Sex and relationship advice, sexual health, sexuality, and sex tips – our full archive of pieces on sex and sexuality
September 2024
Sexual healing
My wife has little interest in foreplay but I can’t get aroused without it
My GP has prescribed a low dose of Viagra but it isn’t enough for a satisfactory erection. How do we find a way forward?
Want: Sexual Fantasies, edited by Gillian Anderson review – intriguing survey of desire
Inspired by research for her role in Sex Education, the actor has collected a rich picture of modern women’s sexuality through clandestine contributions
This is how we do it
This is how we do it: ‘We have phone sex once a month – and it feels primal’
Paloma Faith’s swipe at dating apps is justified – but we won’t give them up
‘I think it’s natural’: why has sexual choking become so prevalent among young people?
August 2024
This is how we do it
This is how we do it: ‘Bondage sex is my way of meditating. It helps me destress’
Babygirl review – Nicole Kidman overwhelmed by lust as CEO having torrid and toxic affair
Nicole Kidman’s erotic drama Babygirl sets pulses racing at Venice film festival
Book of the day
Want by Gillian Anderson review – let me be your fantasy
Broca’s Aphasia review – Taiwanese sex doll service offers eerie insight into male domain
This is how we do it
This is how we do it: ‘I shut down whenever we try to discuss our sex life’
‘My moans of pleasure fill the echoing church’: eight women share their erotic fantasies
‘We’re not as open about sex as we imagine’: Gillian Anderson on pleasure, powerful women, and collecting secret fantasies
Weekend
Actor Gillian Anderson on female desire, singer Chappell Roan’s slow and steady rise, and how to stop people-pleasing – podcast
Today in Focus
The sex lives of strangers: creating ‘This is how we do it’ – podcast
When a couple doesn’t want more kids (or any) who should get snipped?
Sexual healing
My partner and I only have sex three times a year – and I am frustrated
Behold the new sexy Pirelli calendar, a perfect example of Post#MeToo creep
Barbara Ellen
This is how we do it
This is how we do it: ‘I suggested inviting another person, but we settled on a couples tantric massage’
The Q&A
Kellie Maloney: ‘I lived in fear of being found out for 60 years’
