations are best had over text.

Real, true, triggering arguments are best had face-to-


face with your partner, where you can note your partner's
body language and energy, while also expressing yours.

You need to be cautious that some of these things can


get lost in translation over text messages. Words can be
misconstrued and confusion can arise.

Texting in the heat of the moment can result in shooting


off hurtful comments you don’t really mean, and perhaps
would never say face-to-face, but can’t erase.

Now, as I said it is bad to fight over text.


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Words spoken in person with non-verbal cues like facial


expressions can be interpreted in a completely different
way over text.

Now, how do you counter such a thing? Finish the


conversation right there and then. Tell her that you’re
busy and you’re just going to call her later.

Or for a better way of handling this tell her that you’re


going to call so you can hear her voice. You now have an
expressional clue which will then help you clear out
whatever it is you fought about easily.

TIME BOUNDARIES

To start, what are boundaries?

In order to know when to set a boundary, you have to


understand what a boundary is.

A boundary is a line of respect.

It's a certain limitation that you put on certain behaviors


that are unpleasant or unwanted.

It's a way to verbally and nonverbally communicate how


you want to be treated.
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You know when someone does or says something that


upsets you.

That might be the perfect time to think about whether or


not establishing a boundary with them will prevent this
from happening again.

It’s important to know that boundaries are important in


every relationship.

I have a girl who used to send me blocks of texts


relentlessly about the most boring things throughout the
workday.

I often didn’t have the time or energy to reply thoughtfully,


nor did I have the heart to tell her that I found her
messages annoying and distracting.

Instead, I tried to reply to her a few times a week in detail


so that she wouldn’t think I was ignoring her, but
sparingly enough so that she would get the hint.

This is a good example of a time when I could have—


should have—implemented a boundary.

Instead, I regrettably kept this up until she got a full-time


job and couldn’t keep up with it herself.
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Now imagine if you are in a relationship with a girl like


that, then it would be one hell of a problem.

Boundaries make it easier to show each other respect.


You know where the lines are. You don’t have to worry
and wonder about doing too much. Or too little.

HUMOR & PERSONALIZATION

First impressions have the ability to make or break a


relationship, and a positive experience can create a long-
lasting one.

First impression matters – especially when it comes to a


first date. Doing the right things on a first date sets you
up to have amazing experiences with that woman. But if
you mess that first date up, there’s a good chance you
won’t even get to see her again and that is the
importance of first impressions.

The next critical factor when sending the first message is


to make the girl remember the interaction you had.

Now when trying to make her remember your interaction,


you have to make sure first that you impressed her
greatly.
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Make sure that your first interaction, or even


conversation, is taken to a more personal aspect. You
can then make it that you had a genuinely unique and
positive interaction with this particular girl.

Now, what should the girl remember from your first


interaction in order to get her to respond to your text
positively?

Here are the following ways you can make your first
interaction better for a favorable text response from her
after.

START OFF CONFIDENT AND


FRIENDLY

First interactions can have a lot of tension especially


early on. So, an important thing to do is to relieve that
tension and get things rolling on a positive note. How
can you do that? By doing these two things:

First, be sure to project confidence when meeting the


woman.

Let your muscles relax and avoid releasing energy


through fidgeting or any other unnecessary and
uncontrolled movements. By projecting that warm and
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friendly confidence, you are going to help her relax,


excited, and even give you her number which will be then
the time you give her your first text message.

MAKE YOUR INTERACTION


INTERESTING

As for the actual activities and things you do when first


meeting a woman, look to make the experience fun and
unique.

When you meet a woman at a bar, you can make sure


you had an interaction with her at the pool, darts, or even
karaoke.

When you meet her in a dinner, where you both may feel
pressured to think up interesting conversations the whole
time, invite her over and cook dinner together (through
text if you even established that when you first met her).

Shared activities like these can take a lot of the pressure


off of the conversation and give you something to talk
about more when you both started texting.
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KEEP STRONG EYE CONTACT

One of the best things you can do throughout the day is


make strong eye contact. Through eye contact alone you
can create a deep connection with the woman you met.

This is especially important in those moments when


things go quiet. If an awkward silence comes, or you are
not sure what to say or do, don’t dart your eyes around
like looking for help.

Let yourself relax by taking deep breaths into your belly,


and maintain strong eye contact.

Moments like these will create more powerful


connections and do more to build attraction than filling
the space with idle chatter.

TAKE CHARGE

If you want the girl you met, to make her relax, enjoy
herself, and make yourself memorable (in order for her
to remember she had a great time with you when you text
first), then it is important for you to take charge.
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Don’t put it on her to figure out what to do on the first


interaction, where to go, how long it will take, etc. And
certainly don’t wait for her to “make a move” and take
things to the next level (she might, but often she’ll want
you to do it).

You want to take charge and be the leader throughout.


You want to put yourself in the driver’s seat when it
comes to planning what to do and taking things to the
next level. Trust me, she wants that too.

Because if she knows you have all the logistics just on


the first meeting covered – if she knows you can step up
and go for the kiss when the time comes – then she
doesn’t have to worry about any of those things. She can
simply relax and enjoy herself.

Now you understand the importance of first interactions


for it is something that will make a woman remember you
when you decide to move your game from personal to
text.

BE REAL

Two objects are congruent if they have the same


dimensions and shape. Very loosely, you can think of it
as 'equal', but it has a very precise meaning that you
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should understand completely, especially for complex


shapes such as polygons.

Now, what we are going to do here is grab the


congruence concept and apply it to actions and thoughts
of a man in game.

The first reason about having integrity in the game is


essentially you're a human being.

This cognitive dissonance that I talked about is that girls


have this identity and they have an action outside of that
identity and then they have to justify. They have to
change their identity to meet the action. Then there’s this
internal conflict.

If you are actually what you present, if you actually do


have integrity and are trustworthy and you want to
provide the best possible experience for the girls you are
with, then that's going to come through.

When you say something along the lines of “you can trust
me, we're going to go over here” or your actual intention
is to give the girl a great experience to make her have fun
and not do anything bad by her, then you're going to
come off as congruent and trustworthy.

If you legitimately are being truthful ideally, literally, and


not in every single moment, but truthful in terms of your
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intention and objective of making things good for her and


truthful in terms of the objective of leaving her better than
when you found her, then you're going to come across
much more congruent and that is going to make you less
hesitant.

Your actions will then have more conviction, your actions


will have better execution, and you will have better clarity
of mind.

All that is going to indirectly affect your game and your


actions.

In that context, having integrity is going to make you put


things out in a more believable, more natural way and a
more charismatic way than when you lacked integrity and
had internal conflicts.

THE RIGHT AMOUNT OF


ENTITLEMENT

Entitled attitudes appear to be linked to sexism even


among men and women, according to a personality study
by psychologists. In general, entitled men are more likely
to endorse hostile views of women and entitled women
are more likely to endorse views of women as frail and
needing extra care. The attitudes observed by men have
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been linked by past research as predictors of violence


toward women. Conversely, the attitudes observed by
women have been linked to reduction of advancement in
education and jobs.

But, that’s not what we’re going to talk about. We’re going
to look at when men are entitled and when they’re not.

How do you identify an entitled man?

Entitled men often show the following characteristics:

• Acting like ‘master of the castle’


• Treating women like servants who should meet
demands to serve and pamper
• Having an attitude of superiority, of being better
and smarter than one’s partner and other women
in general
• Insisting on respect or treatment entitled to as a
man
• Wanting women to adhere to rigid behavioral
codes, believing that the way women dress
‘causes men to stumble’
• Making big decisions without consulting others
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• Believing men are better decision makers


• Stating opinions as irrefutable truisms
• Dismissing the opinions, ideas, and feedback of
others
• Acting above criticism
• Possessing a strong need to be right and to win
• Claiming ownership and exclusive control of
communal or joint items
• Taking from others but never giving back
• Demanding absolute compliance without
complaint
• Expecting sex from their spouse as a duty or a
demand.

This is too much entitlement and this would reduce your


chance of getting good results in the game.

When a man isn’t entitled, he isn’t guaranteed a good


result but he has a better chance at winning a girl over.

An unentitled man is just the very opposite of an entitled


man.
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Here are some of his characteristics:

• Treating women considerately


• Having no attitude of superiority, of being better
and smarter than one’s partner and other women
in general. He’s a neutral man.
• Respects people instead of insisting it from others
• Wanting women to adhere to their own behavioral
codes without judging them
• Making big decisions while consulting others
• Believing men and women have an equal chance
of being better decision makers
• Stating opinions but is open to criticisms
• Possessing no strong need to be right and to win
but is just in things
• Does not expecting sex unless it is consensual

Entitlement is not a bad thing unless it is just the right


amount. You can never be too entitled and too unentitled.

Here’s what you need to know if you’re just the right


amount entitled in your relationship.

Entitlement equals time.


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The more time you date and spend time with a girl, the
more reasonable your entitlements would do.
It is weird to be entitled on the first day. It’s like you’re
asking her to drop all of her priorities with a man she just
met. That won’t get you good results.

It takes time for you to be considered entitled in a


reasonable way. Other entitlement that is not reasonable
can even be considered a threat to a woman’s
perspective. She can view you as a jerk who just wants
to get in her pants and that would ruin your game for you.

Again, be considerate of the time you spent before


considering to be entitled in your relationship.

HONESTY

As we all know, honesty is when you speak the truth and


act truthfully.

Honesty is not just about telling the truth. It's about being
real with yourself and others about who you are, what
you want and what you need to live your most authentic
life. Honesty promotes openness, empowers us, and
enables us to develop consistency in how we present the
facts.
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The second reason that integrity is very critical is


because women are incredibly intuitive.

If you are lying to them and you know it, there may be a
little change in your facial expression, your timing, your
rhythm and those kinds of things.

To fully understand this, I’ll give you a scenario.

If you say something and you stare a little too long or


you’re trying a little too hard for it to come across to be
true, then a girl might pick up a vibe that it's untruthful.
She will probably think that there’s something that is a
little weird. Now that is going to hurt you.

Girls are very good at reading your expressions, your


micro expressions, your tone of voice, those kinds of
things.

If on any level you're lying or you're incongruent, then it


is very likely that they will pick that up. The fact that they
distrusted you will hurt you far more than whatever lie you
told her that you think will help you.

Getting caught in a lie is one of the single worst things


that can happen to you in a game, okay?
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You need that base level of trust for the girl to do anything
with you. If 9 out of 10 interactions you’re honest and your
one little white lie helps you. But then one time you got
caught. That would be 100 times worse for getting caught
than the 9 honest things you did.

Lying just isn't worth the risk and even if you are pretty
good at it, you don't get caught that often, the little
chances you get caught, the little micro expressions that
set the girls off, they always take note and remember of
the downside risk which is so much bigger than the
upside reward.

It's just not worth it.

Honestly, it's not that hard if the girl likes you, wants to
sleep with you, wants you to solve the objective, and if
she's helping you solve the objective. Especially if you've
done the little inception thing and got her chasing and got
her escalating on you, then she wants it to happen.

You don't have to be so crazy and manipulative.

You can just be upfront, take your time, be patient, be a


little more honest with her and you're going to get the
result.
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INDICATORS FOR PULL

It has been made clear that women tend to say things but
mean another thing, which is why I have been very
indicative of observing the woman you want to attract.

Now, the ultimate manifestation of this phenomenon “she


says one thing and means another thing” that I have
noticed, I’ll be calling the “she will tell you how to sleep
with her”.

I’ll be giving an example to further support this


phenomenon.

This is an extreme scenario and this happened to a friend


of mine where he's trying to take a girl home. The woman
kept saying no and that she won’t go with him BUT she
suddenly told him he needs to kiss her in the neck more.

She literally told him “Kiss me on the neck more” and it’s
like she’s saying to get her more turned on and then she's
going to go home with him afterwards.

That's crazy and it’s kind of an extreme because she


helped him so much.
Take note, women usually won't help you that much but
you have to understand that women are constantly
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helping you in their little ways even when it seems like


they're rejecting you.

Another example is this.

You’re talking to a girl and you’re kind of touching her a


little bit and then suddenly she says “Hey you're very
touchy feely.”

How would you respond to that?

A lot of guys would take that as a rejection and they take


that as “I better not get physical with her she's not
comfortable with it” and they would be right in the short
term.

Understand this. If you're getting too physical with her,


rather than leaving, she says, “Hey you're a little physical
with me”, but she stays and talks to you and enjoys it,
then she definitely means another thing.

What she's actually saying is “I would like for this to go


well and I would like for us to get to know each other a
lot better, but how you touch me is making me
uncomfortable and that’s hurting your chances of that
ever happening. So I would prefer it if you didn't touch
me so that we would have a future together”. That’s a
way to take what she just said to you.
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Another one which usually happens is that there are a lot


of times where you go in for a kiss and she would be like
“No, not in front of my friends”. What’s happening here is
that she understands that if you continue to touch her,
then her friends are going to take her away, but she likes
you and doesn't want that to happen.

On the other hand, taking what she said literally is saying


it’s a rejection, but what she’s really telling me is that “I
really like you and I don't want you to mess this up for us.
So, solve the problem with my friends and chill out on the
kissing.” That’s also another way of telling what she really
meant.

We have some idea of how to solve the obstacles in front


of us with women. What women are doing is giving you
subtle hints as to how you should be communicating. She
is telling you how to sleep with her but you need to listen.

Again, observe her really well. Observe her body


language in order to come up with a preferable action
that would sweep her off her feet.

REPUTATION

Your reputation is the general belief or opinion that other


people have about you. If you are considered trustworthy
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and kind, you have a good reputation. Reputation comes


from the Latin word reputation, which means
"consideration." It's how people consider, or label, you —
good or bad.

Reputation determines the social standing of a person in


the society. Reputation is also important for business
organizations. A well reputed company definitely enjoys
a competitive advantage over other companies. It
ensures that the customers and clients stay loyal to the
company.

Now, the final reason why integrity is to be very much


critical for your game is this:

In terms of a short term game, you manipulate and lie


and get some results.

The problem is this.

Once you start having social alliances where you just


have groups of friends and social circles, then you did
something wrong with a person in your circle, it will
greatly affect your image to the whole social circle.

Women responded so much socially and to social proof.


So much to other people vouching for you, so killing your
social circle is truly not worth it.
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The thing they say about reputation is this- it takes a


lifetime to build a good reputation and it’s just one second
to destroy it.

The point is you need to have an abundant ecosystem if


you want to build social circles and social alliances, in
which you can get truly amazing results with girls and
where you’re getting girls brought to your door so that
you can continue to get girls until you’re in your sixties.

One wrong thing that you’re going to do could destroy


years of ecosystem work.

The risk is just not worth the reward. It's better to act with
integrity and create win/win solutions where people want
to help you, allow you to grow, and build or introduce you
to people.
It's going to be much more rewarding in the long term.

Be a little patient and have some integrity. I promise you


it's going to pay off.
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FLIPPING THE SWITCH


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A STRIPPER GAME
BY JRM (2017)

Happy Holidays everyone! How's your game doing? I just


finished my last session a while ago and I tried the new
Japan technique that Smooth taught us the other day. It's
super effective, my girl was super happy because it's her
first time to squirt hehe.

Anyways, while I'm typing this story, I just realized that


it's been 6 months since I started my pickup journey
again, and it's really an honor to be mentored personally
by Smooth (one of the best MPUA) and to hangout and
game with the Inner Circle (Jack, King, Jarod, & Vince).
Deciding to take a 1-on-1 bootcamp with Smooth 4 years
ago was one of the best decisions I ever made in my life!
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Hmm, I'm actually thinking what report should I share,


and I chose this report since this is a great set full of
learning experience and it's a chance for me to share
some value on how to pick up a Hired Gun without
paying. Annnnd, since it's holiday season here's my gift
to you guys. I also attached some of my chat and text
games here in my post so you can have an idea on how
I gamed this girl through chat and text. Enjoy!

But first I'll define what Hired Gun is, well basically it's an
HB (Hot Babe) who was hired to work at a venue
because of her beauty, often in restaurants, bars, and
other direct service-oriented locations. Hired Guns can
range from waitresses, to strippers, to sales girls at the
mall stores, who are hired specifically for their beauty.

THE FIRST APPROACH

So, our first encounter happened months ago. It's around


4am, me and my PUA friend just finished sarging so
we're both hungry. We have no set and no pull, so yeah
it's a shitty night haha. I asked my friend to go to a
specific place around Quezon City where there's a lot of
HG (Hired Guns) eating after their work. We arrived at
the place, I'm already tired so we just enjoyed the food
and talked about how our game was going.
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After an hour, we decided to go home because it's


already 6 in the morning. While we're waiting for a cab, I
saw this one girl walking outside. I already know she's a
Hired Gun and she's working in a club because of her
vibe, her style, and, yeah, she got my attention because
she's hot and sexy. I told my friend to wait for me.

I opened her with a direct approach because I noticed


she's in a hurry so no time to do indirect or opinion
opener. Since she's working in a club, I gave her a lot of
negs and disqualifying lines because I know she has a
lot of providers, orbiters, and guys always hit and
compliment her with her beauty.

And there you go, I'm already talking to her, I locked in, I
see a lot of Indicators of Interest(IOIs). Man, she's really
hot! Her body is 9, her face is 8.5 (plus .5 because she
smells good and she's wearing glasses that time and
that's one of my fetishes.) But still I must remain assertive
and must not show too much interest or some kind of a
f*ckboy vibe because Hired Guns can easily detect your
intent and they really know how to game guys.

(TIP: When gaming Hired Guns, never ever ask for their
work or bring up anything about their career because
they will feel judged.)

After 15 minutes of conversation, I N-closed her, gave


her a hug and we parted ways.
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THE PHONE GAME


I texted her immediately after our interaction, she replied
and I know there's attraction because she's asking me
about personal things and my vibe that time was great. I
playfully tease her and she's complying. You can check
attached photos to see some of my phone game with her.

THE SECOND APPROACH

I scheduled for day 2 on our third day of texting but she's


so busy with her work. Then on our 4th day of texting,
she texted me around 3am that she's done with her work
and they will party in QC with her friends.

(NOTE: If you're gaming a HG, be prepared to receive


text messages and invites around 2-5am because this
will be their out of work.)

Good thing I'm gaming around QC that time, so I decided


to meet her because if I won't go, I'm sure that I'll lose
this set because her buying temp and attraction to me will
be gone.

I don't have a wingman that time, so yeah, I have to go


there alone.
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I arrived at the club, I told her to meet me outside for


compliance testing, and she complied.

I saw her friends. 5 of them. 4 girls and 1 guy. First things


first, engage with her friends and disarm them. So when
I arrived, I approached her friends and had a fun
conversation with them. Since I don't have a wingman
that time, I need to disarm them all so I can isolate my
set later with no problem.

After engaging with her friends, I got back to my set


immediately and started with building attraction again.
Since she's not in a hurry, I have a lot of time to run my
DHV materials and routines. She's giving me IOIs, I
started to escalate physically to raise her buying
temperature with matching laser eye contact. Asked her
to hug me, she complied. We're now holding hands to set
a man to woman interaction / bf & gf connection. No signs
of disinterests so I continued with the escalation part. I
also screened for her logistics, so I'll know if I can pull her
later or not. I found out she'll sleep at her friend's condo,
so there's a chance that I might pull her.

After 45 minutes of attraction and comfort building, I tried


to isolate my set outside the club. She complied, and
while we're outside I continued with comfort building and
with the escalation, this time it's moderate touch.
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We all enjoyed the vibe and conversation that night with


her friends while I'm still conveying alpha male qualities.

After an hour, I tried to isolate again to try if I can pull her


now. She told me she can't because they will still drink
and eat breakfast after.

They will leave the club around 7am. I persisted but still
she said "she can't" so we got back inside, I said I'm
already sleepy and if she doesn't wanna come with me
I'll go home instead. She said some other time because
she'll stay, so I decided to go home because I'm really
sleepy. Before I leave, I kiss closed her for 5 seconds,
she kissed back then we said goodbye.

THE RE-OPEN

After our last approach, we never had the chance to meet


and had a conversation again because we're both busy
and the windows of escalation were gone. So one night,
while I was checking my contacts I decided to chat with
her on Facebook to test if there's still attraction and I'm
kinda bored & horny and I wanna get laid that night.

Well, I still have her number, I just asked for it so that it


will appear that I don't really prioritize her and our past
meetup. If you wanna learn more about online gaming I
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THE THIRD APPROACH

We decided to meet in a mall near our place to have


dinner, she arrived there early and of course I was late
for 30 minutes to make her invest more. I saw her, she's
still hot. I wanna lay her so bad that night!! But I must not
show any signs of neediness or excitement so I won't
mess up our date. I gave her a quick hug then
immediately did push-pull tactics to lower her value. Girls
are very conscious when it comes to their beauty and
body, so I told her she gained a little bit of weight but it's
fine because I love to pinch cheeks and baby fats haha.

Like in my previous dates, I'm still the one who's leading


and I also decided where to eat. While we're looking for
a place to eat she said that I should treat her, I told her
"Wow ha, you're so fast! Are you my girlfriend?" Then I
laughed and continued walking.

While we're eating I noticed that she always use her


phone to chat, check her Facebook, and text. So, this is
a sign of disinterest, I remained unreactive, continued
eating and I told her that after we eat I have to meet with
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my friends, this is a False-Time Constraint. And after that


she told me she'll also leave and meet her friends.

After we ate, we walked around and told her to check for


good movies to watch in the cinema. I just did this to
prolong the time so I can still build more comfort and
probably pull her after. While looking for a good movie,
out of nowhere she hugged me and said that I should
treat her. This time I told her "Next time...if you'll be a
good girl" hahaha!

Basically, what's happening with our third encounter is


what we call "Frame Game". She's testing my frame, girls
love to test your frame to know how alpha you are. They
will always test you. Hired Guns are really good with this
kind of game. Good thing I'm aware of that and Smooth
taught me how to handle this kind of situation during my
1-on-1 bootcamp days with him.

THE PULL

After we looked for a movie, we sat down in a cafe so I


can still build more comfort and intimacy then go for the
pull. I really want to pull her, I'll do whatever it takes!
She's still texting (man, this girl really loves her phone)
Good thing her friends are not responding. I also saw her
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text to one of her friends and she said "This guy has no
money, I'm pissed off!" hahaha.

I told her I'm still waiting for my friend's text, we can chill
at my place first then leave after 30 minutes. I even told
her that I downloaded a lot of new movies so it's better to
watch at my place than in the mall. Then I quickly told her
“But make sure you're harmless first okay?”

She resisted my first pull attempt, I remained unreactive


then after how many minutes she told me "Do you have
good movies in your place?" So, we walked outside the
mall then rode a cab straight to my place.

THE ESCALATION
We arrived at my place, I remained unreactive and
unneedy to make her feel more comfortable with the
place. I opened my computer and played the Magic Mike
movie, since I know she's a hired gun. She can relate
with that movie and she'll definitely like it. While watching,
I pause the movie to run my routines, then unpause after
delivering it haha so I can still practice my storytelling and
my delivery. Simultaneously, I escalated physically by
massaging her hand first and asked her to massage my
hand after. She complied.
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I noticed that her buying temperature is rising because


she's not using her phone anymore to chat, call, or text
and it's inside her bag now. So, I'm on the right path. I
told her that I'm a frustrated massage therapist in my past
life so I asked her if she wants to experience my
irresistible massage. She said yes, well I don't really care
what's her answer because I will still massage her to
escalate.

While she's lying on the bed, I gave her a back massage.


Her skin is so soft and smooth, I touched her butt and
asked if it's real, she laughed and said it's real. I did this
to check if there will be any resistance.

No resistance so I continued to massage her in her back,


butt, and head.

After 5 minutes of massage, I smelled her hair and


whispered passionately "I love...the smell....of
your....hair" then tried to kiss her neck. Still no resistance,
but after 5 seconds, I immediately took away then
continued to massage her. I noticed that her body is
getting warmer so I know that her buying temperature is
rising.

I massaged her back again then this time I undo her bra.
I kissed her neck again, touched her two watermelons
and whispered to her ear. "Ma'am, our massage therapy
is done, do you want an extra service?
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THE LAY

After escalating, I removed her shirt and also mine. I


touched her flower and she's already wet. I'm already
hard because her body is soooo freakin 'hot. I removed
her undies and pointed my tiny and hard banana to her
mouth, she devoured gracefully and with no resistance!

She's so good omg, I'm about to pop but I said stop!!

She grabbed my head then aggressively told me to eat


her. I told her to wash her flower first. After washing, we
did 69, reverse cowgirl, etc. She's so great in bed, I'm just
lying and she did all the work. What a relaxing moment
lol. I told her we should do doggy because that's my
super favorite position.

She's so sexy, I can see the curve, I slapped her ass so


many times then I'm done after how many minutes. She's
now wearing her clothes, I escalate and we did it again,
but this time more intense.

This is one of the perks of being a PUA and why I love


gaming Hired Guns, they'll give you a 10/10 great f*ck
(even without paying)
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AFTERMATH
The movie ended right after we're done f*cking. It's
around 1am, she told me she has to leave because her
friends are waiting for her. I told her it's okay. I'll give her
a copy of all my movies next time.

She booked a grab, she said "thanks for your time" we


kissed and hugged each other then we parted ways.
After how many minutes she texted me that I should get
some rest because she knows I'm tired.

Ahhhhhh I love my life!


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CHAPTER 12
STRUCTURE OF THE GAME
“Learn the rules like a pro,
so you can break them like an artist.”
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ATTRACTION PHASE

LANGUAGING
Women are experts at reading your body’s unconscious
signals. It is the closest thing to telepathic communication
there is, and yet most of us guys are oblivious to it.

It is a tricky business because you have to not only focus


on how you communicate these signals, but also
interpret hers. This is one of the first things you need to
work on.

NON- VERBAL
COMMUNICATION
When approaching women, always approach over the
shoulder. Don’t approach face to face, don’t give too
much value because you might creep her out.

Body language is one of the most important ways to


communicate to a girl, show confidence and generate
attraction. Good body language will make women want
to talk to you, attracted to you and more comfortable with
you.
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If you watch military training, it starts with chest. The best


way to start thinking about it is just to raise your chest.
Stand tall, with your feet a comfortable distance apart,
and lift your chest. Notice how this changes your whole
body’s alignment. Lifting your chest is the easiest, single-
step body language improvement you can make.

Another common problem is what’s called the “head


forward” posture. I used to have big problems with this
but I’ve been going out and studying the art of dating for
quite some time. I internalise every body language out
there. Trust me, this changes everything.

A lot of people struggle with what to do with their hands.


The first rule of dealing with your hands is simple: never,
ever cross your arms in front of your chest. Crossing your
arms is the biggest no-no, however, as it makes you
seem much less friendly and approachable.

Fidgeting is bad, too. If you struggle with what to do with


your hands, simply put your thumb in your back pocket.
Of course, you could also use your hands to kino or touch
whatever girl you’re talking to.

If you go out in the club many, guys go wrong in how they


hold their drink. They protect their drink by holding it out
away from their body, with their whole wrist bent around
it like a buffer, to guard it from being bumped or spilled in
a crowded club.
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This is horrible body language, as it sub communicates


a tremendous amount of defensiveness. Instead, hold
your cup loosely, from above, and let your hand holding
it dangle naturally by your side.

When talking to a girl:

First, lean back slightly. A lot of guys get excited when


they’re talking to a hot girl and lean in. This is weak as it
communicates too much interest.

Lean back. Let her lean in. If you’re in a loud club where
you can’t hear each other, you may feel like you need to
speak directly into her ear for her to hear you. This is fine,
but get her to lean forward and place her ear next to your
mouth. (As an added bonus, this position facilitates a lot
of casual kino – you can put your hand on her hip or the
small of her back easily. Do so!)

Whatever you do, don’t “peck” – lean into her ear as you
say something. Let her come to you! Leaning back is a
part of the general guideline of not showing more interest
in her than she is to you.

Another great practical tool for this is to look where your


feet point. This is a fun one to observe in others. Next
time you’re in a crowded club, look at couples. The guys
who seem to be failing with women will have their feet
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pointed right at the woman they’re interested in, while the


women’s feet are pointed off to the side.

The guys who are really successful will have women’s


feet pointing at them. When a hot girl enters a group,
notice how everyone’s feet rotate towards her. When a
less attractive girl does the same thing, everyone’s feet
will stay pointed generally in the direction of the highest-
value person in the group.

The feet end up being a subconscious indicator of


interest. Since one key rule of game is to not appear
more interested in her than she is in you, it’s important,
then, to not let your feet point more towards her than hers
point towards you. If you can keep track of this one, you’ll
notice it powerfully reduces “overeager” vibes which can
kill your game.

VERBAL COMMUNICATION
DIRECT APPROACH

These openers involve simply walking up to a girl and


saying,
“Hi, you are absolutely beautiful” Or, “I came
up to say hi, coz you’re really gorgeous.”
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For these openers to work, you must already be


perceived as high value. They’re great if you get an
approach invitation (AI) from the girl. If she’s giving you
IOI, you can approach her directly.

They also work well if you are already the social center
of the room – if by gaming other people you’ve made
yourself a positive center of attention. Don’t use direct
opener in approaching girls with guys. You might get in
trouble.

A lot of beginner guys are terrified that someone will


recognize their opener, or ask a question like, “Are you a
member of Pua Academy?” or “Do you know Smooth?’”

Don’t be scared to try everything I give you.

Here are the samples of Direct Openers.

• “Are you confident enough to accept a


sincere compliment? You are stunning.“

Compliment her on something she’s wearing or her hair


or just style in general. The trick is compliment openers
are to never compliment her on her physical beauty.

• “You have an incredibly energy”


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• “Hey, What’s up? Where are you going? My


name is x-name…”
• “How are you? You’re cute.
• “Are you friendly/interesting? You look like
someone I’d like to meet.”
• “Hi, I like you and I’d like to get to know you”
• “Hey, I know this may seem unusual, but I
saw you walking by and I just had to come up
and tell you, that you walk with the most
incredible energy!”
• Me: Congratulations
Her: What, why when?
Me: You passed my first test – you look
interesting which made me come here and
start to talk to you. Now I want to know if you
are fun.
• “I saw you over there and… You are really…
Really… …. …. Beautiful. I just had to come
over and say hi. Who are you?”
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INDIRECT APPROACH

This is one of the most common types of opener. The


objective of the indirect opener is to first get the girls
attention and then transition into a more natural topic off
the approach.

Indirect approach is a very powerful technique because


most people are open to having conversations with
strangers and generally will not reject the PUA’s
approach unless he comes across as creepy.

The advantage of indirect approach is that they do not


put the guys at much risk of getting rejected because
they are not directly making any advances. They allow
guys to “fly under the radar,” so to speak, and gradually
build attraction with girls.
They also allow guys to get to know a little more about
girls before making his intentions known.

The downside of indirect approach is that, if you do not


eventually show intent, the conversation will end up
being platonic. Some guys feel that direct approaches
are more genuine and that they screen out women who
are not interested in a relationship.
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Here are the samples of Indirect Openers.

• “Hey – you guys from here? Cause I’m just


visiting the city… thinking of living here, but
you know the thing with big cities like this is
they can be very anonymous…”
• Grab a magazine, picture, newspaper, item,
anything! Then just examine it, and turn to her
and ask, “What do you think of how X looks?”
or “Can you believe X!?”
• “You know, I almost wore that EXACT SAME
THING tonight. That would have been SO
embarrassing.”
• “Hey, they say you can tell the exact mood a
girl is in by the length of the heel on her shoe.
If it’s really tall, even if she doesn’t realize it,
she wants hot sex, and if it’s really low she’s
not feeling very sexual. Hmmmm….”
• “My friends and I are arguing. Who lies more,
men or women?”
• “Quick question guys, I need a female opinion
on something. Is it okay to break your bf or gf
in a single text?”
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• “Do I look like a drug dealer?”


• “Do I look like gay?”
• “Which one is faster, horse or camel?”
• “Which one tastes better, caramel or mocha
frappe?”
• Bookstore opener. When in the bookstore, ask
her this:
• “Have you ever read any type of books?”.
• “I just can’t find what I’m looking for. How is that
book of yours – is it any good?
• Have you read the book titled *say any book
that you know*.
• Excuse me, are you a fan of this book? What
can you say?
• Excuse me, do you know any good books on
relationships? My friend wants to spice up her
sex life, what you would recommend?

SITUATIONAL OPENERS

• “I wonder what music are you listening to? It puts


a smile on your face.”
• “Did you see the fight outside?”
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• “Are you lost? I’m lost too. Together we will be


lost, isn’t it amazing?”
• “Hey, what’s going on? It’s the weekend, the
music is good, the dance floor is
• pumping, why aren’t you up there having a good
time?”
• “Guys, listen. I once knew a guy who could burp
for 15 seconds!! Isn’t that
• AWESOME?”
• “I’m just curious. What’s the difference between
Lugaw and Arrozcaldo?”

OPINION OPENER

• “I’ve been thinking about seeing the movie (insert


romantic movie title) but my friends said I would
be gay if I went to see the movie. What do you
think? Is it ok for a guy to watch romantic
movies?”
• “Have you been to a house party? What if
someone you’re avoiding shows up and you have
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to look completely enthralled in conversation to


keep them from talking to you?”
• “Hey people, let me ask you something, my best
friend just died, and his girlfriend started hitting on
me. How long should I wait before I start dating
her?”
• “Hey guys! Does coffee really stain your teeth?
My friend drinks this coffee through a straw to
keep his teeth white. What do you think- should
we be worried? Cause I love coffee.”
• “I’m thinking of dying my hair, TOTALLY
BLONDE. What can you say about that?”
• “Excuse me, do you think smiles are contagious?”
Then give her a big smile until she smiles back.
“See? I knew it! What’s your name?”
• “Hey guys, I need a female opinion. Do girls think
the rock star (say any rock star) is hot?”
• Hey girls, let me ask you something. Does size
really matter? (All they think is you are thinking
about the size of the penis. Misinterpret it)”
• “Hey, should guys like us wear make-up?”
• “Does this (Shirt) make me fat?”
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DELIVERY
What is Delivery?

The way in which someone says something which


includes gestures, tonality, eye contact, words, and
overall energy and aura.

What’s the best way to deliver your line, gambits, stories


and techniques?

Words do matter, or course. However, it’s not JUST the


words that create attraction. Attraction happens even
more in the delivery. Delivery is key in creating attraction
and making an impact. Without it, we are just
monotonous and just words. As such, it is extremely
important to practice one’s delivery not only in pick up,
but in our jobs and everyday lives.

The subtext. How you speak. How you carry yourself.


You sub-communicate to women what you’re feeling
inside–whether you’re confident or insecure–in the way
you carry yourself.

Deliver your gambits with a lot of hesitation, while looking


at the ground, and talking too fast, you’ll make women
feel uncomfortable. Your sets will crash and burn.
However, deliver your gambits with confidence, and the
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women will want to keep talking to you. Hello attraction,


how are you?

BODY LANGUAGE
Body language is the non-verbal communication of a
person’s body and how it conveys to others. It is the
physical manifestation of the artist’s internal state.

Body language is one of the most important things that a


pickup artist needs to master because it is one of the first
things that other people notice about him. Studies have
shown that the majority of communication between
people is non-verbal, meaning even the most clever
opener or routine may fail miserably if the body language
is poor.

Body language consists of the way you turn your head,


stand, walk, sit, move your hands, shoulder and deliver
your stories.

All movements are at half-speed, and every movement


has a deliberate purpose. Fidgeting is not moving with
purpose. It’s a form of tension, not relaxation. When in
doubt, stay still, calm, and collected. There’s no need to
move when you don’t have to.
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FACIAL EXPRESSION

The conveyance or non-conveyance of our face when we


are in a normal state of energy and being. The way you
look at her, move your lips, how you do eye to eye
contact and smile.

In pickup, guys often start “fake-smiling” as they walk up


to approach a girl. As such, the approach appears
contrived and forced. Having a friendly default makes
you look like a guy who is always smiling, and not the
creepy guy who lets out a chilling smile every time he
sees you as “hot chick.”

The best way is to smile genuinely when you first say


hello, then go back to default and react according to the
conversation, in a genuine way.

There are a lot of things you can do with vocal tonality.


Mastering this is super important to becoming an
awesome guy. A lot of guys have a hard time switching
to strong vocal from their normally weaker voices, and
this is ok.

Try practicing in front of the mirror or when you are alone.


Some of the best political orators have practice speaking
in front of the mirror, or in private. As with all skill-sets,
practice makes perfect.
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VOCAL TONALITY

When talking to women, vocal tonality is one of the most


important. It’s how you project your value. Some tone can
show seeking rapport, or breaking rapport. It shows how
confident you are or just fake confidence.

For you to be able to project alpha male, always deepen


your voice and the pitch of the last word of the sentence
should go down. It conveys confidence and alpha male.

FALSE TIME CONSTRAINT


When you enter a group of people or girls, you will break
into their environment and maybe interrupt their
conversation.

You are a stranger to them, so they don’t know if you're


a cool guy who will bring them fun, cause most guys who
do this are needy, boring and the worst part, creepy or
they don’t know when it’s time to go and keep staying
there with a weird vibe.

That's why you use a false time constraint, or FTC, to tell


them you will leave them very quickly. So if you see those
indicators of disinterests (IOD), it will not last long. But,
when the conversation is good and everybody is having
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fun, they don’t want you to leave anymore, you also don’t
have to because it’s a false time constraint.

The second benefit is, you are showing that your time is
scarce, you can be gone every second so they feel a
small pressure to invest in the conversation that it keeps
holding you.

You don’t need to use a false time constraint on every


approach, it’s mainly for situations where you could
disrupt a conversation or when your target is sitting
between her friends.

A false time constraint works even better, if also your


body language displays that you're on the way, for
example sitting like you would leave any second.

It’s also possible to trigger the same effect only with your
body language itself, it’s called: Body Rocking.

“Hey guys, before I go… (say your line)“

“I gotta for a second but… (say your line)”

“I’m just waiting for my friend, and just wanna ask if…
(say your line)

If she gives you indicators of disinterest, you can just


leave immediately without the feeling of rejection.
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CONGRUENCE TEST / SHIT


TEST

Congruence test or Shit Tests is when women play the


superiority role, put you down, give you shit, and
disrespect you.

They want to see if you can handle them. For if you can’t
handle their shit, how are you going to protect them from
the world of shit that exists?

A congruence test can take many forms. It can be non-


verbal, such as a girl getting close to you and seeing if
you become nervous. You should not flinch, as beautiful
women are common in this lifestyle. It can be a fake
congruence test such as, “Will you get me a drink?”

If you convey alpha male characteristics but compliance


to this request without asking for something in return, the
woman’s intuition will sense incongruency, forcing her to
throw more tests.

A test can also take the form of a shit test/neg, such as,
“This is boring. That guy over there is cute.” Alpha male
do not tolerate bad behavior, and ignorance will not work
on this particular shit test.
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In response, you can say, “Yeah, he is sooo cute. He can


be our sugar daddy? Come on, let’s go meet him. I will
introduce you.” Flip the script. Ignore irrelevant shit tests,
and appropriately punish and reward good and bad
behavior.

Passing one congruence test may not get you all the way
to sex, as women throw these out throughout the
seduction timeline. The most effective way to pass
congruence test is, in reality, to become truly congruent.

DEMONSTRATION OF HIGH
VALUE

What creates Attraction? Value. Period.

If you don’t have value, there’s no way she’ll be attracted


to you. It could be social value, face value or anything
that can help you produce Survival and Reproduction
value.

You can convey through story or action to increase the


perceived value of an alpha male within a setting, which
results in increased attraction and interest from the
opposite sex.
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My mentor, Mystery, defines top 5 DHV

1. Preselected by other women

You should convey that you have other or past


women in your life. If you have value to beautiful
girls then you automatically have value to her. It
is the most powerful DHV and attraction switches
in evolutionary biology.

2. Leader of men

You have to convey that you are an alpha male


and social intelligence. Provider of social proof
and survival resources. It can be the boss, the
leader of your group of friends or the decision
maker of your pack.

Leaders can exist in small social groups, or larger


ones. Sometimes the leader is not officially
announced, much like an unconscious alignment
of social values.

3. Protector of loved ones

Should convert that you have the ability to protect


her, her friends, children, family, and those
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around you. This DHV gives her the comfort


feeling. You should show that you can protect her
from her enemy or specially from other guys.

4. Ability and willingness to emote

You have to demonstrate to her very clearly that


you are someone who follows their emotions.
This is the ability to switch vibes and show
emotions to connect with her. It isn’t enough to be
strong, but you need to have a tender side too.
Women in general think emotionally. If you can
connect this way, create emotional impact, you
would do much better with women. If you can’t
even create attraction, or connect with women.

5. Risk Taker

Someone who takes risk is very very attractive.

There are many other DHVs like these

• Wealth & Family background (perceived)


• Looks and Healthy Body
• Sense of humor
• Talent
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• Social Intelligence
• Fun and positive emotions
• Handling social pressure
• Sense of style
• Willingness to walk away
• Having strong personal values and
conviction beyond anything else

All of these DHVs relate to: a solid congruence to a cool


inner core and unique personality.

COMPLIMENTING
Attraction is a two-way street. You DHV first. When she
gives you interest, get her to DHV to you. That way
there’s mutual attraction based on substance. She’s
earned your interest. It’s not because she’s interested in
you. Now, it’s time to compliment her. But you just don’t
give compliments right away.

A compliment is a gift. It’s a sign of appreciation that you


extend to another person. Now, I see a lot of men who
want to compliment a girl. But 9/10 times, these
compliments are usually because the girl is hot, or
beautiful, or pretty.
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In a broader sense, when you are interacting with a girl,


you should also only compliment when she’s earned it.
In this sense, you can NEVER compliment a girl on her
looks, especially not at first. Why? Because looks are not
earned. You should never tell a girl, “You know… you’re
really beautiful” because her beauty wasn’t EARNED. If
you see that the girl consciously dressed up FOR YOU,
THEN you can reward her for the EFFORT, by telling her
how good she looks TONIGHT (when you know she put
in that effort FOR YOU). But you should never
compliment looks for the sake of looks alone. It has not
been EARNED.

Compliment unusual things about her like her attitude,


vibe, even her act.

• “I love your vibe, sooo energetic”


• “You look so smart, I don’t usually meet
someone like you”
• “I love the way you talk, you’re a good
conversationalist.”
• “You seem like, you could be relatively cooler
than average chicks”
• “Your energy is so positive.”
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• “I can tell you’re classy”


• “You’re so classy, what are you doing in this
kind of place.”

Use these lines, I’ve been using these lines for a decade.
Trust me, a lot better than complimenting their looks.

QUALIFY

Qualification is one of the most important techniques in


the art of dating. What does qualification mean?

Qualification is the ideal requirement for a girl to talk to


or date a guy. Also applies to guys when choosing girls
they sleep with or date.

The idea of qualification is simple. You qualify a woman


by telling her what qualities she has that make you
interested in her.

The rule of thumb for qualification is that the less obvious


and more specific the quality she has that you praise, the
more good it does for you. Ever heard the classic advice,
“Praise a pretty girl for her brains and a smart girl for her
looks?” That’s an application of this principle.
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The hot girl has had hundreds, if not thousands, of guys


tell her she’s beautiful. If you tell her she’s beautiful
you’re just making it clear that you’re no different from
anyone else. But if you’re the one guy who sees beyond
her beauty and can praise some subtle aspect of her
personality, you are golden!

So, how do you qualify?

• Here are the samples of qualifiers.


• “What do you have more than your looks?”
• “What do you do for fun?”
• “Do you have a passion outside of work?”
• “What did you want to be when you were 7?”
• “If you could be anything in this world. What
would you want to be?”
• “What would you say are your three best
qualities?”

Importantly, do not show her you're interested directly


after the response they give. I always inquire deeper into
the interest, topic, or issue. Only when they say
something unique should you actually show that you're
interested (or reward and relate).
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COMFORT

COMFORT BUILDING
LOCATION
A location that you and her can focus on each other and
continue to get to know each other.

How to Isolate?

You know when it is time to build comfort when you


isolate the girl to any area with you alone. But most men
don’t know how to Isolate a girl. Let’s say you notice
those IOIs, your next step is to try to get some alone time
with her.

What if she has friends?

Don’t worry, I studied Group Theory for a decade. It’s


tough to get a woman away from her friends. It’s tough
because her friends are her safety net and it’s their job to
keep her safe, especially guy friends. But provided you
did everything right, not only should you be charming
your special lady but also the group so you’ve got that
going for you.
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But you still need to follow a few rules to keep her super
team of friends from worrying, so here’s how it goes:

You have to get at least 3-4 IOIs from the girl and you
know you’ve achieved attraction to you. You need to
know how to handle the group. Always remember, if you
win her friends, you already win her.

Just address the group and say:

“I've been alienating your friends but there’s something


about your friend I find interesting. You guys mind if I talk
to her alone for just a few minutes right over there?”
(point to a spot near the group but far enough that you’re
out of earshot).

Now, that sentence you just read doesn’t get said to a


group of women or any group often. It’s totally alpha and
confident to ask the group for this and they’ll respect it.

Unless there’s a really drunk, creepy or a super tough


wing-woman that loathes you the group usually always
just nods and says “Sure!”. Sometimes they even say,
you can bring her home.”

You can’t prepare yourself for all contingencies so let’s


just say the situation goes smooth and no one objects
which is 9 times out of ten. The girl will have heard what
you said so at this point look her in the eye and say “Let’s
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talk for a minute over there before I go.” Then put your
arm out suggestively so that she takes it.

Walk with the girl over to your isolation spot – you’re now
in isolation.

WHY AND HOW TO BUILD


COMFORT
Learn how to build comfort because meeting and dating
men is a scary prospect for a woman. Think about all the
creepy and needy guys she met in her life and the guys
that have just tried to get in her pants. It’s no wonder she
has her defenses up.

You need to earn her trust, show her that you aren’t
crazy, and that you’re interested in more than just her
body. This is the key to her really wanting to give you her
number and her answering when you call it a few days
later.
That’s the why and here’s the how. Neil Strauss, one of
the famous PUA created an awesome gambit called The
Cube, a great routine to use in comfort building because
it’s a good way to get to know someone on a deeper
level.

In addition to running routines, a good option in the


comfort building phase is to listen.
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You already have this girl interested in you so now you


need to get to know her. Ask her broad open ended
questions: “What you got more than meets the eye?”,
“What are your passions?” “What do you have more than
your looks?” You seem different from these other women
in this place, what makes you special?” I think you get
the idea. If she starts talking and doesn’t stop that’s a
great sign. Your job now is to listen intently and look into
her eyes.
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THE CUBE BY NEIL STRAUSS


(CREDITS THE GAME)

You: Have you ever done the cube?… Ok… I’ll ask you
a bunch of questions, and when I’m done I’ll know
everything about you. Are you ready? Do you have a
good imagination? …Good.”

You: “Now, imagine in front of you a landscape” (I’ll


usually gesture with my hand for them to imagine it in
front of them). 3.“And in the landscape there is a CUBE.
Notice what size it is. What color is it? What is it made
of? Where is it?”

You: “Ok, next you see a ladder. Notice, where is it in


relation to the cube? What is it made of? What size is it?”
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You: “Next there are flowers. Where are they? How


many? What do they look like? What color are they?”

You: “Next, there is a horse. What does it look like?


Where is it? What is it doing?”

You: “And, last there is a storm. Where is it? What is it


doing? What does it look like?”

You: When she has visualized the entire image, then you
can tell her the meanings.

Visual Imagery:

The Cube = Yourself


Ladder = Your Aspirations
Flowers = Your Friends
Horse = Your Ideal Lover
Storm = Your Challenges and Problems

There are plenty of resources that will offer you exact


interpretations. But, these really shouldn’t be necessary.

Remember, the point isn’t to “do it right.” The key is in


giving your own interpretation, and this interpretation can
be developed from your own mind, not from what a book
tells you.
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CONTINGENCIES
In case the routine doesn’t work or your cold reads are
not correct, the artist has a few contingencies:

Be vague and use generalities – Talk about women, life


and relationships in general. You will be surprised how
many reoccurring themes happen. In doing so, she will
realize that you understand people, you understand
women, and you understand her.

You can ask clarifying questions. Ask her more detailed


questions if her description of her cube and landscape is
vague. Ask her how the objects in her life relate to each
other.

Keep your statements positive. Fortune tellers usually


mention positive reads. As should the artist, to keep the
interaction fun and light.

Re-frame negative images: For example: a weak and


small horse means that she has had too many lame and
weak men in her life. The reframe is that she really needs
one that is strong and healthy and her search is almost
there.

Take advantage of the horse. The horse represents her


inner desires. It is a great time to demonstrate that you
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know what women want. If her horse isn’t ideal, then tell
her it is an image of what she has attracted to her in the
past, and what she really wants is actually the opposite.

Burst the tension now and then with a little cocky and
playful comment. By making a joke or teasing her, you
will keep it fun and keep her interested. Just be careful
because she may be in a very vulnerable state to be
sharing with you, so don’t overdo it.

An example: “The Cube means that…. (pause) …. You


want my body. (smile)”

Use all of the little parts to get a bigger picture of her. Try
to get a broad sense of who she is as a person, and then
you can use that understanding to lead your
interpretation.

Share your own Cube. Tell her about your cube and how
it relates to hers.

Don’t reveal everything. Deliberately leave parts out, or


hint that there is something more. Always leave her
wanting more.

This is a key cornerstone of seduction. ALWAYS leave


your audience wanting more.
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SEDUCTION

SEDUCTION LOCATION
As much as I want to teach everything about seducing
women, I’d rather keep this topic wholesome. This is the
most sensitive topic when it comes to art of dating. I
already got viral because of what I said about seduction
phase. So, this time I’ll be very careful. Besides, I don’t
want you or others get in trouble.

Some might not get this theory and technique. This is it.
And this is a CRUCIAL step.

You MUST seduce her if you want a serious sexual


relationship.

You should know and be aware on what’s going on.

If you feel that she’s not comfortable, then don’t force or


don’t continue it. Take your time. Always make her
comfortable and you’ll see. She might be the one who
seduce you.

You should know how to turn up the heat. Learn how to


kiss her and set the mood for sex.
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Anyway, if you want to learn the step-by-step on how to


seduce women, you can always sign up for my Boot
Camp (haha!) and I’ll teach everything from bringing girls
to your house, what’s your first move, how to touch or
kiss her, how to undress and heavy make out and so on.

I created a step-by-step guide so women don’t freak out


so sex will be smooth and also beg you for more.

Good luck on S-Location.


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EXPERIENCE REPORT BY KEN


I gotta say, before taking bootcamp my game was a
mess. I would go out to clubs to try to meet girls, but I
won't have any solid interactions with them. The fear of
rejections gets the better of me.

The bootcamp taught me to overcome that fear, how to


have proper solid interactions with girls in a way that is
giving me value, and making them attracted to me. Up to
the point that I could have a same night pull from a high
value set that I met at the club.

It all starts from the opener, the proper body language,


telling/showing the right DHV, to kino and the most
important part ,the sex. But of course I'm not gonna
elaborate more than that. There's a very essential lesson
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that the bootcamp has taught me that happens after the


lay that separates PUA to the f*ck boys and will leave the
sets wanting you more. That's for you guys to find out
once you sign up to bootcamp.

A boot camp is a systematic detailed procedure that


doesn't just focus on your actions and way of speaking,
but also on your inner game. There might be a lot of if's
from guys out there thinking and asking themselves “Do
I really need this?” or would say maybe some other time.

Let me tell you a story. I was a graduating college student


when I took bootcamp, that's a one on one with Coach
Jack and Smooth at a young age. I know very well that I
should start investing and I started investing in myself.
These guys, they don't joke around. If you watch their
videos they are really funny and cocky but when it comes
to boot camp, it’s a different ball game. They have the
coaching aura and they’re very strict. Jack showed me
how it's done. He approached these gorgeous girls,
probably models.

He just opened them very casually. I listen to him and


watch the girl's reaction and it's gold as I watched him
develop some attractions towards her, which is pretty
obvious by the looks on her face and her actions.

After that, I just went on and applied what Jack taught me


before we got into the club. I approached about 20
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attractive girls and got their numbers, which is our main


goal that night. Now, you might think that’s pretty easy.
The most important thing here is for the girl to reply and
they all did. That's where the text game comes in handy.

The bootcamp was 3 nights and on daytime if I am free,


I would go on dates with these girls and apply the comfort
and seduction phase. On the second night I was all
pumped out. We always do a briefing before we start our
night game. I keep on applying what coach Jack and
Smooth taught me.

I saw a very beautiful girl and the moment I approached


her, there's no awkwardness. I could see her body
language and I started noticing the IOI's. That's when I
went in for the kiss after telling her my kiss gambit and
got her number. It was very tempting but it's too early to
end the night so I approached other girls . The third night,
I could really see my progress, we didn't focus on the
numbers that time but on building really solid connections
with girls .

My real journey just started after the bootcamp. I would


go out 3 nights a week into clubs. Wednesday nights are
for Blackmarket and Friday and Saturday at The Palace.
I keep on practicing and practicing because consistency
is the key.
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After months since bootcamp, everything changed. My


mindset, body language, belief, self-esteem, confidence
and the way I treat myself. At first I thought it's just about
women. It was beyond my imagination. What Smooth
taught me is not even about women. It’s about finding
myself, who I am and what I can do for this world.

I know a lot of guys there are thinking that they can pull
it off by just reading and watching a bunch of videos. My
advice is go out there, get yourself a legit mentor and join
the bootcamp, preferably one on one from Smooth
coaching. You'd be doing yourselves a big favour and
save a lot of time.

Ken
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A PROMOTER AT THE PALACE


MS. ERIS SY

“My first meeting with you was a problem.


Meeting you again years later was a blessing”

I’ll tell you how I met the guys at PUA Academy. No, they
didn’t try to get my number nor tried to get me on a date
(except for King). I was the one who actually gave my
phone number to them.

I was a college student back then when I was working as


a Promoter for The Palace, the biggest and hottest club
in Metro Manila. For the guys who don’t know what that
is, it’s a person who invites people in the club and only
people on a promoter’s guestlist could enter. Exclusivity.
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Back in 2016, I was widening my social circle as a


promoter and I saw a group of skinny looking dudes
outside the entrance of Pool Club. Some of them looked
a little nervous and there was this one dude who was
kinda leading them. I haven’t seen them before. They
must be new, so I nonchalantly went up to them.

“Hey. Why are you guys outside when all the fun is
inside? You’re missing out.” I said.

“We’re trying to get in but we’re not sure how.” The guy
with a top man bun and braces replied.

I talked to them for a bit outside and I noticed that this


manbun guy was doing all the talking. The rest of the
guys were just kinda quiet and shy. Manbun introduced
himself as King and they we’re just out for a good time. I
introduced myself as a promoter and told them to contact
me anytime they wanted to get in. I mean, they’re just a
couple of dudes out for a good time. Who would have
known that they’ll be the same group of people who
would give me a headache two years later?

Months passed and I noticed that King was bringing in


more guys. Good for me (as a promoter). 2 out of the 4
nights a week that I worked, King and his friends were
there. Always there, always present, perfect attendance.
Okay, there must be something going on ‘cause I never
had guests who came this frequently and this many.
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I watched them. I watched how they would jump from girl


to girl. I watched how King would bring his shy friends
over to a group of girls. I watched how King would guide
his shy friends into talking to people. That’s when it hit
me. King is a pick-up artist.

My friendship with King grew as the years passed by. I


knew him as a self-development coach and a pick-up
artist. He was a genuine guy. Kinda weird and dorky
looking and he says the weirdest sh*t at times, but a good
guy with pure intentions.

One night, I saw a post on Facebook regarding a scandal


with the PUA guys. I messaged the girl what’s up and she
told me that the guys of PUA are harassing and stalking
girls. That these guys we’re posting nude photos of the
women they slept with on a Facebook group. I told her I’ll
look into it.

Articles, posts, and the news was filled with these guys’
names. All of the names that surfaced on the internet
were under my guestlist. Yikes.

Palace management and the co-promoters were asking


me about the issue since they were using my name,
mostly, to get in. They wanted them banned from the
club. I was stunned.
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I messaged King because I knew him. I knew him


differently from how everyone else in the Palace knew
him. I wanted to hear his side of the story ‘cause I couldn’t
believe what was being said about them.

I hated how the media painted these PUA as


womanizers. I hated how they took their lectures out of
context and branded them as rapists.

I never met Smooth but I knew him by his real name. He


was all over the news. I reviewed my guestlist, looking
for his name and there he was. Was he the mastermind
in all of this? I thought to myself “How thick is his skin for
him to have the audacity to call himself Smooth?”.

But anyway, I knew that these guys aren’t doing what the
media was saying they were.

These guys help the little guys who are stuck in the
friendzone, the shy guys, the guys who are so scorned
by women in their past. They’re not teaching how to
manipulate women. They’re teaching you how to be a
better version of YOU to get the woman you want.
They’re teaching about social dynamics. They’re
teaching about psychology. They’re teaching about body
language.
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Rapists don’t pull back when a woman says no. PUA’s


make sure they earn their right to avoid hearing no but
when they do, they pull back.

Some of their teachings are hard to swallow, especially


for soft-hearted people (mostly women) because it’s the
hard truth.

A couple of years has passed and so has the issue. I’m


glad that they didn’t stop teaching. I’m glad to have met
them because my mentality towards life changed. I’m
glad I knew them.

Until we meet again.

Eris

There couldn’t be a more perfect time for me to meet


you again.
ABOUT THE AUTHOR

Smooth is a date coach based in The


Philippines. He is the author of Smooth
Seduction and the founder of PUA Academy,
now Smooth Coaching. He has appeared on
The Sweet Life on Q, Good Times with Mo on
Magic 89.9, Taco Tuesdays on Boys Night Out,
and The Gentleman’s Lounge on DWIZ 882.

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