01/6How to protect your child from a toxic partner?

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As your child grows up, especially in their teens, they might get into a relationship. Some teens are vocal about their romantic relationship, while others may keep it a secret from their parents. As a parent, you want your child to be safe and not get hurt. It is important that you build a transparent relationship with your child so that they are comfortable to share their feelings with you, especially if they are in a problematic relationship.

Here are some ways you can help your teen if they are in a toxic or abusive relationship.
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02/6Listen and do not accuse or blame

Listen and do not accuse or blame
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It is great if your child comes to you to share the problem they are having in their relationship. Make sure you do not accuse or blame them for their situation. Instead of telling them ‘this’ or ‘that’, try to listen more and provide your child a safe space. Make them feel like they made the right choice by telling you about their troubles.

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03/6Offer your unconditional support

Offer your unconditional support
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Your child’s partner may tell them that as a parent, you might get mad at them if they tell you the truth about their relationship. It is important you give your unconditional support, no matter what. This can help your child to gain confidence to separate themselves from their toxic partner.


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04/6Talk about the red flags, not the person

Talk about the red flags, not the person
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If you directly talk negatively about your child’s boyfriend or girlfriend, they may feel bad as they might still be in love. This may drive them further away from you. So, when you try to have a conversation, focus on the unhealthy behavior or actions of their partner, instead of blaming them as a person. This will also help our child identify the red flags more clearly.

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05/6Avoid ultimatums for break-up

Avoid ultimatums for break-up
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Do not pressurize or force your child to break up from their toxic partner, especially by giving ultimatums or warnings. It is important for your child to have the strength to walk away from their toxic partner. It is better to prepare them for the break-up, than rush them to walk away when they are not emotionally prepared.


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06/6Help them plan their next steps

Help them plan their next steps
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Creating a safety plan on how to act forward can help your child navigate their way out of a toxic relationship. They will feel more prepared on how to act the next time their partner acts in a manipulating or toxic manner. Remember that it is your child’s journey and while it is natural to feel angry, you have to ensure supporting them while they take control of their life.

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